Chapter 1248： Luo Yanqing’s insights for her children

Chapter 1248 Luo Yanqing’s insights for his children

Hearing what Hu Dongting said, Mr. Xi sighed: "You should also look at it. Now that you have this little guy named Hanghang, for Xiaochuan, you will have someone to rely on in the future. You and your siblings should relax and don't have to be so tense all the time." Stay calm, otherwise, the hope of having great-grandchildren will have to wait until the next life!"

Hearing this, Hu Dongting immediately laughed: "That's not possible. I definitely want to have great-grandchildren!"

As soon as the words came out of his mouth, Hu Dongting felt that the depression in his heart caused by the little girl from the Gao family dissipated in an instant.

· Xi Lao: "The idea is good, but you have to take practical actions and exercise more every day."

Hu Dongting: "That's true, but after so many years, I haven't neglected training."

He gets up early and goes for a run. Even if it rains or snows, he will run in place for a while at home and practice boxing.

In short, the body is the capital of the revolution, and with his son’s situation there, he must live longer, so he naturally has to pay more attention to his own health.

Lao Xi smiled when he heard the words, and then called Hu Dongting to start fighting on Qipan Mountain.

After playing three games in a row, Hu Dongting lost to Xi Lao in each game. He was unconvinced. However, his chess skills were really inferior to others. In desperation, seeing that the clock was about to point to nine o'clock, he stood up to say goodbye to Xi Lao and the rest of the Xi family, and hugged him. The little grandson returned to his home.

“Xiaoyu.”

At this moment, only Xi Lao and Xi Chenyu were left in the living room. However, just when Xi Lao called Xi Chenyu, Xi Guobang walked in from the door. He had just returned home from get off work.

"What's wrong?"

 Seeing Xi Chenyu standing in front of the old man with a tense face, Xi Guobang took off his big hat and put it on the sofa. He looked at his old father and then at his younger son, and couldn't help but have a trace of doubt in his deep eyes.

"Your Uncle Gao brought Little Moon to our house to play after dinner. Xiao Yu didn't know what happened and made the little girl cry. Later, when he saw that Xiao Yu only played with Hang Hang, he opened his mouth and offended your Uncle Hu. Anyway, that's it. The Hu family and the Gao family most likely have a quarrel with each other about what happened tonight."

There is no other meaning in saying this. In his opinion, what happened tonight was indeed the fault of the little girl of the Gao family, and the reason why the little girl said such words, anyone would think that it has something to do with the adults in the family.

If Hu Dongting had no idea about this, he would be a little arrogant.

The reason?

If it were him, even if his son had a mental problem, and even if everyone in the courtyard knew this fact, talking about it behind his back, and calling his son a fool directly in front of him, would be a huge problem for a father in his heart. He must be very angry.

“How did Little Moon from Uncle Gao’s family offend Uncle Hu?”

Xi Guobang is a little curious.

"When the little girl saw that our little Yu didn't play with her, she got angry and cried endlessly. She said that the little Yu was playing with a fool's son. Why didn't he like her and didn't play with her? Your Uncle Hu said this without hesitation. Listen to it."

Speaking of this, Mr. Xi turned his eyes to the little grandson: "Now you can tell me, why don't you like Little Moon and don't like playing with Little Moon?"

Xi Chenyu’s face was expressionless: “There is no reason.”

If you don’t like it, you just don’t like it. If you have to find a reason, then you can only say that you don’t like it.

“Hey! You have quite a personality!”

Xi Guobang laughed out loud with a playful look in his eyes: "Then tell me who you like to play with?"

Hearing this, Xi Chenyu pursed his lips and remained silent.

Seeing this, Xi Guobang deliberately put on a thoughtful expression: "Do you like to play with your Aunt Jiang's Guoguo?"

Hide back a laugh, Xi Guobang observed the expression on Xi Chenyu's face.

Mr. Xi knew that his son was teasing his grandson, but he still glared at Xi Guobang, but Xi Guobang just pretended not to see it and said to Xi Chenyu: "It seems that I was wrong, you don't like your Aunt Jiang's Guoguo. I don’t like playing with Sister Guoguo either…”

Before he could finish his words, Xi Chenyu said, "No."

Ignoring Xi Guobang's teasing gaze, Xi Chenyu looked serious: "I don't like playing with Sister Guoguo."

Xi Guobang said "Oh", he rubbed his chin and said: "You answered so quickly, it seems that you really like your Aunt Jiang's fruit, but even so, you can't say too much to Little Moon, Xi Chen Yu, do you understand what I mean?"

“I didn’t, I just said I didn’t like playing with her. This is my freedom. I don’t think I was wrong.”

As Xi Chenyu's childish voice, still with a hint of milkiness, fell, a female voice came from the stairs: "Xiao Yu, you are right, you are free to play with whom you like or not."

