Looking at the dilapidated classroom and the poor students, Han Mingyan really wants to find a place where there is no one to cry

How could that be? How did you fall into such a field? She should have been comfortable in the capital and respected as a key middle school teacher!

What makes Han Mingyan even more depressed is that after returning to her hometown, her parents can't wait to find her mother-in-law's home. She is twenty-four this year and will soon celebrate the new year. After that, she will be twenty-five.

In this era, especially in the countryside, if a girl's family is still unmarried at the age of 25, she is an old girl who can't be married in other people's eyes!

Even if she is a college graduate, even if she is a formal people's teacher, she can't change the truth that the old girl is worthless, and she will also become a resource for people to talk and laugh after dinner.

If there is an old girl in one's family, it's a shame!

Although Han Mingyan repeatedly stressed to her parents that she does not want to get married now, she has other plans for the future. However, her parents refused to listen to her, and they were still busy trying to find a suitable family for her.

The reason why they are so interested in Han Mingyan's marriage is not only that there is an old girl in the family who has a bad reputation, but also that they want to take advantage of their daughter's not too old now, who is a university graduate and still has a formal job. They want to find a good mother-in-law and ask for more betrothal gifts to marry Han Biao!

Han Biao is 22 years old, but he has no daughter-in-law!

Because their family is poor and their reputation is not good, no good girl from a good family is willing to marry them.

But Han Biao's heart is high, mainly because the old Han girls are good-looking. He has his own group of sisters as a reference. Of course, he doesn't like ugly girls.

In this way, Han Biao's marriage has not been high or low, not hanging on the spot, until now has not been solved.

Han long is still in prison, and it is estimated that he is useless. Now the two of them are all counting on Han Biao. Seeing that their son is twenty-two years old and has not yet married a daughter-in-law, the old couple are very anxious. They want to marry a daughter-in-law for their son and make him a family.

In fact, they had long expected to rely on their daughter to ask for more betrothal gifts for their son's wife. However, over the years, Han Mingyan has been staying in the capital, never coming back, never writing to them, and she never comes back when they write to her.

The capital is so far away from them that they can't even make Han Mingyan. So even if it is not reconciled, but also can not help her.

But now it's different. Han Mingyan is back!

She is their daughter, and naturally they has the final say in marriage matters.

As a result, Han Zhide and Hu Huifang began to get busy, asking about the families in the town who are willing to spend money and are ready to marry Han Mingyan

In a fit of anger, Han Mingyan moved out of the house and moved to the dormitory of the school. However, the dormitory conditions of the school were very poor, and the low and dilapidated adobe house was full of air. When sleeping at night, you have to wrap your head. Otherwise, so many relatives will come all at once. Han Mingxiu naturally welcomes them from the bottom of his heart.

The eldest uncle's family and the eldest sister's family are all living in the courtyard. Uncle and aunt live in the East Room of the main room. Lin Hongwei and his wife lead several children to live in the middle room of the main room. They live in the west room of the main room alone.

Gao guangbin and his wife lead their two youngest sons to live in the East Wing room, and Niuniu leads their three younger sisters to live in the West Wing room.

Fortunately, the courtyard is spacious enough for the three families to live together, and the front door room is empty!

However, Qianmen room was also used immediately.

Because Gao guangbin's family came to do business, Han Mingxiu didn't let them go to Jiaolou Siheyuan to pick up the goods for convenience. Instead, he bought 10000 Jin hairy crabs and 10000 Jin fresh mushrooms from "friends" and put them in Qianmen room.

When they sell, they can take the goods from Qianmen room every day

On the second day in the capital, the gaoguangbin family began to go out to do business.

Looking at their business, he also moved his mind and secretly convinced his parents to tell Han Mingxiu that they would go out to try.

Han Mingxiu didn't have the heart to let his uncle and aunt go out to sell in the cold, but he couldn't stop them. I had no choice but to buy a tricycle for their family and let them go

Just like last year, the eldest brother-in-law led several girls out to sell goods, and the eldest sister watched her two little sons at home. Han Mingxiu also takes Yao Yao and Da Shuang and Xiao Shuang back to the courtyard for a while every day to talk to his two sisters.

The sisters can only get together once a year. When they get together, they can't say enough.

