Chapter 697： The person who knows me best is you

Chapter 697 The person who knows me best is you

Ning Youguang looked at Shi Mochiyue with a dejected look and said, "Then let's make an agreement first, all our arguments in the future are for the sake of us being able to be better together in the future, not for anything else."

"Of course." Shi Mochizuki nodded, "It's impossible to do anything else."

Ning Youguang said, "Professor Albert from Stanford University is working on a new project and needs new personnel to join him. He has a good relationship with the teacher, so..."

Shi Mochizuki stagnated in breathing.

Professor Albert of Stanford University.

He knows that he is a leader in the field of international psychology today.

Since Ning Youguang met him at the International Psychology Summit held in Boston that year, he has always admired her.

The two also exchange emails from time to time.

"Professor Yu recommended you to his laboratory?"

Ning Youguang shook his head, "No, because of Professor Albert's recommendation, Stanford University wants to invite me to join."

Shi Mochizuki's heart sank rapidly for a moment, and at the same time, his mind suddenly became chaotic.

He knows that most professors from domestic universities must accept "discounted sales" when they go abroad to work, but this does not include Ning Youguang.

Not to mention, she has been working hard with academician Yu to do research in psychology since she was in college in China. Secondly, because of her excellent language skills, her academic papers have been published in top foreign journals over the years. .

Therefore, it can be said that Ning Youguang's popularity in foreign academic circles is no less than that in China, and she also maintains in-depth cooperation with many foreign universities.

And she was able to gain insight into where the psychology profession is going globally.

It can be said that no matter how far Huaguo's psychology major lags behind Europe and the United States.

Ning Youguang, a professor of psychology at the National University of Science and Technology, is an expert in the academic field of psychology in the world today. If she wants to go out, she will not be discriminated against, and she will roam around like a crane in the clouds.

If it is true as she said, going to Stanford can also get the treatment of a professor at the same level, which can be regarded as a step up for her career development.

Wait for her to go abroad and come back after a few years of experience. At that time, whether she wants to lead a scientific research team independently or become a scientist, it will be a matter of course. There will be no shortage of resources or connections.

Shi Mochizuki knew how good this opportunity was for her, but—

He asked knowingly, "Equal level?"

Ning Youguang smiled confidently, "If I go, I will definitely get the same grade."

Moreover, there is a certainty that it will not take long to obtain the qualification of a tenured professor.

But that wasn't her purpose.

Shi Mochizuki's mind went blank, but his heart gradually calmed down.

He already knew that with her ability, it must be like this.

"You..." To go or not to go?

He suddenly didn't dare to ask.

But Ning Youguang knew what he wanted to know.

"I dont go."

"Is it because of me?" Shi Mochizuki lowered his head and slowed down his speech.

"You are a big factor." Ning Youguang chose to tell the truth.

Her psychological enlightenment started at Stanford University, and her grandmother and great-grandmother both studied at Stanford.

Therefore, she has different feelings about going to Stanford, whether it is to study or to apply for a job.

If in this life, she is still the same as in her previous life, she is alone, maybe this time she will take the olive branch that Professor Albert handed over and go.

It’s true that even if she goes, it’s not that she won’t come and go all the time, just to come back as a more professional self.

But there is no if in life.

"Isn't this a pity?"

Even if he knew that Ning Youguang did not go to Stanford, it was not all because of himself, Shi Mochiyue felt very happy.

But while I was happy, I also felt that it would be a pity if I gave up such a good opportunity.

After all, she has always admired the academic atmosphere of psychology research at Stanford University.

"I won't work there." Of course Ning Youguang knew what Shi Wangyue meant, so he said frankly, "But I think I can join Professor Albert's laboratory and complete this project with him. What do you think?"

Shi Mochizuki's heart became restless again, "This kind of thing... I can't give you advice. You may ask Teacher Yu or other friends who can give you more professional advice."

Ning Youguang said, "The teacher suggested that I go. She felt that although the project taught by Albert was too cutting-edge, it was very suitable for me. No matter whether it was successful or not, I went and always received a lot of things."

Shi Mochizuki felt that his happiness was weak.

He lowered his eyes slightly, "What about your decision?"

"Mochizuki, I know that the previous time I asked you to move home for work and career, and our brief separation has already made you very uncomfortable. If I propose to go out again this time, or go to such a far place, you must be more uncomfortable."

Shi Mochizuki pursed her lips, and said in a hoarse voice, "You are right, in a foreign country, so close to each other, I have had enough of the pain of lovesickness between the two places."

"Watching the moon." Ning Youguang's heart tightened slightly.

