When Su Zimu's parents come to Beijing, Tian Xianer is ready.
How can parents not be present when their son is married?
Even though I was prepared, I was at a loss all night when I received the news.
The news came yesterday afternoon when she came back from the east palace.
It was Xiaoyu who sent the news, along with a rumor from suzimu, to the effect that his parents wanted to see her when they came.
Therefore, this night, Tian xian'er hardly fell asleep, tossing and turning uneasily, thinking that she wanted to see Su Zimu's parents, she was at a loss.
"An ugly daughter-in-law always wants to see her in-law, which is unavoidable. Besides, you are not ugly."
Ye Chaoge said coolly.
Tian xian'er said, "it's time. You're still joking with me."
"Please help me think about what to do."
"Then what do you do? Are you afraid that they don't like you or that their coming will affect your marriage with suzimu? If it's the latter, you want to avoid it. The date of marriage has been decided, the gengti has been changed, and the overall situation has been decided. It won't affect you. "
After a pause, ye Chaoge said, "if you're afraid they don't like you, you think it's too early. People haven't seen you before. How do you know they don't like you?"
Tian xian'er wailed, "it's not just these."
"Oh?" Ye Chaoge is curious, "what else?"
"I..."
Tian xian'er sighed. She didn't hide it from her friends. "I'm afraid that they will stay after they come. It's nothing if they stay. After all, they are suzimu's parents. It's natural for them to live with their son. What I'm worried about is that I can't get along with them."
Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been the most complex.
There are very few people like Mozi and Qi. Take her aunt and her eldest cousin for example. They are friendly in front of outsiders, but in fact, it's hard to say a word inside.
It's not that my aunt is not good, or that my cousin is not. In her opinion, no matter what's the matter, it's not necessarily that anyone is wrong. It's just that they don't have the same idea. If they don't have the same idea, they can't get along with each other.
The eldest cousin was born in a big family and was well educated since childhood. She was a typical lady of a big family, and so was her aunt. Both of them couldn't get along, let alone her and Su Zimu's parents.
After listening to Tian xian'er, ye Chaoge understood.
In fact, Tian xian'er's worry is unreasonable.
She is the only daughter of Earl's house. She has been loved by thousands of people since she was a child. When she was a child, she was well-dressed and well fed. She never had to worry about who to make friends with, but often others did.
Such a birth is the pride of heaven.
Born with a good life experience, naturally more than others will be more expensive, temper is also bigger.
Getting along with others is a profound knowledge. Tian xian'er has never studied it, so she is afraid that she can't get along with Su Zimu's parents, and that she won't get along with them.
After all, it's hard to say that one is a spoiled daughter in the Earl's mansion, and the other is a couple in a remote mountain village who can't read a big word.
It's not just a little bit of a bad idea.
It's normal that Tian xian'er will worry.
"Have you ever asked Su Zimu if his parents are going to stay? Or will they go back when you get married? Or with you in May? "
Tian Xian son Leng Leng, "this, I did not ask ah."
Before, suzimu once mentioned that when she got married, her parents would come from her hometown. At that time, she took it for granted, and at that time, she was being "devastated" by her mother to learn this and that, so she didn't have enough energy to think about it.
When you have energy, you will forget about it.
Until yesterday
Xiaoyu's report not only reminds her of this, but also reminds her of being at a loss and uneasy. Where can she care for others and just think about what to do if she can't get along?
Originally, she didn't want to come back to the East Palace today, but when she stayed in the house, she would only think wildly, so she came to talk to her friends.
Tian xian'er feels aggrieved. She never dreamed that it would be so troublesome to be a parent. Originally, she was hesitating about leaving home to get married. Now, the arrival of the Su's parents makes it worse.
Suddenly, do not want to marry how to do?
Thinking, Tian xian'er also said it.
Ye Chaoge is her handkerchief. In front of her friends, she doesn't have so many worries.
Think of what, just like pour beans in general, all the way out.
Hearing her saying that she didn't want to get married, ye Chaoge couldn't help laughing, "you just started to retreat. When you become a relative in the future, don't you want to faint?"
"What do you mean?"
"Think about when I was pregnant with xiaolingdang, when I gave birth to her..."With ye Chaoge's words falling, Tian xian'er naturally thinks of her friend's hardships when she was pregnant with xiaolingdang, and the suffering when she was in production
There was a thrill.
Bitterly asked friends: "if I repent now, OK?"
The villain in ye Chaoge's heart was rolling with laughter, but it didn't show on her face. He gave her a look of self understanding and asked: "what do you say?"
Tian xian'er
"Ah! Why did I think so hard at that time? " The more Tian xian'er thought about it, the more she regretted it. If she was given a chance to choose again, would she choose to be an old girl at home all her life?
I don't know. She only knows that it's impossible to make a new choice. It's impossible all her life.
"Well, I'm afraid of you. How about you? Look at Myrtle. How is she now? What if you look at me again? It's not as terrible as you think. What's terrible is what you think of yourself. "
After saying so many words, ye Chaoge was thirsty. He took the fruit tea and sipped it. He didn't feel so dry. Then he continued: "if you want me to say, you don't have to be afraid. Su Zimu is not a muddle headed man. His parents should be sensible. Besides, people don't necessarily stay. You don't need to think about it now."
Before I got married, before the Su's parents came, I began to think about getting along in the future. It's really early.
Tian xian'er grabbed her friend's arm and said, "don't you think it's necessary to stay? What is the basis for this? "
"How long has suzimu been in the middle school?"
"Ah?"
Tian Xian Er calculated, "nearly two years, what does it matter?"
Seeing that she still didn't understand, ye Chaoge had to say, "Suzi's Mu Zhongdi is two years. He has been an official for at least a year and a half. Have you ever seen his parents come to Beijing?"
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