Chapter 1436

"Although it is said that your strengths will be strengthened, if you do not change your position, your weaknesses will always be in the process of fighting, and you are likely to be seized by the enemy. Only when you show all your strengths and weaknesses can the tutor know what your strengths and weaknesses are, Only when I know where your strengths and weaknesses are, can I be more targeted to your implementation, so as to prevent you from strengthening and avoiding you as much as possible. If so, I can also eliminate your weaknesses and strengthen your strengths, This is the real meaning of the exchange competition. You should not feel that it is a disgraceful act to show your weakness, so as to avoid showing your weakness in the exchange competition. If so, I can only tell you that you are too stupid. The meaning of the exchange competition itself is to let the tutor know your strengths and weaknesses, If you don't show your shortcomings and advantages, how can the tutor know your advantages and disadvantages? Although it's good to show your advantages and impress the tutor, the key is to show your disadvantages as well. Only in this way can the tutor better understand your actual situation, Your shortcomings are always there. "

The tutor's words made many people nod their heads again and again. Soon many people realized the shortcomings of their own ideas, and the tutor pointed out the problems of their ideas to the point. Just now, many of them really just wanted to show their own advantages, because what they wanted was to show their own advantages, They have a better impression in front of the tutor, or a better image in front of other onlookers, and set up a stronger deterrent force. However, they ignore the essence of the exchange competition, which is to let the tutor and the college know more about themselves and just want to show their advantages. Naturally, it is the instinct of many people. After all, no one wants others to see their shortcomings, Especially in public, we will try our best to hide our shortcomings, but the significance of communication is to let the tutors and colleges have a clearer understanding of the individual. If they only show their advantages, there is no doubt that their mastery of a person is one-sided. One sided also means that there is no way to accurately analyze and guide a person's actual situation. If there is no way to accurately guide, it will be easier for a person to go to extremes. For example, the advantages are well strengthened, which is indeed what many people are willing to do, but the disadvantages are not changed, so the gate of life is always there, Moreover, with the expansion of advantages, the life gate will not be improved. In fact, the strength will not be improved much, because if you just show your own advantages in the battle, it may cause an overwhelming advantage for the weak, but for the people with the same strength, the smaller the weakness, the greater the chance of winning, In fact, the so-called advantage part is just nonsense. A master can only grasp the shortcomings of the other side in a fight, and then he can kill himself if he doesn't make up for his own shortcomings. There is no way to deal with the same level of opponents, or even cross level to win over higher level opponents.

After hearing the tutor's words, many people suddenly realized that they only wanted to show their own advantages, but now all of them suddenly understand that the meaning of the exchange competition itself is to let them show their true self state, whether it is good or bad, it is part of their own state, if only the good part is shown, Then there is no doubt that the bad part will be ignored, and the bad part will never be changed. No matter how good it is, there will always be a bigger life gate left. When you fight with the experts, this life gate will become a fatal defect. If you don't make up for this defect, then the so-called cultivation will become meaningless, Cultivation itself is to defeat a stronger opponent. If there is always a gate of life, how can we defeat a stronger opponent? Even if they are only opponents of the same level, the greater the weakness, the better they will absorb. The higher the probability is, in this case, only by exposing one's own shortcomings first, can one make up for one's own shortcomings. Only when the shortcomings are made up, can one become more perfect. If not, only one part of the advantages can be better strengthened, Then, if it is always in this way, the practitioner is a half hanged person.

Of course, they don't want to be half done, and most of them suddenly realize that they should take the exchange competition seriously, because the meaning of the exchange competition itself is to let them really understand themselves, and also let the tutor understand themselves. If they can't let the tutor understand themselves, then in the future learning career, For at least two years, a lot of things taught by the tutor will not be right at all, because they have not shown their shortcomings at all, and the tutor does not know where the defects are. If the tutor says that he can know the defects of the students, it's easy to say that maybe the hidden part in the exchange game can be released again in his daily life and displayed, Let the tutor know what kind of person he is, his advantages and disadvantages. They are tutors of Longcheng University. Obviously, they don't have such a patient education level. Obviously, they don't spend much time on a student to know where your strengths lie or where your weaknesses lie. Basically, they only exchange the information they get from the competition to guide each student individually, Besides, it must be that individual guidance only accounts for a small part of the overall guidance. Otherwise, the tutor of Longcheng university is definitely a very tired job. Although there are not many students in the class, there are not many. There are 200 people in the class. If you want to give individual guidance, it will take quite a long time, So we can be sure that the concept of 100% individual guidance only accounts for a very small part, only when some students need special guidance. To find a tutor, the tutor can know the advantages of the student, but also know the weakness of the tutor, so as to more targeted and effective guidance for a student.

Understand the tutor's good intentions, everyone's face showed a smile.