Thirty years ago, Qing Yan's mother was just a female college student who had just graduated from university. At that time, there were not many female college students in China, especially the female college students in poor mountain villages. At that time, those who could get into University, no matter whether they were boys or girls, were called "Golden Phoenix".

Thus, for a small mountain village, how rare and valuable are the children who can enter the University.

Qing Yan's mother was born in a poor family. Her family is deep in a mountain, and she is the only child in the family. In the local area, if a family does not have a boy, it will be criticized by the neighbors. If the neighbors gossiping, it can make a big family unable to look up and behave.

Qing Yan's mother not only has to endure poverty, but also has to be criticized by the villagers since childhood. She is not reconciled. Why can boys do it and girls can't?

Juejiang believes that as long as she works harder and harder than others, she can gain respect from everyone and recognition from blind relatives. Even if there is no boy in her family and her parents have only one daughter, her family will not be worse than the family with a boy in the future.

Raising children can prevent old age, and raising daughters can also prevent old age!

In line with this idea, the girl is determined to make a career, so that all people look up to her and their family.

Why, why is the world so unfair? It's obvious that she has to work harder than anyone else and work harder than anyone else. But as a result, when she was in school, she used the same time to answer twice as many questions as others, and her grades were better than others. After joining the work, she is more efficient than other colleagues. At the same time, she can do more work, but it doesn't bring her anything. Even her salary is not more than others.

She felt that she was an unfortunate person, and the God of luck would never come to her. If, if God opened his eyes, he could not see her efforts and her struggle. The world was too cruel and cruel, and there was no justice to speak of.

Just when the girl gradually lost confidence in her life, she met a man who claimed that he was an orphan. He grew up in an orphanage. He had no father, no mother, no wife and no son. He didn't even have a girlfriend and is still single.

At that time, she was still a little suspicious and curious. She asked him why he didn't even have a girlfriend?

I remember the man's answer at that time was that he had no money, no car, no house, so the girls were not willing to associate with him, let alone marry him.

This answer is indeed a reflection of today's reality. Many parents do not want their daughter to marry a man without a car or a house. If they marry a man without financial ability, they will make their daughter suffer.

She didn't expect that the man was cheating her. She thought that the truth was the same as what he said. He was a poor boy, and no girl was willing to suffer with a poor boy. At that time, although she thought that although the young man was poor, he was poor and ambitious. Through the conversation, she could feel that the young man's cultural literacy was very high, Those famous sayings and old sayings come with open mouth, and it's hard for him to quote from classics.

I heard that he came here for training. After training, he was able to work in a small place. Although he was only a very small official, his monthly salary could solve his personal problems of food, clothing and housing.

The man said that he was an orphan and destitute. In fact, she was not much better. Her parents had only one daughter. The parents who were born to farmers hoped that their daughter would be promising in the future. They worked hard all their lives to earn money for her to study. After graduation, she went to university and went to work. They thought that the hard times had come to an end and the sweet days had come, But I want to get

Ah, where do you want to get it? Even though she worked hard to finish college and graduated with good grades, she went out to look for a job with that paper of paper, and the salary of the job she found was not very high. In such a prosperous metropolis, a bachelor's degree of literature is not much. There are many young people with such literature, which is completely different from the situation in her hometown.

She was born in a small mountain village. She was very poor and remote. There was only a small and broken school in the whole mountain. She was the second golden phoenix flying out of the mountain village. The first Golden Phoenix was a boy in their mountain village. She was also admitted to an undergraduate university in other provinces, which caused a great sensation at that time.

The whole village calls the students who can go to university jinfenghuang, and she, the second jinfenghuang, is also the envy of all the girls in Xiaoshan village, because not all the parents are as open-minded as her parents, and she has to serve her daughter to study.

Although the country began to advocate equality between men and women many years ago, it is obvious that it has not yet been popularized to their remote villages. There, boys and girls are still very different. The families who have given birth to boys have enough confidence. Those who have not given birth to boys and only give birth to girls will even be ridiculed by the people in the village.

He said that he had done evil in his last life, and God wanted to revenge him, so he would never have a son!

Don't underestimate the power of gossip. Gossip can kill a person at a critical time. In their mountain village, there are many people whose relationship is not harmonious because of their neighbors' gossiping.

Therefore, she is fortunate to have a pair of parents who love her so much. Under the rumors of the neighbors in the village, their parents gave her up all the way to the University. There is a big difference between girls who have read books and girls who have not read books. Regardless of their thoughts, personality and even world outlook, they have a great influence.

Since childhood, the girl has been a person who likes to study deeply and loves reading famous books at all times and in all over the world. At that time, without money at home, she could not afford to buy such expensive books. Those famous books were read by her from the school library. The school library is not big and there are limits to the collection of books. Many books are not allowed to be taken out of the library, only in the library.

So she was alone in the library. On Saturdays and Sundays, when everyone came home from school to play, she could watch it all day. Because the opportunity was really hard won, she read with special care. It had been so long, but the picture of her concentrating on reading in the library made her unforgettable.

Reading makes people wise, reading makes people beautiful, because reading makes her different from other girls in the mountain village. She has a very big difference in terms of insight, vision and speaking temperament. This difference is more obvious after she graduated from high school and was admitted to a good undergraduate university with excellent results.

She obviously felt the strange look in the eyes of girls of her age in the mountain village when they looked at her. No matter how envious or envious she was, there was no doubt that she was a very promising Golden Phoenix in the eyes of the villagers in the small mountain village. This golden phoenix was about to fly out of their remote mountain village and go out to do some big business, Her parents will follow.

As is often said on the Internet, she is the "neighbor's child" that everyone experienced when they were young. To explain, when you were a child, did you hear your parents nag you about who was next door? This time, you got another 100 points, the first place in the school, and who was next door. This time, you won the gold medal in the national Olympiad Mathematics, You can walk Tsinghua and Peking University

This kind of words, I believe everyone has experienced, and she is one of the so-called "neighbor's children" rumored by Internet users.