The owner of this voice is Xi Chenyu’s mother, Xu Dan, Xi Guobang’s wife.

The woman has neat short hair, a heroic look on her face and eyes, and at first glance she has a sassy and decisive temperament.

Speaking of which, this should be related to her profession: soldier.

“Dandan, you...”

Xi Guobang disagrees a little.

“Do you think what I said is wrong?”

Xu Dan came down the stairs and she looked at Xi Guobang and raised her eyebrows.

The man with a strong desire to survive shook his head hurriedly.

Xu Dan rolled his eyes at the other party, and then turned his gaze to Xi Lao: "Dad, I know what you and Guobang think. I think Xiaoyu should be more diplomatic.

 Even if you don’t like to be in contact with the Gao family’s baby bump, you still have to do it on the surface, but have you ever thought about it? Xiaoyu is just a child. If he loses the ability to act independently at such a young age, what else can he accomplish in the future?

If you are unable to make a decision, you may miss your only opportunity. What's more, the Gao family's baby bump was raised to be too delicate and would cry and make a fuss when something goes wrong. I don't like such a little girl either.

Don't create a childhood sweetheart for Xiao Yu, so that the whole courtyard will spread rumors that Xiao Yu and the Gao family's baby bump are a couple. Anyway, I said it first. If there is such a daughter-in-law in the future, I'm afraid that I Angry every second. "

  Being pampered by the family, they can turn the whole family upside down for a trivial matter. The key is that the family doesn't care about it at all, and even thinks that their baby is cute.

It can be said that all of them are brainless.

“What are you thinking about?!”

Xi Guobang shook his head helplessly and amusedly: "Dad and I have never thought of pairing up Xiaoyu and the Gao family's moon. Besides, even if we have this idea, do you think Xiaoyu would be willing?"

Glancing at Xi Chenyu, Xi Guobang continued: "The younger one in our family has an idea when he is two or three years old. It's not like you don't know this.

Also, do you think that he suddenly wants to go to kindergarten, and he named the kindergarten affiliated to Shuimu University just casually? "

Without thinking of asking his wife to answer, Xi Guobang said, "Xi Chenyu has a purpose. If you don't believe me, just ask."

Xu Dan was stunned: “…”

After a while, she walked up to Xi Chenyu and poked his shoulder with her index finger: "Aren't you going to talk to mom?"

…”

Xi Chenyu’s face was filled with crimson color, his mouth was pursed tightly, and he remained silent.

“Okay, you know how to be shy about some things, and Xiaoyu is naturally shy sometimes.”

· Mr. Xi looked at his uncomfortable little grandson and couldn't help but smile and say something to Xi Guobang and his wife.

Xu Dan glanced at his youngest son playfully, then cleared his throat and said to Mr. Xi, "Dad, I really want to know. But now I'm going to heat up Guobang's meal. Either you or Guobang will have to do it later." Gotta tell me.”

"I can't agree to this. You can ask Guobang."

 Mr. Xi shook his head. He didn't want to not hear his little grandson's voice for ten and a half days.

“I’m going back to my room to rest.”

Without looking at Xi Guobang and Xu Dan, Xi Chenyu said without emotion and went up to the second floor.

"Did you see that? Because you parents are so careless, Xiaoyu doesn't even pay attention to me anymore."

Mr. Xi glared at Xi Guobang and his wife: "If my grandson doesn't talk to me for ten and a half days, Xi Guobang, just wait for me to talk to you!"

It is said to be a heart-to-heart talk, but in fact it is ideological education. No, Xi Guobang shuddered involuntarily when he thought of what he was about to face.

He will never forget it for the rest of his life. In this family, no matter who is called to the study for a heart-to-heart talk by the old man, he will look suspicious of life when he comes out.

…

The cool moonlight flowed all over the ground like water. Lying on the bed, Xu Dan raised her foot and kicked Xi Guobang's calf. She said, "You haven't told me why Xiaoyu suddenly wants to go to kindergarten, and she named her to go to the kindergarten affiliated to Shuimu University."

“There is a famous female athlete in our country, do you know who she is?”

"You're a weird person. Why are you asking me this? Besides, there are more than one or two well-known female athletes in our country. How do you want me to answer?"

"Okay, I can remind you one more thing. That female athlete is very powerful. Every time she participates in an event, she can win multiple gold medals by virtue of her own strength."

Hearing this, Xu Dan's eyes lit up: "Jiang Li! You are talking about Comrade Jiang Li, right?"

“Be confident, you can completely erase the word ‘right’.”

With a faint smile on his lips, Xi Guobang told how Xi Chenyu met Jiang Li and the three dumplings. At the end, he said: "The moment I learned that Xi Chenyu was going to kindergarten,

In fact, I was also surprised. When I sent the old man and Xi Chenyu to the kindergarten gate, I was even more surprised when I saw that brat unexpectedly stepped forward to say hello to Comrade Jiang Li and offered to enter the kindergarten with Comrade Jiang Li's children. .

