Just like his father, mingyaode did his best to consider Mingkun's future, and tried every means to ensure that Mingkun would not repeat his mistakes.
As a father, for his son's sake, he has devoted himself to everything. However, he has paved so much for Mingkun's future, but he has neglected the most important thing.
He made the same mistake as his father did.
He is always thinking about how to make Mingkun suffer less, how to make Mingshi group develop in Mingkun's hands, how to let Mingkun lead the Mingjia family and restore the famous family. However, he has never thought about it. For Mingkun, are these really what he wants?
More than 20 years ago, as the prospective successor of the Ming family, he was so conflicted when facing the marriage arranged by his parents. Although his mood has been much more flat, the situation at that time is still fresh in my mind.
When he was young, he was taught that when he grew up, he would succeed his father to become the president of Ming's group and manage the whole family. During his growing up years, no one asked him about his preferences, the contents he learned and the training he participated in. All of them were customized to become a qualified successor. In such an environment, he naturally went to work Accept this reality.
It is probably the most rebellious thing he has ever done in the first 30 years of his life to refuse the Fang family and choose to form a family with a girl he really loves.
Now I think that he was still too young at that time. He only knew that he would be in charge of the Ming group and lead a huge family in the future, but no one told him how much hardship there would be.
Because, from the beginning, his father and mother, in order to let him suffer less, do all possible bedding.
Therefore, when he was a little boy and had almost no social experience, he was fearless and fearless. He thought he didn't need any help from outside, and could take into account the interests of the company and the love he wanted.
However, after more than 20 years of life, he realized how immature he was.
Parents are dedicated to their own good, they are not wrong, they want to form a family with their loved ones, this is not wrong.
However, they all ignore that there are two ways.
To succeed his father and become the chairman of the Ming family group is not just in charge of a company. Since he took up this position, he has also undertaken the prosperity of the family. As the head of the family, he has that obligation and responsibility to make the Ming family more glorious.
On this road, it is undoubtedly the easiest and the least risky to go on according to the arrangement of parents.
But he refused to marry the Fang family and chose the woman he liked.
It seems that he just refused the arranged marriage of his family. In fact, behind it is his dissatisfaction with the arrangement of his parents' family.
He was only taught from an early age that when he grew up, he wanted to become the chairman of the board and manage the whole group and family, but he never thought about whether he liked such a life.
It was only in the past 20 years that he gradually found that he was more willing and more suitable to be an ordinary family member than a good family owner.
It's not that he didn't have the ambition of a prosperous family, but because of his character, temper and principles And so on many reasons, doomed, he simply can not be very good competent for the chairman.