In the eyes of many people, it's just a joke for a woman as beautiful as Yue Zitong to marry a dead ghost.
In addition to those ignorant girls who were moved by her love for a man, every normal person would scoff at it.
I think she is trying to impress the public: "when people die, they are just a handful of ashes. They have no sense of bullshit. Even if you make the wedding the most luxurious wedding in the world, he won't climb out of the urn and lift your red veil. "
However, when the person in charge of the wedding is director Liang of the general office, and among the people who come to attend the wedding are Jing Hongming, the supreme Security Bureau, Wang Yulin, the boss of mi13, Fusu, and Qun Xing, the two eldest sons of the third generation of Helan family, then the wedding, which is despised by the world, will become more solemn.
What's more, the bride in this wedding is Miss Yue Zitong, the head of Jinghua's Yue family?
If anyone dares to sniff, try it.
The vast majority of men who know about the wedding will be envious of the ashes in the ashes box. They want to burn themselves into ashes, lie in the crystal clear white jade ashes box, and then be held in the arms by beauty Yue wearing a white wedding dress, feeling the warmth of her arms.
Of course, they are just so crooked.
If they really want to die and be burned to ashes, don't say that they are held in the arms by beauty Yue. Even if they eat into their mouths, it's no use.
But they can be so crooked, and then look at Yue Zitong, secretly scold a dead ghost in their heart, and fight for excellent resources with the living people after the death of donima.
Yue Zitong, who is holding the urn in his arms, certainly doesn't pay attention to the idea of passers-by a, but under the guidance of Zonggang, he walks on the red carpet with a wooden look.
Her black hair was tied behind her head by a white silk about two inches wide, hanging at her waist, swaying with the light wind, as if she had life.
Because it's a dead man's wedding, no hotel will receive this kind of wedding. Although Zonggang's call can solve this problem, Yue Zitong is very considerate of people's opinions. He knows that business people are basically taboo to some things.
So she arranged the wedding in an open space in the suburbs.
As early as a week ago, Zonggang, who was in charge of the wedding preparation, personally brought people here and worked overtime to build a simple hotel.
After the wedding, the simple hotel will be demolished immediately, everything will be transported away, even a cigarette end will not be left, as if nothing happened.
The preparation funds of this hotel are expensive. The red carpets from the roadside to the lobby are all hand-made wool carpets.
More importantly, it took Zonggang and others a week to complete this temporary Hotel, which can only last for half a day at most.
When the wedding is over, after the guests have a symbolic drink, they will go back to their homes and find their mothers.
Then, Zonggang would immediately take people to tear down the hotel, pull the large truck parked in the distance to the professional garbage burning place, and destroy it.
The temporary Hotel, worth several million yuan, takes only half a day in a week to be demolished. Needless to say, all the raw materials will be burned up. This is the waste of hongguoguo.
But who makes Yue Zitong rich?
When people burn the things they buy, who can control them?
Who cares!
It is said that the site selection of the temporary hotel was also specially visited by the eminent monk Zonggang.
Only by building a hotel on this gentle slope, which is more than 10 meters above sea level, can the bridegroom feel the bride's full love for him there - he can close his eyes contentedly, and then be chained around his neck by the imp, just like a donkey, and walk into Fengdu city. After being fried and whipped, he will go to the 18th floor of hell and never turn over.
To do so is to prevent the bridegroom, who yearns for the beauty of the bride and has a lovely body, from sneaking out and attaching himself to a man when the door of death opens, because he can't bear to be ready to move, and sexually harassing the bride.
Otherwise, it is to give the bride endless dreams every night, crying that I love you, please come to accompany me, come to accompany me.
As a result, the bride's spirit quickly weakened, and she was sick all day long. Before long, she would die and be taken away by the bridegroom.
Therefore, in order to ensure the absolute safety of the bride, Zonggang must invite eminent monks to choose a geomantic treasure land as the wedding site.
This wedding is the secret marriage in folklore.
Ghost marriage is also called ghost marriage.
Generally speaking, the objects of the marriage in secret marriage are basically the children who have died before their engagement. Their parents want to marry them out of love.
There are two kinds of marriage: the dead and the dead, the dead and the living.
According to the ancient legend, there is a solitary grave in the ancestral grave, which will affect the prosperity of future generations, so it is necessary to hold a secret marriage for the dead.
Yin marriage mostly appeared in the aristocracy or rich families, and it was rarely carried out in poor families.
There is no way to find out from which dynasty the secret marriage came into being, but it is certain that it existed as early as before the Han Dynasty.However, because of the waste of human and material resources, it is meaningless and has been prohibited.
"Zhou Li" once said: "it is forbidden to move or bury people and marry those who suffer from war."
But this kind of ethos has never been put an end to, and some are even directly reflected in the rulers.
The prevalence of Yin marriage was in the Song Dynasty.
According to Kang Yuzhi's record of yesterday's dream, if an unmarried man or woman dies, his parents will ask a ghost matchmaker to make a marriage vow, and then make divination. After the divination is accepted, they will make a burial suit for the ghost, hold a wedding ceremony, and bury the man and woman together.
However, there has never been a fixed rule for holding secret marriage.
Although Yin marriage is regarded as a happy event, the etiquette of red and white is mixed.
To a large extent, it depends on the opinions of the parties, so the form of Yin wedding ceremony varies greatly.