Han Mingxiu asked her elder sister about her hometown. The elder sister told her that everything was fine in her hometown, but the second uncle's family was a little noisy.

Han Mingyan of the second uncle's family came back after graduation and worked as a Chinese teacher in the town middle school. The second uncle and the second aunt are in a hurry to find her husband's family

When Han Mingxiu heard the news, she sneered and said, "Han Mingyan has such a high heart, how can she be willing to find someone in the countryside? I'm afraid her parents are wasting their time. She can't agree. "

Han Mingcui said with disapproval: "that's not necessarily. If she is still in the capital, the second uncle and the second aunt can't take care of her, but she's not going back to our old village now. You can see that the second uncle and the second aunt have to marry her out. No matter how good she is, she's also the daughter of the old Han family. She can't listen to her parents...."

Han Mingxiu took a look at her elder sister and said, "you think everyone is as good as you. Just like Han Mingyan, if her parents force her to marry, she can get some mouse medicine to kill her parents

"Come on, don't talk about them. Talk about the children. How are these children learning? What's the final exam Han Mingyu didn't like to hear them talk about the second uncle's family, so he turned the topic aside.

Mention the children, Han Mingcui's face a bit more tangled, "ah, their elder sister several Niuniu learn well, Xiaoying is getting worse and worse, Xiaoli general..."

Han Mingxiu comforted her when she saw her lost face. "Elder sister, I think Xiaoying and Xiaoli are very obedient, and they must study very seriously, but they are not smart enough, so they are a little poor in learning. However, to measure a child's happiness, we should not only look at learning, but also look at the child's character, ability, behavior habits, etc, In my opinion, these two children's abilities are not bad except learning. Even if they don't study well, they will not be bad in the future. "

"I hope so." Han Mingcui said dully, "I want to open up too. It's not the insects and birds there. I can't force them. I don't want to force them at all. In the end, the children will get angry and the adults will be worried. If they can't learn well, they might as well let it be! Anyway, I've spent all the money I should pay them, and I've said all the words I should encourage them. Even if they don't succeed in the future, I won't regret it! "

"That is, we as parents have done what we should do. In the future, they will not depend on us if they are well." Han Mingyu echoed.

Han Mingxiu said, "all roads lead to Rome. Learning is not the only way out. Let me see. Elder sister, you might as well observe carefully to see what these two children like. Let's teach them in accordance with their aptitude. We will cultivate them in whatever way they like. Maybe they can do something else in the future."

The elder sister said with a bitter smile, "don't mention it. She's not afraid of your jokes. Xiaoying likes to cook. Don't mention it. The food is delicious. Even what I do doesn't catch up with her. Xiaoli is willing to raise livestock and serve chickens, ducks and geese. But who can't cook for health? How to cultivate this hobby? What's going to happen? "

Han Mingxiu said, "don't underestimate cooking and health preserving. If you really do well, you can make Xiaoying a chef or nutritionist and Xiaoli a veterinary surgeon in the future, but it's no worse than your future as a teacher!"

"Well, let's talk about it later. Anyway, it's still early for them to graduate. No matter what they are asked to do in the future, they have to wait until they graduate from high school."

Compared with ordinary rural women, Han Mingcui has a little insight.

In this era, most women's comrades don't approve of allowing their daughters to study, but Han Mingcui is different. She not only supports her children to study, but also requires them to graduate from high school. If they can enter the University, it would be better. As long as they enter the University, she will be willing to sell iron, but if they can't, they must at least be a high school graduate, So as not to suffer from less culture in the future.

As for what children do in the future, they have to wait until they graduate from high school. No matter what they do, first of all, they have enough cultural water in their stomach!

Han Mingxiu is very supportive of the idea of elder sister. Although Xiaoying Xiaoli, who is a mirror of her heart, can't go to any school, no matter what, she should let them read more books, learn more knowledge and culture, and broaden their thinking and vision, so that they can go to the society in the future.

"Elder sister, do you think these two girls are like their old Wang family, and our old Han family are not stupid?" Han Mingyan was puzzled and asked.

They haven't talked about the eldest sister's ex husband's house for a long time. Now when they mentioned it, Han Mingcui was shocked. She felt that the second sister was talking about something in her last life. If she didn't mention it, she almost forgot that she had married once!