Chapter 141

Parents love their children very much, and children love their parents very much. It doesn't matter if they don't have money, if they live in a poor place, or if they don't eat well. The important thing is that they live together happily.

The two of them grew up in totally different environments. If they want to be together, it can be said that the door is not in charge of the family. At that time, there was no such open-minded family in China as it is now. Especially in large families, the first consideration for children's marriage is to be in charge of the family, and the other person's family background is innocent, no matter whether it has any emotional foundation, In the old man's idea, emotion can be cultivated slowly.

They are basically married by their families, and they are also women who obey the arrangement of their elders. After a lifetime, they don't feel bad. It's normal that they don't have feelings before marriage. For example, in ancient times, marriage between men and women is the order of their parents and the words of a matchmaker. They haven't even seen each other. In modern society, it's very good to let you meet first.

If you don't have feelings, you can get married first and then cultivate them slowly. What's the big deal!

The elders think so, and they also add this idea to their younger generation. When the man's wife and others rush to their temporary rented house and break into the house, the girl who is cooking in the kitchen is startled. She doesn't know what's going on. What happened next completely overturns all the imagination of her short life.

Woman how also didn't think, the original man told her all the words are lies, he is not single, not orphans, not no parents, not no family!

He has a wife, a son, a wonderful family environment and a bright future

The friend his father said was not someone else, but himself. At that time, his mother didn't understand the hidden meaning of his words. When the man asked her, if she was the girl his friend fell in love with, what would she do in the face of such a situation?

Qing Yan's mother thought about it at that time and gave a resolute answer. She said that it's wrong to be a third child, and it's wrong to destroy other people's families, whether it's true love or hate to see each other. Anyway, she can't be a third child who destroys other people's families for any reason. Besides, his friend's wife has already had a child, so she has to consider the child anyway, Children are innocent, so women also asked men to persuade their friends to think about their children before doing anything.

So, if she is that girl, she will definitely leave that man!

She can't bear to become a bad woman who destroys other people's families. There is no grass in the world. Why love a flower alone? After leaving that man, she can find her life again. Although it's inevitable to be sad, as long as she works hard, nothing can't be done. There is no obstacle in life. Time is the best healing medicine.

She is very kind, because she is so kind that her father can't tell her the truth. If she knows that she is the third child who destroys other people's families, she will be the kind of person she once despised most under his deception, and the woman will certainly collapse. He doesn't want to see her sad, and he doesn't want to see her sad, so he has been hiding it all the time, Try your best to hide your past.

Although he suffered a lot in his heart, as long as he thought that she would leave his arms after she knew the truth, he was heartbroken. That kind of pain was more painful than stabbing him directly!

Apart from escaping and concealing, he could not find a better solution. Holding the heart of escaping, he thought that it would be a day if he could postpone it. However, this kind of procrastination always had an end. He didn't want to postpone it all the time. He had a wife and a son in his family. When his wife found his husband's abnormality, she made several phone calls to care about him for the first time and asked him when he would come back, He kept his mouth shut, and his wife grew suspicious.

Even if she doesn't listen to what's going on outside the window and only spends money on shopping, his wife is also a daughter from a wealthy family. Influenced by the upper class, she has long developed a delicate heart of observing words and colors. Before, she didn't care much about her husband. That's because there was really no emotional foundation between them. The husband she married, It's not my type at all.

Women like men who are muscular, have a good figure, are good at singing and dancing, and are very humorous. However, Qing Yan's father is totally different from that type of man. At first glance, his father looks like a knowledgeable, talented and gentle man, which is very consistent with his official image, This kind of temperament and style can make him more popular on the road of becoming an official.

But it's not the type of man his wife has a cold. They are arranged by the family. Because they have common interests, in order to consolidate the cooperation between the two families, they use the simplest and most effective way to tie the cooperation between the two families together.

Before they got married, they didn't know each other at all. They had a good meal together only when the elders of the two families were present. The elders of the two families sat together and talked enthusiastically about the future layout of the two families. Everyone was very enthusiastic. Only she and he were absent-minded, Looking at the other half who is about to join hands with themselves to enter the marriage palace and spend their life together, they have no feeling in their hearts. They can only say that they don't hate each other, but their heartbeat doesn't speed up because of the existence of each other.

Because it's not the type that she likes, and because she has no emotional foundation, his wife basically doesn't think much about him. Instead, she focuses more on how to shop, how to spend money, and how to maintain. She has a wise saying that is always on her lips. The original saying is: do men love women, It depends on whether he will pay for that woman.

Qing Yan's father's ears are almost cocooned when he listens to this sentence. Every time a woman wants to spend money and buy things lavishly, she will use this sentence to hold him back and make him speechless. Then she has to give her the large check filled out under the arrogant and proud eyes of the woman.

Men are more and more disgusted with such a wife. He really can't imagine that he wants to live with such a woman for a lifetime. He is not short of money. Women want to spend some money, but he has no opinion. But he deeply feels that one can't just think about how to spend money all day. There is no life goal, no pursuit and ideal of his own.

Can she really fill the void in her heart by buying everyday?

A man is a man with profound knowledge and internal worries. He has his own pursuit and ideal. In the future, he wants to benefit the Chinese people through his own efforts, so that everyone can live a better life, and let history remember him. He wants to be a good official who does practical things for the people, rather than a corrupt official who only knows about corruption and taking bribes, and who is criticized by everyone.

He wants to share his dream and pursuit with his wife, but every time he talks about it, the woman completely interrupts his statement, and even laughs at his childishness and fantasy. The point that women care about is not in this aspect. She has no interest in men's dream and pursuit. Because she has no interest, she is listless every time he mentions it, Ignore, half a day without a response.

This kind of reaction makes a man still interested in talking about it. He can't communicate at all. He can only put away his surging emotions and completely rest his mind of sharing his ideal with his partner. He hides it in the bottom of his heart and never mentions it again.

But the man never goes home, nor does he call home. Every time his wife seldom calls him to ask him when he will go home. When his son thinks of his father, the man's answer is very perfunctory. It seems that he doesn't listen to her at all. He always says it's fast. He will go back as soon as he is busy.

However, this "fast, fast", has been delayed for a month, and there is no sign that he is busy. His wife can't sit down now. Hey, is there something wrong with this smelly man?

No, he can't sacrifice anything for his lofty ambition and dream, so a person who cares about his reputation shouldn't mess around outside, right?

At the beginning, she finally decided to marry him because she had a crush on the man. After all, her father was far from the type she liked. She was the daughter of a noble family. I don't know how many noble sons lined up to pursue him. Why did she finally choose this one? In addition to the arrangement of her elders, there was a more important point, It's this man who doesn't mess around like other rich boys.