One thing is the same as a normal wedding. The secret marriage also needs to be introduced by the matchmaker. The two sides transfer the door to get married in the life hall, and get the dragon and Phoenix.
Half of the gifts sent by the man to the woman were real silk feet, gold and silver treasures, and the other half were paper pasted clothes for the four seasons, two pairs of brocade boxes, and earrings and other jewelry.
It's called letting go.
On the night of the release, they were burned in front of the woman's house or on the grave.
During the communication, the "goose cage", "wine sea", dragon and Phoenix wedding cakes, elbows and happy fruits sent by the man to the woman are all real. Only the clothes and jewelry are the paper objects.
The dowry sent by the woman is usually paper work. After it is sent to the man, it is only displayed for half a day in front of the photo or tablet of the "bridegroom". Some dowries are only carried around the man's courtyard for a week, that is, they are sent to the nearby square for incineration.
Of course, the above-mentioned ceremonies are not always held in yinmarriage, but the wedding ceremony is indispensable.
It's a day high, a big shed, a feast for relatives and friends, and a sedan chair in front of the door.
There is a low table on the Kang opposite for the photo or tablet of the bridegroom. In front of the table are some plates of apple and Dragon Phoenix wedding cakes, and there is a big red flower with the words "bridegroom" on the ribbon.
In the "boudoir" of the woman, the picture or tablet of "bride" is also provided as before, and there is a big red flower with a ribbon and the word "bride" written on it.
After the sedan chair arrives at the woman's side, the bride's photo or tablet is taken down by the bride's wife, who takes it over and puts the sedan chair.
At this time, the father and mother of the "bride" have to cry loudly and chase out of the house.
When the bridal sedan chair returns to the man's side, it is necessary to take out the picture or tablet of the "bride" and put it on the offering table on the Kang of the wedding chamber, juxtaposed with the "bridegroom". He tied up the two photos with a red head rope, taking the meaning of Yuelao pulling the red line, and covered them with red and yellow colored silk.
Only when a married wife gives the whole God a hundred percent of incense and kowtows, even if the husband and wife worship heaven and earth.
Then, the teahouse will bring "He Bei Jiu" and other things for the wedding couple's photos or tablets.
After holding the above ceremony, find a good day to bury, the woman can wake up.
According to the time appointed by Mr. Yin and Yang, after taking out the coffin pivot, immediately pour a bucket of water in the pit and throw down two apples.
At the same time, Gao Gao raised the red paper money.
The man dug a hole on the side of the tomb to expose the troughs of the bridegroom's coffin, and buried the bride in this hole for the burial of husband and wife.
After burial, wine and fruit were displayed in front of the tomb, red paper money was burned, and wedding ceremony was held.
The parents of both men and women cried and said "great joy".
Since then, men and women can be treated as relatives.
The famous ghost marriage in history was conducted by Cao Cao for his son Cao Chong.
According to the records of the Three Kingdoms, Cao Chong, the son of Cao Cao, was ill in the 13th year of Jian'an. When it comes to death, I feel very sad. Emperor Wen Kuanyu Taizu, Taizu said: "this is my misfortune, and you Cao's luck." In order to engage the dead daughter of Zhen family to be buried together with him, he presented the seal of the commander to the Marquis Wan, and ordered the Marquis wan to follow the emperor's orders. "
Here, Cao Cao hired a young woman surnamed Zhen as his daughter-in-law.
One of the most famous examples of modern Yin marriage is South Korea. Four years after the death of a female star, her mother always wanted to comfort her single daughter, so she arranged for her to "get married" and hold a ghost marriage ceremony with an outsider.
On the scene, the star mother, holding a picture of her beloved daughter, burst into tears. The monks held a wedding ceremony for a couple, and the participants looked solemn.
The leader of the Yue family, who wants to have a secret marriage with Li Yingxiong, who died for his country, certainly will not follow these secular rules.
What's more, Li Nanfang seems to have no parents. Even if Yue Zitong wants to get a job, he can't get a job.
She asked Zonggang to see Jing Hongming.
Jing Hongming regards Li Nanfang as his nephew, and the protection of his lover is no longer a secret in this circle.
Therefore, Yue Zitong wants to "entrust" Jing Hong and his wife to be Li NanFang's "rebirth parents" and become in laws with him.
As a result, she was smashed out with a feather duster by the gentle and kind-hearted lady Jing Hong.
Even more impolite reprimand way: "go back to tell your home owner, said Jinghong home not up to their home!"Why is Mrs. Jinghong so angry?
A fool can see that Yue Zitong wants to tie Jing Hong's life to the chariot of the Yue family with a meaningless secret marriage to do a lot for her family.
Originally, Jing Hong's husband and wife despised Yue Zitong's last act of exploiting Li NanFang's value for the benefit of his family. Now they are naively coming to marry. This intelligence quotient is too high to say.
It's a happy calculation, and it's crackling.
It's a pity that Jinghong doesn't care about her.
She knows where Li NanFang's teacher's mother is, and she knows that her elder sister is the most qualified one to be Li NanFang's mother, but she dares not go.
Yue Zitong is really afraid that the person she sent there to propose marriage will be killed directly by the angry elder sister. By the way, when the fertilizer is buried in the ground, the cherry will be red and the banana will be green.
In desperation, she had to be a bride and a mother at the suggestion of master Kongkong to manage the wedding.