The son wants to support his parents, but they are not there.
Similarly, if you give birth but do not support them, how can you be called a parent? Li Suniang now believes that people live not only for love but also for the responsibilities they have to bear. People can live without love, but they cannot abandon their responsibilities.
Supporting parents and educating children are responsibilities that should be undertaken.
Parents gave birth to you, raised you, and did their best to give you everything you need. When they are old, they only hope that their children can visit them often and chat with them. Even a brief greeting or a short company will make them very happy.
One should know that sheep have the grace of kneeling to suckle, and crows also know to feed their parents in return. If a person does not know what filial piety is, he is even worse than an animal.
The grace of giving birth should be returned, so raising children should not be abandoned.
Giving birth but not supporting them is an irresponsible behavior, whether as a father or a mother. Since one has decided to give birth, it means that the couple's thoughts are mature, not ignorant.
Li Suniang now does not approve of the original body's behavior of being full of love and not caring about her own children for love. She thinks such behavior is stupid and irrational.
Love can exist, but it is not everything for a person. Life is short, but it is not lived for a certain emotion or thing.
Live for yourself and live for the spirit.
Maybe everyone has different ideas! But now Li Suniang feels that life is short. It's not easy to come once, so she can't waste it.
Since the original body doesn't cherish it, then she will cherish the opportunity to be a human again. She will help the original body raise a good child and let the child grow up happily.
Now living in Li Suniang's body is a wisp of soul from a thousand years later, whose original name is Li Yiyi. Since they have the same surname, Li, they may come from the same ancestor!
Li Yiyi's family lives in a rural area on the edge of the city. There are grandparents, parents, and a younger brother who is fifteen years younger than her. Oh, and there is also a married aunt. Although the family of six is not rich, they live a decent life.
Her aunt's family is relatively well-off, and she has a good relationship with Yiyi's father, so she often goes home to give some money. Of course, their family doesn't take it for nothing. Every time her aunt goes back, she brings back some agricultural products from home in large and small bags. Although they are not worth much, they are not poisonous.
Her aunt married a man in the city. She grew up beautiful and capable. Anyway, from Yiyi's point of view, she is much more capable and smart than her father. Otherwise, how could she pass the civil service exam while her father was trembling in junior high school and almost couldn't graduate?
It was not easy to get her to study in a technical school so she could make a living after graduation; otherwise, she didn't know if she could get married.
Not to mention that her mother is now fat and wide, and she keeps shouting about losing weight but never takes action. Yiyi said it would be better to have a second child, and maybe she could lose weight faster with the second child. You know, raising a child is not something you can do with words. It is laborious, and she can't sleep well at night. It is estimated that after some time, it can really help her mother regain her slimness.
Not to mention that Yiyi really mentioned this idea to her mother, but her mother gave her a pair of white eyes and the word "get out.”
In the end, Yiyi didn't change her name. It's not that she didn't want to change it, but it was too troublesome. She asked herself, and there were many conditions. She felt dizzy after hearing them, and finally, nothing happened.
But when she was sixteen, she really welcomed a brother fifteen years younger than her. She was so happy because she had an ally in the future.
This brother came quietly. When her mother found out something was wrong, the little thing had grown up. Although her mother was carefree, she was actually quite timid. Why didn't she get pregnant with a second child after so many years? It was because her mother wore an IUD, but she didn't know when it was removed, and then someone came.
Her mother didn't want to give birth to a child. After all, her daughter was so old, but she was afraid to go to the hospital for an abortion. Although it could be done painlessly, she couldn't resist the panic in her heart.
Although her grandparents didn't say anything explicitly, they still hoped that she could give birth to the second child. After all, the country has allowed the birth of a second child. As Yiyi grew up, the laughter of children gradually decreased at home, and the house seemed a bit deserted. It would be great if she could have a child.
Her mother finally decided on this tangle. She was going to be the Empress Dowager Cixi for a few months and let people serve her well.
The arrival of her younger brother made Yiyi happy and disgusted. She was happy that she had a little baby to play with when she went home, but she disliked that this little baby only knew how to eat and drink. When he was happy, he would nag her for a few words, and when he was unhappy, he would cry hard, and then he would sleep. He didn't understand when you scolded him, and you couldn't bear to hit him. In the end, you had to work hard to change his diaper.
The younger brother liked to stick to Yiyi and liked his sister the most. When there was something delicious and fun, the first person he thought of was Yiyi. This made Yiyi feel a lot more balanced, and she felt that she really didn't spend so much energy to raise him in vain. Yiyi helped to name her younger brother, and she didn't want her mother, who didn't like to use her brain, to give him a name that she thought was good.
Although Yiyi's academic performance was not perfect, it was better than her poor father and her mother who didn't like to use her brain. At least she could go to a second-tier university and take the postgraduate entrance examination. After all, she was a postgraduate student in the end.
It's a pity that all those years of studying were in vain. More than 20 years of life was just like a dream. In the end, nothing was left.
The familiar home and familiar relatives were gone. God was just playing a big joke on her, and then suddenly threw her to this completely unfamiliar place, and everything had to start from scratch.
She doesn't know how long her carefree and heartless mother will be sad. After all, her grandparents are old, and she was afraid that being too sad would hurt their health. And there's also the younger brother who always likes to stick to her...
As for her silly father...
Alas... She hoped my younger brother could take on the responsibility of comforting their parents.
Yuyu: I don't think I would be able to adapt to living a life without my family being a Phone call away.