Gu Nian: "I haven't reached this point yet. I'm deep in my mind. As long as he doesn't have a bad emotional experience and a troubled ex girlfriend, I'm still willing to give it a try if our three outlook personalities fit together."
Jiang Chan: "then observe more. If Shen Shiqing likes you, he will take the initiative to express his thoughts to you. So far, I haven't seen the marriage line on Shen Shiqing's face, which shows that he is single and clean."
"As for his previous emotional experience, I can't see it."
Gu Nian: "that's all right, sister. I find you are the biggest plug-in in the world! No matter who they are, their thoughts can't hide from you."
Jiang Chan: "it's OK, too. I understand when I see more. Sometimes people think it's funny."
Gu Nian spread out on the big bed: "I'm afraid to think about this, because sometimes I see it too clearly, and my inner disappointment will be a little more."
Jiang Chan: "but people should live soberly. The false happiness will be revealed one day."
Gu Nian: "false happiness... Yes, false happiness will be exposed in the end. Why did the severe cold marry me? I later understood that I was the one who retreated and sought second place."
"Because Du Miao got married abroad, he was so obsessed that he didn't wait for the end. At that time, I liked him and was the daughter of my father's comrade in arms. In order to cope with the family, he naturally stayed with me."
"How happy I was at that time. The man I liked for the first time in my life also liked me. Because of false love, I felt at that time that I was almost the happiest person except my native family."
"He likes my short hair and wearing a long red skirt. He takes me to high-end restaurants to celebrate every anniversary. But later I learned that Du Miao has short hair and she likes a long red skirt. The restaurant the cold takes me to is her favorite restaurant."
"One by one, how ridiculous?" Gu Nian's eyes were empty: "the most bloody thing is that Du Miao's first marriage was not happy. She came back from abroad and entangled with the cold again."
"What about me? What have I become? I have become a complete joke." Looking back today, she doesn't complain, but those are hidden in the bottom of her heart.
For the severe cold, she really has no feelings at all. She despises the severe cold from the bottom of her heart.
Jiang Chan: "now that you've done it all over again, don't give the people who have hurt you a second chance. I especially appreciate that you can keep a distance from the cold."
Gu Nian: "I just hate the person who has been entangled with my ex girlfriend, which makes me feel that he is indecisive and muddled. And now the cold has nothing to do with me, but I will always remember the pain he once brought to me."
"I will always tell myself not to love someone who doesn't take you seriously. Although there are cold reasons for my unhappy marriage, I think my mistake is that I am too short of love and too greedy for the insignificant warmth he gives."
"Because I seldom get these warmth, I feel that the cold is too precious to give, but now looking back, I think I'm too naive and naive."
"There is no savior in this world. In the final analysis, the way of life is to walk alone. It's just that some people are lucky to meet like-minded partners, while others are unlucky."
Jiang Chan: "let me judge your marriage with Yan Han. Yan Han must be wrong. He assumed his husband's identity, but failed to fulfill his responsibilities in the marriage. He didn't respect and love you. The other half's mistake is not in your character. In the final analysis, it is the brand made by Gu Qingcheng and Zhang Yun for more than 20 years."
"Among them, you are the complete victim. It's not because Gu Qingcheng and his wife raised you, so they didn't make any mistakes at all. It's their biggest mistake not to cultivate their children's character well."
Jiang Chan said faintly, "if parents bring their children into the world, they should raise them to grow up healthily, which is both a responsibility and an obligation. The so-called health is not only physical health, but also psychological."
"But obviously, Gu Qingcheng and his wife only did the former."
Gu Nian turned over and looked at Jiang Chan sitting on the sofa beside the bed: "sister, you talk about these logically. Have you taught many people?"
Jiang Chan flicked her finger: "it's OK. I've seen a lot of kids, and I've seen a few like you. Well, the heart to heart talk time is over, you should have a rest."
Gu Nian raised a finger: "there's one last question. If I were really with Shen Shiqing, would you have an opinion, sister?"
Jiang Chan was puzzled: "why should I have a problem with you? This is your life. You have grown into an independent and self-improvement person. I believe you will manage your life well."
"It's just that people like Shen Shiqing are deep in the city. I still hope your life will be easier."
Gu Nian: "I don't know what's going on. I have no resistance to thoughtful and mature men. Maybe it's because I haven't met such people. I'm particularly eager to get emotional comfort from them."
Jiang Chan: "as you once said, pet you and love you, so that you can be the little girl in your heart without scruples?"
Gu Nian: "well, I just want to experience what it feels like to be spoiled and who I wanted to be spoiled with in my last life. All I got was indifference. So even if I do it again now, I know Gu Qingcheng has changed a lot, and I still can't open my heart to them."
"I'm a coward," I thought to myself. "I'll be very honest with people who haven't hurt me. But if they hurt me, I'll never open my heart to them again. Once bitten by a snake, I'm afraid of the well rope for ten years, that's me."
Jiang Chan: "it's human nature. I won't give others the chance to hurt me for the second time. People should know how to protect themselves. It's only a fool to let others hurt you again and again."
"If you really think Shen Shiqing is good, try your best. Although such a person has deep thoughts, if he really puts it in his heart, you will be very happy. Because he will take care of you and try to shelter you from the wind and rain. Of course, the premise is that you are attractive and can attract him."
Gu Nian put on an enchanting pose on the bed: "sister, I'm not attractive enough? I think I'm beautiful, talented and valuable. Shen Shiqing doesn't like me. That's his loss."