Shi Mochizuki raised his head, Qingjuan showed a bitter smile, "Sister, you have never experienced a secret love as hard as mine, so you probably don't understand."

"I..." Ning Youguang really didn't understand, and couldn't empathize with him, but she could figure out a thing or two from the content of his Weibo.

Shi Mochizuki gently put down the chopsticks in his hand, and asked slowly, "What's your decision?"

Ning Youguang couldn't answer immediately.

There was silence between the two.

At this moment, the waiter came over with a plate of curry shrimp and a plate of northern Thai grilled lamb chops.

Placing down the two dishes, the waiter's eyes fell on the cup with little water left in front of Ning Youguang, "Beauty, do you need some water for you?"

From the corner of his eye, he glanced at Ning Youguang from time to time.

Shi Mochizuki immediately said coldly, "No need."

Three short words, the waiter felt a chill down his spine, "Okay, please go ahead, you two, you can call me anytime you need."

Wait for the waiter to leave with the plate.

Shi Wangyue picked up the teapot at hand, and slowly poured water into Ning Youguang's cup, "Let's eat first."

Placing down the teapot, he first picked up the serving chopsticks at hand, and picked up a curry prawn for Ning Youguang.

Afterwards, I sandwiched a grilled lamb chop for myself.

This Thai dish, because it is close to home, tastes pretty good.

The two have been here several times, and they are very familiar with each other's tastes, and there is no stepping on the pit.

Ning Youguang was not in a hurry to eat food.

She knows some things, if she doesn't make it clear in time, it will cause a lot of trouble for people.

"Mochizuki, I want to go to Professor Albert's laboratory and complete this scientific research project with him. I know this is very selfish. For my own career, I have repeatedly wronged you."

Moreover, Professor Albert invited her to the project this time. In her previous life, she did not see any relevant scientific research results or related news.

So she guessed that the project either failed or died halfway.

But this project is really in line with her future research direction and the field she is committed to developing.

If this life, because of her participation, the project in Professor Albert's laboratory can have a different result.

She felt that it was a very meaningful thing for her and for more people.

"You're not selfish." Shi Mochizuki ate the lamb chops with a calm expression, "You just didn't give up yourself for me."

After thinking about it, he added, "Or, you didn't compromise with me for your mission."

"You're right." Ning Youguang nodded.

She did not give up herself for him.

Moreover, she once discussed this issue with Zhuang Yijing: "Is there a day when you will give up yourself for love or marriage?"

Her answer to the other party was—

"I can give up myself for Mochizuki, but I won't give up my mission for anything."

Zhuang Yijing asked somewhat incomprehensibly, "Why?"

Ning Youguang said, "Because the self is only about myself, but the mission is about more people. I have no reason to give up the purpose of my life on earth for myself."

Zhuang Yijing asked again, "What if one day someone in your family asks you to choose between him and your mission?"

Ning Youguang was silent for a while, "Although he will be very sad, he is probably willing to bear the pain and support me."

"why?"

"Because he is a person with a big picture."

Shi Mochizuki looked at Ning Youguang's calm face, "Eat, I'm hungry after waiting for so long."

There are many people in the shopping mall tonight, and there are also many people in this restaurant.

The two were busy talking just now, and forgot the time for a moment.

After Shi Mochizuki waited for the waiter to serve the dishes, he took a look at the time pointed by the hands of the watch on his hand. It was already past eight o'clock.

Ning Youguang just ate the bottom of the skewers, but he was not hungry.

But she knew that Shi Mochizuki let her eat to ease each other's emotions.

When the two get along, Shi Mochizuki has always been the one who avoids emotional conflicts with each other.

In other words, he has been paying attention to maintaining a good emotional state in front of her.

It's not that he doesn't have bad moods, but his bad moods are always given to others, never to himself.

As for myself, because I have practiced, I can achieve real emotional stability.

On the contrary, when there is a little emotional instability, it is at Shi Mochizuki.

Friends often ask her, "Why do I always like to give the worst emotions to family members or close people around me?"

Ning Youguang replied, "Because you know that they will tolerate you, even if you give them bad emotions, they will not really blame you, stay away from you, in front of them, you are safe and can be forgiven. understand the loved."

Her self-awareness ability is not very strong, but it can be considered okay.

Every time she has emotions about Shi Mochizuki, she basically observes it when she rises up in her heart, and then digests it herself.

It wouldn't be particularly obvious to him.

But she knew clearly that she was different in front of others and Shi Mochizuki.

Many times, she knew that she was tolerant of him, too. 1314

(end of this chapter)