Chapter 668 The routine of coaxing children
Xia Youqing looked at the mother who asked the question, thought for a while and said, "I think what the child will be like when he grows up depends on the child's talent and personality."
"What's the difference between what you said and what you didn't say?"
The mother of the guest wanted to complain intuitively, but soon thought that Xia Youqing and her ex-husband divorced early.
According to Xia Youqing's appearance, she is not a mother who cares about children's education, so she understands Xia Youqing's lazy attitude, "You are right."
She looked at Xia Youqing and smiled, "What will the child become when he grows up? Parents' education is very important, but the child's personal talent, skills, and personality are more important."
"For children who are particularly subjective, parents really need to worry less and pay more attention." Jin Quan smiled and said with a look of experience, "At the same time, the respect of parents will also make children more confident, and it will be more conducive for children to express themselves. talent on display.”
"Confidence is really important for children." Other guests also spoke.
All the guests present agreed with this point, so the host asked, "I would like to ask all the young friends here, do you think you are a confident person, or how do you think your parents treat you? Will you be more confident?"
The camera hit Kim So-yeon's face first, she smiled brightly, "I always feel that I can be whoever I want to be, there is no time limit, and I can start at any time."
In the whole sentence, there is no mention of self-confidence, but every word is full of self-confidence.
The other guests admired her confidence.
Then, everyone analyzed their own self-confidence and lack of self-confidence.
When it was Xie Yizun's turn, the host said one more sentence, "Yi Yi, I think you must have been very confident since you were a child, after all you were so cute when you were young!"
"If you talk about appearance, I'm okay, but I don't have anything else." Xie Yizun denied, "I also had a lot of unconfidence when I was young, but I gradually became more confident with my sister's encouragement."
"Oh?" The host seemed curious, "So one by one, is it because my sister has become more confident?"
Xie Yizun nodded, "Yes."
The host asked again, "So, my sister must be a very confident person."
An unconfident person cannot lead another unconfident person to become confident.
Xie Yizun affirmed, "Yes, my sister is very confident. I think she is the most confident person in our family."
As soon as he said this, the host and other guests all turned their surprised eyes on Xia Youqing who was beside him.
They didn't expect Xie Yizun to think that his sister was the most confident person in the family.
According to their thinking, they think Xia Youqing should be the most confident person in their family.
After all, since his debut, Xia Youqing's personality traits in the circle are very confident, sassy, and daring.
"I thought you would say that mom is the most confident person in the family." The host hahaha spoke out on behalf of everyone.
Xie Yizun glanced at Xia Youqing who was smiling beside him, "My mother is quite confident."
—"But not the most confident person in our family, my sister is."
He said yes, but the guests were skeptical.
The main reason is that they think, a girl whose parents divorced since she was a child, how can she be confident?
Xie Yizun wants to say that the most confident person in the family is himself, which is better than his sister.
Some people think, "If a girl is confident enough, she will live a bright and flamboyant life. It is absolutely impossible for such a person to be a restrained teacher or academic worker."
In short, the more Xie Yizun said, the more people present felt that his words were illogical.
Xie Yizun couldn't understand the emotional changes in the eyes of the guests present who tried their best to hide.
But Xia Youqing could understand.
Then, everyone saw her smiling brightly and charmingly, "I am not as confident as my daughter."
After drawing everyone's attention to himself in one sentence, Xia Youqing continued to explain slowly, "My self-confidence depends more on my own accumulation, or what is added to me by experience and experience, and there is a steady stream of self-confidence. Affirmation from the outside world, etc., there are many times, if I encounter some accidents, I will lose control and fear, but my daughter's self-confidence is not, her self-confidence is grown from the bone, she is the kind, even if the whole world Everyone says she is bad, everyone denies her, she can have a very stable and strong core, the kind that is invincible, and her self-confidence, in addition to giving herself very powerful energy, can also affect others. "
Xie Yizun took Xia Youqing's words, "Since I was a child, my elder sister loved to tell me, 'We are the best one by one'. For example, when I was four years old and just started playing the piano, my sister said, 'We can play the piano one by one as well as ten. Or, when the school held a sports meeting, I only ran third, but my sister was very happy, as if I had won the first place, and said loudly on the side of the sports field: "One by one It's amazing, one by one is the best', that is, every time I'm with her, I can get a lot of strength. "
Xie Yizun's tone calmed down slightly, "I feel that no matter how rotten I am, even if it's a puddle of mud, I can still see myself shining in her eyes."
The scene gradually became quieter, and the previous frivolity and suspicion in many people's eyes were also gone.
Perhaps it was because of the touching words of the young man, or perhaps because of his calm tone, which made people feel the seriousness and seriousness in it.
In short, the atmosphere at the scene soon filled with a quiet air, as if everyone was thinking about something involuntarily.
The host doesn't think there are too many things to do. After Xie Yizun and Xia Youqing's mother and son answered, he took advantage of everyone's contemplation and cue Jin Suyan again, "Suyan, didn't you say that you know sister Yiyi very well, sister Yiyi Is it as confident as he said?"
Kim So-yeon was slightly displeased, but her face was calm, and she smiled after thinking seriously, "One by one is right."
She looked at Xie Yizun with a smile, then at Xia Youqing, and then added, "However, I have a slightly different opinion from Yiyi. I think auntie is as confident as sister."
Kim So-yeon is actually a bit taboo, and doesn't want to talk too much about Ning Youguang.
I don't want to talk about it, not only because she is not familiar with Ning Youguang, but also because she knows better than other guests present that there is nothing to say about Miss Ning's family.
Xia Youqing and Xie Yizun are family members, so what they say is a family matter, but if she talks too much, it will no longer be a family matter.
Not only for her, her family, but also her fiancé's family, should not be too borderless towards Miss Ning's family in public.
She still understands this point of propriety.
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Off-screen, Shi Mochizuki was amused by Xie Yizun's various compliments on her sister.
But soon, he asked Ning Youguang again in a puzzled manner, "Why do you praise me for playing the piano well, the same as when you praised me for playing the piano well when I was a child?"
Ning Youguang stroked his forehead, "I'm uneducated, I don't know how else to boast other than this sentence."
It is impossible for her to tell him honestly, "This is a way to coax children!"
Ning Youguang and Shi Wangyue were in a hurry to go home. After turning on the TV, they directly focused on the speeches of the guests on the screen.
They rarely watch TV at home, and occasionally use the big screen at home to watch movies, and they are not used to playing barrage. 1314
(end of this chapter)