Chapter 467 It's better to be twins
Bought some incense candles at the entrance, so Ming Qianye quickly took out the incense, went to the incense burning place on the side, quickly lit the incense, and handed some to Shen Tinglan...
Shen Tinglan hesitated for a moment before taking it.
Ming Qianye had already walked towards the Avalokitesvara statue, bowed three times before burning incense.
After burning incense, when he turned his head to look, he saw the big devil who was also quietly burning incense.
In Ming Qianye's impression, he seems to seldom do such a thing, but looking at it now, it seems that there is no sense of disobedience.
…
"Senior, are you looking for a boy or a girl? I'm asking for a boy and a girl... It's best to have twins, and it's done at once..."
As soon as he walked out of Guanyin Hall, Ming Qianye reached out and grabbed Shen Tinglan's sleeve and asked.
So straightforward that Tang Feng and a bunch of his subordinates beside him couldn't help holding back their laughter.
Their young lady is so direct.
When Shen Tinglan listened, she couldn't help being stunned for a moment, and subconsciously looked at her, the light in her black eyes was very deep and meaningful, and after looking into her clear eyes for a long time, he didn't mind Don't be slow—
"Didn't you say that you haven't grown up yet and haven't thought about this?"
Ming Qianye: …
After pondering for a while, Ming Qianye replied—
"That won't delay my prayer, right? I didn't pray that there is now... senior, you haven't answered my question yet..."
Shen Tinglan looked at her deeply, with a faint smile on Qingjun Chuchen's face, and asked, "What do you think?"
What do you want him to say?
He didn't make a wish at all, he just worshiped and offered incense silently. Relying on these, Shen Tinglan felt that it was better to rely on himself, but of course he would not belittle or slander, after all, he still retained a trace of respect.
"What do I think? I don't feel anything... I want to know, do I still ask you?"
"It's all okay... let it take its course."
Shen Tinglan replied.
"It's all right? What if there are two girls?"
Ming Qianye immediately frowned.
Shen Tinglan looked at her with great interest, and said with a smile, "You don't like girls? Patriarchal?"
Ming Qianye listened, gave him a big white eye, and immediately replied—
"I'm not doing it for myself. In case of two daughters, you have to take care of three girls, which will exhaust you... If there is a boy and a girl, they can take care of each other. Girls are generally more delicate and more thoughtful. .Besides, being an older sister is tiring...I'm afraid I won't be fair..."
Now that he was talking, Ming Qianye also became worried.
Obviously, I didn't think about children yesterday, but now I can talk about it.
"I'm sure I won't be patriarchal, senior, but being my daughter may be tiring..."
Shen Tinglan: …
Ming Qianye thought about it, and then continued, "Our grades are not bad. If the child's grades are not good, I am worried that I will beat him. Girls are not resistant to beatings, but boys are resistant to beatings. I may not be able to take care of them on a daily basis. They I have to learn how to cook for me..."
As Shen Tinglan listened, she suddenly felt a little worried about their child.
With these two things, children may not be able to have a relaxed and happy childhood.
"Aren't you saying you don't care too much about grades..."
"Hey, that's for others. You must be strict with yourself. You can see that Xiao Che was pulled up by me in this way. The first thing for children is to train their xinxing and let him get used to it. With a strong heart, they will not be so fragile when facing difficulties or even failures..."
Ming Qianye now pays more attention to the children's psychological quality and physical health. Only on this premise can they ask for their grades.
Many children nowadays are flowers in the greenhouse, and their minds are more sensitive and fragile. Parents are very careful to take care of them, and they don’t want their children to bear the slightest grievance. Therefore, the pressure of being a teacher is also great——
The leaders above require performance, and the seniors and parents below also require students' grades, but the children should not be wronged. Saying harsh words may hurt the children's self-esteem, and they should not put too much pressure on the children.
Ming Qianye has seen many such examples, so he will put more thought into the children's psychological quality.
Even when she was a representative every year, she also advocated that the school pay attention to the psychological problems of the students, match more psychological counselors, and pay attention to the psychological problems of the children.
Shen Tinglan felt that his skills had regressed a lot, and many times, he couldn't keep up with her skills.
Ming Qianye walked forward while speaking.
Going inside is the Daxiong Hall. She went to burn a stick of incense, and saw the little novice at the side watching the wooden fish and chanting sutras.
Ming Qianye thought of the key in his hand, and didn't know whether to ask the abbot of the temple directly, or visit it by himself, and slowly search for it...
After thinking about it, Ming Qianye finally decided to ask the host directly, so he walked over, picked up the bamboo tube on the side and shook it, and when one fell out, he picked it up and walked towards the little monk.
"Hello, little master, I want to find your host and ask him to solve this lottery for me, is that okay?"
"Hello, benefactor, the presiding officer is in the meditation room in the backyard, you can see him directly in the past."
The little monk said.
"Okay, thank you…"
…
"Senior, let's go to the meditation room in the backyard."
Ming Qianye said to Shen Tinglan.
Shen Tinglan glanced at her, and immediately realized that she probably didn't come here simply to seek a child, but with a purpose.
At this moment, Shen Tinglan gave Tang Feng a wink, and Tang Feng and the others immediately nodded, and then they arranged things, and the group became more vigilant.
After walking a long distance, I finally came to the meditation room in the backyard.
At a glance, I saw the host who was tidying up the vegetable garden in the courtyard.
Seeing them walk in, the host stopped what he was doing.
"Master host, excuse me, we want to ask you to know something, is it convenient?"
Ming Qianye came to the edge of the vegetable bed and said politely.
The host looked very kind, listen, then nodded and walked over.
Soon, several people came to the stone table under the sweet-scented osmanthus tree.
"Two benefactors, please sit down."
Several people sat down.
"What's the matter with you two?"
The host quickly asked.
"Master host, I want to ask if this thing is from your place..."
Ming Qianye did not hesitate, and quickly took out the transparent bag with the key from his pocket, and handed it to the host—
Hearing this, the host quickly picked it up, looked at it, and immediately said, "This... this... is indeed something from our Nanqing Temple, it is the key mark of the memorial tablet cabinet, it's just..."
(end of this chapter)