The result is what I just told you. Xi Chenyu just saw the four girls in the car, and he had the idea of ​​going to kindergarten and making friends with Comrade Jiang Li’s children.

But having said that, the brat is worthy of being born to me. Once he saw this, he immediately acted on it, regardless of the fact that he was just a kid at the moment. "

"Are you still playing tricks on me?" Xu Dan chuckled: "I can tell that Xi Chenyu doesn't want to be friends with the triplets, but he wants to be friends with the little girl named Guo Guo. It’s true. Also, don’t compare my son to the gangster you were when you were young.”

She was three years old and this man was six years old. They had only met him once, so they shamelessly looked for opportunities to play with her. Later, they got married and got together. Ya'i told her on their wedding night that he had been interested in him since he was six years old. She used the mode of boiling a frog in warm water, trapping her step by step, and cut off all the peach blossoms on her path to adulthood.

The shady guy!

 She was complaining in her heart, but Xu Dan was really looking forward to seeing the three dumplings at this moment. Well, to be precise, she was extremely looking forward to seeing Xiao Guoguo and her future little daughter-in-law...

Time flies, and in the blink of an eye it’s mid-October. On this day, when I came back from kindergarten, none of the three dumplings spoke.

Well, on the way home from kindergarten, the three of them didn't speak. It's not hard to tell that they were pretending to be worried.

And today happens to be Friday. There is no doubt that Luo Yanqing has a class in the afternoon.

In other words, Luo Yanqing was at home at the moment, and he went to the kindergarten with Jiang Li to pick up the three dumplings and bring them into the house.

“You ask, I’ll cook.”

Jiang Li winked at Luo Yanqing.

"I go."

 Luo Yanqing also responded with his eyes.

“You spend less time with the children, so I’m going to create an opportunity for you and the four of you to communicate.”

Jiang Li used his eyes and raised his chin to tell Luo Yanqing to stop grinding, and then turned around and went to the kitchen.

The three dumplings had already begun to do their homework in the living room. Naturally, they did not see their parents talking with their eyes, and the matter was still related to their three siblings.

There are very few homeworks in kindergarten, and it does not take any time to complete them. Especially for babies with high IQs like Tuanzi Sanjie, the time to complete the homework will only be shorter and easier.

No, Luo Yanqing saw three people closing the notebooks in front of them at about the same time. He asked, "Have you finished writing?"

"Um."

The three dumplings nodded their little heads in unison.

Luo Yanqing stretched out his hand, and the next moment, the three homework books were in his hands. After checking them one by one, Luo Yanqing signed and returned the homework books to the three Tuanzi. He watched them pack their schoolbags before speaking. : "Something happened in the kindergarten."

He uses a declarative mood.

The three Tuanzi were startled for a moment. Then you looked at me and I looked at you. They all shook their heads slightly when they saw each other. They couldn't help but cast their eyes on Luo Yanqing, their eyes full of surprise.

“Everything is written clearly on your faces.”

Luo Yanqing's eyes were soft, and he could not see the slightest hint of indifference and alienation in the eyes of outsiders. He said: "It's okay to tell your parents when you encounter something that you can't solve."

Guoguo said: "Dad..."

Luo Yanqing looked at his little daughter: "Huh?"

“I don’t want to go to kindergarten!”

 Guoguo puffed up her cheeks, opened her eyes wide, and said in a soft and waxy voice: "There is a kid named Little Moon who always likes to find trouble with me."

Luo Yanqing asked: "Do you know why?"

Guoguo: "I don't know. Anyway, she is not cute at all. I don't like going to the same kindergarten with her."

Tang Yuan raised his hand at this time: "Dad, I know the reason."

"you say."

Luo Yanqing moved her eyes to Tangyuan and heard the little guy's milky voice saying: "The name of the kid who likes to mess with my sister is Gao Xinyue, and her nickname is Little Moon. She followed Xi Chenyu and transferred to our kindergarten, because Xi Chenyu likes to talk to and stay with his sister, but Gao Xinyue is unhappy and calls her sister a bad boy who steals her brother Chen Yu. "

“Xi Chenyu? A kid in your class?”

Frowning his brows slightly, Luo Yanqing asked.

At this moment, Tuanzi said: "She was transferred to our kindergarten not long after the start of this semester. She is in the same class as me and Tangyuan Guoguo."

Luo Yanqing asked: "Guoguo was made trouble by the children, didn't Xi Chenyu say anything?"

"Yes, he told Gao Xinyue to stay away from her sister, but Gao Xinyue didn't listen at all."

