"It's me, your father. Qingyan, open the door. Dad wants to have a chat with you. " Outside the door came the voice of her father, Zhao Guozhi. Zhao Qingyan was slightly stunned, and soon straightened her messy hair. Then she got out of bed and opened the door.

"Dad... I'm going to bed. What are we talking about..." Zhao Qingyan keeps a pretty face down. She's afraid her red eyes will be seen by her father.

"Hey, dead girl, I don't know what you think, sleep? Sleep how pajamas also did not change, the eye is still red? " Zhao Guozhi is not clear. When he looks at Zhao Qingyan's eyes, he knows that the girl is cheating. He says with a smile, "how? What's on your mind? "

"No... your affairs can be solved smoothly. What's on your mind?" Zhao Qingyan sits back on the bed, his lie is exposed, some shy embarrassed way, "Dad, so late, early rest."

"So late? Girl, you see, it's only eight o'clock in the evening. What's the evening Zhao Guozhi pointed to the clock on the wall and said with a playful smile, "you are not a primary school student. Do you still need to go to bed so early?"

"Dad Zhao Qingyan cried out like a coquettish, as if in a silent protest, blaming her father for saying everything.

"Ha ha, my dear daughter, I'm your father. There are only two of us in this room. Do you still need to hide?" Zhao Guozhi looked at her beautiful daughter and sighed, "you, you have been stubborn since you were a child. Although you seem to be aloof from the world and gentle, you have always been an extremely thoughtful girl. But Qingyan, sometimes people... It's hard to be confused. Otherwise, you'll be very tired. "

Zhao Qingyan doesn't know the specific meaning of her father's words, but maybe she can still feel it vaguely. She bows her head and says, "Dad, don't you often say that the country is easy to change, the nature is hard to change? I have my persistence and principles. Is it right for me to be a woman who gives up the bottom line and principles? "

"The principle and the bottom line are important, but you have to be flexible, OK?" When Zhao Guozhi said this, he thought about it and said seriously, "tell your father honestly, do you really have someone you like in your heart?"

Hearing this, Zhao Qingyan blinked and said, "is this what you want to ask, or did someone ask you for help?"

"I want to ask myself, of course." Zhao Guozhi said seriously, "you must answer this truthfully, you can't lie."

"I..." Zhao Qingyan hesitated after the meeting, nodded and said helplessly, "yes... I really have someone I like in my heart."

"It's impossible, isn't it? You are my daughter. If you want a boy you like, why didn't I find out at all? " Zhao Guozhi is really a little anxious, "did you know him in the university? Can you tell me something? What's your name? What do you do at home? "

"Oh, Dad..." Zhao Qingyan gave her father a look of shame and said angrily, "I like who can't tell you now. In a word... If it's possible to be together, I, I will tell you."

"Confused, Qingyan!" Zhao Guozhi said in a hurry, "I don't think you and Xiao Qiang have a strong feeling. How can they..."

"Puchi..." I didn't expect that Zhao Guozhi's words made Zhao Qingyan burst out laughing, but soon she seemed to think of something. She looked a little dim and said, "Dad, I ask you, if the person you like is a very excellent man with strong ability and attracts bees everywhere, do you think he is worthy of love?"

Zhao Guozhi didn't understand why his daughter would say this. He said, "are you talking about the man you like? No, it's powerful. It's excellent? Isn't that a fight with Xiao Qiang? The world is really crazy. Why are young men so powerful? "

"Oh, don't ask. You just have to answer my question." Zhao Qingyan blushed and said, "I, I asked for my roommate. She likes a very rich and powerful university classmate, but he is too excellent, many beautiful women will take the initiative to contact him, and look at his appearance, it seems that he is not the very single-minded kind, what do you say she should do? "

"Well... This question, in fact, my father can't give me a correct answer. But I think the meaning of love is to give people happiness rather than pain. Since your female classmate likes that boy very much, she will either love him with vigour and vitality, and be confused not to care about the right and wrong of him and other women, or she will make a clean break, long pain is better than short pain. "

When Zhao Guozhi said this, he thought about it and said, "Qingyan, in this money oriented official society, even if we don't admit it, men's social status is also very high. Rich and powerful men will naturally attract a lot of women to take the initiative to approach like honey. The more excellent men are, the more likely they are to attract women's attention and joy. Sometimes, even if such men don't want to, how many men can really control the charm of women? That's why there are so many junior and even senior students in this society. As a woman, dad doesn't mean to let himself practice himself and be someone else's honey or lover, but if you are in love with each other and know that they love you very much and can give you a reputation, I think it's better not to interfere with those women with men outside. "

"Dad, what's your logic? Do you mean that a man can spend his time outside, while a woman can only stay at home and watch him?" Zhao Qingyan, as a woman in the new era, naturally did not want to do so. She said, "instead of this, I'd better find an honest man to marry."

"Ha ha, honest? What kind of man dares to pat his chest and say I'm honest? " Zhao Guozhi shook his head and said with a smile, "you don't know men at all. Maybe there are real liuxiahui men who are really willing to stay together for life, but such men are definitely not excellent men! Man... Either don't give him real power and wealth, let him live a lifetime honestly, otherwise no man dares to promise that he will devote his whole life! "

"And... And you? Would you go out and look for... Other women? " Zhao Qingyan said angrily, "what about my mother?"

"Oh, my ancestors, don't go to the top of the line! I'm talking about excellent men. Your father, I'm far from excellent! " Zhao Guozhi pleaded in a hurry and said with a bitter smile, "I'm a small county magistrate. I don't have that ability."

"What if you have that ability?" Zhao Qingyan said seriously, "or, if you are developed and there are more temptations outside, will you do that?"

Zhao Guozhi found that he was really stupid. He had nothing to do. Why did he discuss this embarrassing thing with his daughter! But now it's hard to change the topic. He grins bitterly and says, "your father, I have no hope in my life, but if I'm young and rich in my next life, maybe I'll have a lot of confidants. You don't know, even if it's a small Yong'an County, which boss with a little money doesn't keep one at home and take one outside? Qingyan, men are fraternal. How broad-minded a man is, how complicated a woman's love is. If you really want to guard your man wholeheartedly and ask that man to live with you peacefully all his life, don't aim too high. Find an honest man. It's better to marry a man from a small county. It's also true, It is estimated that the man will not be your favorite. Remember, sometimes, when it's time to be confused, the happier a confused woman is. Being confused is also an art

After listening to Zhao Guozhi's words, Zhao Qingyan stood still and said nothing