In Su Yun's memory at the age of six, yuan and song didn't get along very well. Yuan was the niece of the old lady, and they were their own family. Moreover, at that time, the old lady didn't know who song was. Only because song fell in love with Su Kun who marched in the south of the Yangtze River at first sight and even had to return to Beijing with Su Kun regardless of his parents' opposition, song Yanfang said she didn't care about her anymore, Only song's mother, Su Yunchu's grandmother, could not bear her little daughter's loneliness and helplessness, and held a secret stalemate.
Therefore, the old lady did not know that song was the daughter of song Yan, one of the generals of the northern expedition, or that she was the sister of Song Yu, the head of a prominent family in the south of the Yangtze River.
Therefore, she can't see the Song family. That's why there won't be much friendship between the yuan family and the Song family at that time.
It was not until the Song family died and came to pick up Su Yunchu that everything was clear. After all, song Yan had retired and had no successor, so he had no influence. Although the Song family had a high reputation in Jiangnan, it was in Jiangnan, not in Beijing.
Therefore, even if we know that Su Yun's early maternal family is also a famous family, we still treat her as before.
Just as now, Su Yunchu said to Mrs. yuan, in exchange for the old lady's anger, "what's your name, madam? Can Zhiyuan Hou be the housewife, and can't afford your mother?"
"Grandma joked. Yunchu's mother has passed away, and Yunchu's mother is also the direct mother of Zhiyuan Hou. Yunchu can only call his wife, not his mother. I think his wife will not want Yunchu to call your mother every day, but to recall his biological mother. In this way, it is disrespectful to his wife." Su Yunchu said faintly, if he really called Yuan's mother, She really can't call it out.
After hearing this, Yuan Shi smiled at the old lady, "mother, don't be angry. I think Yunchu misses his biological mother. It's nothing like this. As long as Yunchu knows that his daughter-in-law is the head mother of Hou's house, his mother or wife, his daughter-in-law naturally won't care."
Yuan's words seem to be general and unwilling to care about the younger generation, but they also implicitly contain some reminders and warnings - even if you don't call me mother, I'm still Zhiyuan Hou's housewife, not your dead mother.
Su also saw this formation, and hurriedly stroked the old lady's chest to give her comfort. He also said, "grandma, don't be angry. The third sister is a reasonable person, so it's not intentional."
The old lady snorted coldly and said nothing more.
The people sitting under the hall only looked at the farce and didn't say much.
But Su also seemed to suddenly think of something and said to Su Yunchu with a smile, "it's just that the three sisters are so convenient in the house. They still need to call their mother when they go out in the future. Otherwise, outsiders saw it and thought it was our discord in Zhiyuan Hou's family and didn't lose their father's face."
The understanding in the voice is very gentle. If people listen, they don't want to refuse.
But Su Yunchu didn't say anything. She was still standing in the middle of the room, and the old lady didn't ask her to sit aside.
After listening to Su's words, the old lady's tone on her chest finally slowed down, and her voice disappeared. She said, "Ran'er is more sensible. If our daughters in the Hou house are as sensible as you and friendly with sisters, why worry about the family's prosperity? Even if there are no men in our Hou house, they can flourish for a long time."
He didn't forget to look at Su Yun's first glance. "Did you hear that? Follow your big sister and learn more. In the past seven years, it's said that there are rows of scholarly families in Jiangnan and advocate etiquette. You haven't learned much."