Chapter 830

Small five said so much in one breath, enough to show her determination not to marry.

When people here heard her great comment, they didn't agree with her, but they couldn't refute it, because what she said was the truth.

In today's society, the relationship between husband and wife is not exactly what Xiao Wu said.

Later, aunt Gao said, "it's not all like that. You see, your brother, your sister-in-law and us, which one is not a happy marriage and a happy life? Although the situation you mentioned also exists, it is not absolute. Most of the couples in the world are happy. Otherwise, they will be as miserable as you said. Who will get married? "

Small five said: "aunt, you are right, I said this situation is not absolute, but you can not deny that this is a common fact."

"It's said that people's hearts are separated by their stomachs. Who knows what kind of man they will meet? Since I can live well by myself, why should I take risks for the rest of my life? "

"How many women in this world are full of expectations and fantasies about marriage before they get married, but after they get married and have children, they are hit hard by the reality. However, the boat is done, and the children are born. Even if they regret to get married, there is no way to change the status quo."

"In the end, I can only compromise with life and live a life of compromise. I believe that at least half of the ten women think so, so I will not repeat their mistakes..."

At this time, the waitress behind them suddenly put in a sentence, saying: "that's right, sister, you are really a sensible person, just like I think! Unfortunately, it's too late for me to realize that Wei'er is coming. I have two children. If I didn't have children, I would have left him 800 years ago. Women, getting married is to find fault for themselves. I'll regret it later. How could I have married him? "

Hearing the waiter's feeling, Xiao Wu said with a smile, "listen, I've met a bosom friend. I believe what this elder sister said is absolutely the voice of most married women."

Han Mingxiu said: "if you don't want to be fettered by the family, and you don't want to bear the responsibility of the family, it's certainly good not to get married. Otherwise, if you get married in order to get married, it will also cause pain to your spouse, children and yourself."

"But if you are willing to take the responsibility of your family and pay for it, of course, it's better to get married. It's better when you are young, but it's the worst when you are old! It would be really pitiful if, on the day of old age, he was ill and could not take care of himself, and there was no one to take care of him, and finally he died of starvation and death in a nursing home

Xiaowu still insists on her own point of view, she said: "those who have children may not be able to provide for their parents. Now they are all one child in a family, and they are used to being like their ancestors. It's good for them not to nibble at the old, and they still expect them to provide for their parents! Let me see. It's good that two or three of the ten children can provide for their parents. "

"Anyway, I've thought about it. When I get old and can't take care of myself, I'll finish myself with a sleeping pill, so I won't lie in bed and suffer and die. As for the things behind me..."

Small five stalls open hand, natural and unrestrained say: "the person all died, still tube those do what?"

Han Mingxiu said: "this, you'd better wait until you get old. If you still have this idea when you get old, you'll live in vain in your life. However, if you regret it, want to change your mind temporarily, and want to get married and have children, you'll be appointed not to go there."

"I won't regret it. I have decided to live alone for a lifetime and enjoy my own life. I believe my life will not be worse than yours and my happiness will not be less than yours." Small five confidence said.

Elder sister Heli said with emotion, "what you said just now is quite reasonable. I don't know who to say it to."

Han Mingxiu said: "it's true that there is no right answer to this question. It's just that individuals have different attitudes towards life. Whether they choose to get married or to be single, it's all personal choice. There's no right or wrong. We should understand and support it."

Small five a listen to this, immediately happy, asked Han Mingxiu said: "sister-in-law, so you support me?"

"Although my sister-in-law sincerely hopes that you can get married and have children, since you have decided to be single, my sister-in-law respects your decision," Han said

Small five grateful said: "thank you sister-in-law's understanding, rest assured, I will be happy for a lifetime."

Xiaoqiu and Xiaosi still don't agree with Xiaowu's decision, but seeing that their sister-in-law supports Xiaowu, they trust their sister-in-law more than their own judgment. Therefore, after seeing that their sister-in-law also agrees with Xiaowu's choice, they don't say much anymore

After this topic passed, everyone focused on Aunt Zhou again.

"Aunt Zhou, when will Siyuan get married? I haven't seen many flowers for a long time. Why didn't you bring her here today? " Aunt Gao asked with concern.

Before, after a period of contact, aunt Zhou recognized Hua Hua as her daughter-in-law and brought her out to meet everyone. Therefore, aunt Gao knew Hua Hua and liked her very much.

When it comes to flowers, aunt Zhou can't help feeling depressed.

Since the girl moved out, she never came back again. She called several times. The girl always said she was busy. I don't know whether she was really busy or she thought her son was ill. She wanted to talk to her son Huang

However, with her understanding of Duoduo in recent months, Duoduo should not be the kind of person who can't share weal and woe, and who has to run first if she has some difficulties

But since they are not that kind of people, why alienate them from the Zhou family and refuse to visit them again?

She and Lao Zhou are very satisfied with Duoduo. Duoduo has a good character, lively and cheerful, warm and generous. She is full of positive energy. The most important thing is that she has a simple mind. She doesn't have those solid eyes. It's not tired to get along with such people!

They had planned to let their two children get married this year, but they didn't expect that their son had that problem. As a result, their wish to have a grandson failed. Not only their wish to have a grandson failed, but also their wish to marry a daughter-in-law was suspended.

I don't know why, she and Lao Zhou always feel that Duoduo wants to talk to her son Huang.

But when I think about it, I don't think it's possible.

In addition to his son's faults in that aspect, he is top-notch in education, appearance, work and ability. How many celebrities in the capital want to marry into their family, but Xiao Zhou doesn't like it.

And Duoduo is the daughter of an overseas Chinese. She has no influence or money in her family, and she is not very brilliant. How can she not look up to their precious son?

Besides, my son's problem is not incurable. Maybe he will be cured soon! With such good conditions, women with long brains are reluctant to be yellow.

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In the doubt of whether Huahua wants to talk to Xiaozhou Huang, aunt Zhou is not willing to answer when she hears people asking about Huahua.

"Er... We're not in a hurry. It's estimated that when jet Cui and Niuniu get married, they will be almost the same." She doesn't know.

Aunt Gao didn't know what she really thought. She told Xiao Zhou and Duoduo to get married next year. She said, "jet Cui and Niu Niu are not big enough. Xiao Zhou in your family is in her early 30s. Let me see. We'll get things done on New Year's day."

Sister he Li also said, "yes, Xiao Zhou is really big. Our unit Zhang Shuqi is the same age as Xiao Zhou. Now the children are in primary school. Aunt, you'd better do it earlier. We're all waiting to drink his wedding wine. We're all eager to see through..."

Aunt Zhou pulled the corners of her mouth and said with a dry smile, "maybe young people's ideas are different from ours. They both say that their career has just started, and they don't want to get married now. They want to get married when their career is stable."

Han Mingxiu said, "that's good. It's better to start a business first and then start a family. Now many promising young people do this."

Aunt Gao said with emotion, "times have really changed. It's not the same as us at that time. What we used to pay attention to was to start a family first and then start a business. Now, it's just the opposite. We start to start a business first and then start a family. It seems that we old guys are going to be eliminated by the society.