Chapter 584： I wish we could still dance and drink

Chapter 584 May we still dance in the evening

A bowl accidentally fell on the ground. For the Zen master, it was like hearing the sound of the universe, and the whole body relaxed together.

We have a lot of people today who can break a bowl hundreds of times without feeling it.

Because we live in the superficial world, shallow joy, shallow mood, shallow work... shallow living.

But that’s not the case when traveling.

Especially take part in a journey that does not set goals and does not rush.

I will give you the world, and the rest is optional.

In this way, although time is limited, everyone can arrange themselves according to their free will and devote themselves to it.

The next few days.

Someone went to the surrounding heartbeat park to play.

Someone hid in a bookstore deep in the mountains, looking out from the transparent bookstore, all eyes were green, transparent and natural, feeling an immersive reading experience.

Some people go out to take pictures of mountains and waters to see the scenery, experience the fragments of life that are taking a break from their busy schedules, and feel the atmosphere of fireworks in the world.

No matter when it came, what everyone expected.

At least these few days in the mountains, everyone experienced what they wanted to experience.

Everyone let go of themselves in a seemingly awkward way, allowing themselves to be recuperated and nourished, surrounded by a steady stream of small happiness.

The longer the    flow, the faster time flies.

The day    left.

The sky above everyone's heads is so blue, and the tulle-like clouds are gorgeous and colorful, like a precious oil painting softly painted on the sky, so beautiful.

Ning Youguang looked at the sky above his head and felt as if he was reading an ancient book, lying in hot water for a bath, very comfortable.

Taking a break from the busy schedule made the team building team of "Starlight" feel real healing and relaxation.

The return bus is slowly moving.

There are also many cheerful and playful teammates, full of energy.

They opened the car windows, waved at the surrounding green hills and fields, and shouted—

"I hope the green hills remain, and we can still dance in the evening."

"May all our wishes come to us on schedule."

As the book says:

"The sea and the sunset do not belong to everyone, but everyone yearns for the sunset and the sea."

…

When Xia Yan knew that Ning Youguang followed Shi Wangyue to the team building, and received her news again, it was three days later.

"I sent a message to you two days ago, so you won't say anything after a few words?"

"Because I'm on vacation." Ning Youguang sat in the office and told Xia Qu in the video.

"What does a vacation have to do with calling me?" Xia Yan, who was wearing a soft home clothes, held an empty baby bottle in her hand.

"Of course it has something to do with it." Ning Youguang said, "I can't tell you in a few words what you said to me. I can only talk about it after my vacation."

"Can't you say a few more words if you can't say a few words?" Across the phone screen, Xia Qu rolled her eyes.

"No." Ning Youguang shook his head confidently.

"why?"

"Because it would disturb my vacation."

Xia Yu was speechless, "Hey, talk to me well, I'll just ask you a few questions, why are you still bothering your vacation? Across thousands of miles, can I still use up your vacation? "

"It's not that you can use up my vacation." Ning Youguang said seriously, "It's that talking to you will affect my vacation mood."

"Serious." Xia Qu spit out.

"It's not hypocritical." Ning Youguang retorted with a smile, "When you are on vacation, you should have no worries. I work and go to work every day, and I give serious consultation to the client for a better vacation. When the stream is flowing, it is a pity to talk about various issues with you, and the surrounding scenery is a pity."

However, there are people who talk about problems everywhere, and there are always very few people who can go on vacation together with peace of mind.

Therefore, when you have it, you should cherish it even more.

Xia Yan in the video was lost in thought.

After a long while, she put down the bottle in her hand, said hello to the confinement aunt at home, and hid in her room, "Can you talk to me now?"

"Of course." Ning Youguang took a sip of water while holding the thermos cup, "You told me last time that the complementary food your mother-in-law arranged for the child was not suitable, right?"

"yes."

Talking about the problems she was facing, Xia Yan's mood dropped visibly.

The whole body is full of fatigue, "In addition to the problem of the child's complementary food, I found that my mother-in-law's parenting habits have indicators, the child must drink 100ml of milk for two hours, go to bed on time, and add complementary food according to the amount, too anxious, she does everything on a regular basis. The child will lose the initiative to eat.”

"Anything else?"

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is really a problem since ancient times.

"Also whenever I suggest that a parenting plan and standard that is more in line with the actual needs of the baby need to be developed, my mother-in-law always stubbornly says: 'What you said is very reasonable, but this method of mine does not It's a very scientific parenting method that I have studied before, look at your husband, isn't he looking good now?"

"What's even worse is my husband. I asked him to communicate with his mother and don't interfere too much with the child's affairs, but he said that he said it, and he couldn't say it, so let me be more tolerant and tolerant, you know? Our family only needs a mother-in-law. If I interfere in the affairs of the child, I will be extremely irritable, but if she does not interfere, my husband and I are very Buddha, and the child is also very good..."

Ning Youguang felt the torment of Xia Yan in his heart.

Listen, listen, she understands too—

Xia Yu was talking to her about parenting issues on the surface, but in fact it was just a superficial problem.

Her inner problem is the incompatibility of parenting concepts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

The problem she is facing now is not at all about raising children.

It is about adults, in the relationship between adults.

"You and your mother-in-law are people of different generations, and their parenting concepts are different. It is normal to encounter friction. Also, your mother-in-law and their generation have verified that their parenting methods are easy to use, and it is difficult to change them casually. , you need to put aside each other's positions, start from the actual needs of the child, look at the needs of the child more, combine the actual situation and characteristics of the child, how benign communication and discussion among family members, integrate the wisdom of family members, and finally form A set of parenting methods that are most suitable for children, after all, raising a baby to be healthy, strong, and smart is the most fundamental wish of a family.”

"That's what I said." In the video, Xia Yu was restless while leaning on the bed, which shows that her problems really make her very difficult, "We often discuss this issue, and we have agreed on the problems to be solved before communicating. , but when he was talking, he started to stray, and in the end he couldn't agree."

"Then your communication methods also need to be adjusted." Ning Youguang said. 1314

(end of this chapter)