Tang Yuanzi had a sullen face and looked cute no matter how cute he looked. He said: "Originally, Tang Yuan and I did not recommend that my sister bring things from the kindergarten home to upset her mother, but since Gao Xinyue was transferred to our kindergarten,

Becoming a child in our middle class (1), she would trouble her sister every two or three days. Tangyuan and I protected her and separated Gao Xinyue.

She was not allowed to get close to her sister, and she was told that if she made trouble for her sister again, we would not let her go. But Gao Xinyue was not afraid at all. If she hadn't torn up her sister's book, we still wouldn't have brought her to the kindergarten. Please take it home. "

Tang Yuan: "Dad, we know that our mother has to teach our elder brothers and sisters and also take care of us. It's very hard every day. We don't want our mother to be worried about what happened to us in the kindergarten. But if we continue to stay in that kindergarten, me and The fourth brother and his sister can't help but beat up that Gao Xinyue, she is so annoying!"

Here we have to mention Gao Xinyue’s transfer to kindergarten. That day she cried and was carried home by Mr. Gao. The next day, Gao Xinyue did not go to kindergarten. She made a fuss at home and wanted to transfer to the kindergarten where Xi Chenyu was studying. Otherwise, , she stayed at home and didn’t go anywhere.

Seeing that her precious granddaughter was crying so sadly that she was out of breath and didn't even eat, she wanted to go to the kindergarten affiliated to Shuimu University to be a classmate with Xi Chenyu. Finally, Mrs. Gao agreed and asked Mr. Gao to go to Shuimu University that day. Contact the affiliated kindergarten and transfer Gao Xinyue into the class and become one of the children in the middle class (1).

And Gao Xinyue's petite temperament hides a domineering factor. Whenever she sees any little girl in the class talking to Xi Chenyu, she will step forward to declare her sovereignty, saying that Xi Chenyu is her brother Chenyu and no one can talk to her. She grabs.

Within two days, all the little girls in the class were far away from Xi Chenyu. However, Xi Chenyu never talked to other girls in the class except for Guoguo, a girl in middle school (1). In other words, it was always the girls in the class who took the initiative to ask Xi Chenyu questions.

Of course, Guoguo has two brothers, Tuanzi and Tangyuan, who are watching, but they have not taken the initiative to talk to Xi Chenyu so far.

But even if this is the case, even if Xi Chenyu is talking to Guoguo, in Gao Xinyue's eyes, Guoguo is more irritating than other little girls in the class, so she gets the princess disease every now and then. To be more precise, once she sees Xi Chen When Yu talks to Guoguo, he will cause trouble for Guoguo once.

I am not afraid of Xi Chenyu and the three dumplings.

Whenever the three little guys glared coldly, even if they didn't say anything wrong about Gao Xinyue, Gao Xinyue would open her mouth and cry, and she would cry very wronged, as if she was being bullied. Later, the teacher would take her aside and talk softly. He coaxed her with words for a while.

Not to mention making Tangyuan, a girl who was less than three and a half years old, lose her temper, even Xi Chenyu didn't know what to do with this annoying girl except to attack Gao Xinyue.

So, the three dumplings gathered together to discuss before school this morning, and decided to once again propose to their parents the idea of ​​not going to kindergarten.

Luo Yanqing: "Does the teacher not care?"

Guo Guo: "Every time Gao Xinyue troubles me, she always speaks in a low voice and with a smile. I tell her without doing anything, but she doesn't listen. When I tell the teacher, the teacher asks Gao Xinyue, but she doesn't admit it. There’s trouble for me.”

“Dad, there’s nothing the teacher can do against Gao Xinyue, she’s so good at pretending!”

Tangyuan’s brows were knitted tightly.

“Dad, Tangyuan Guoguo and I think it would be better for us to study with private tutors at Grandpa’s old house.”

Tuanzi said very seriously the reason why the three of them mentioned that they were in trouble in the kindergarten today.

Luo Yanqing looked at the three: "You haven't thought of a way to solve it yourself? Are you sure that not going to kindergarten is not because you want to avoid the problem?"

 Guo Guo raised her hand: "I have thought about it."

Luo Yanqing: “Then let’s talk about it.”

"As long as I ignore Brother Xi when he talks to me, Gao Xinyue will probably not cause trouble to me again, but if I really ignore Brother Xi, Brother Xi will be sad, and I don't want him to be like that."

After Guoguo finished speaking, Tuanzi said: "Go directly to the principal and ask Gao Xinyue to go to another kindergarten. But we are children and the principal will not listen to us."

Tangyuan: "If Xi Chenyu leaves, Gao Xinyue will definitely leave, but Xi Chenyu has done nothing wrong, so he will not leave."

“Since you have analyzed the problem clearly, why are you still stumped and choose to leave the kindergarten on your own and study with a private tutor?”

Luo Yanqing's expression showed no emotion or anger. He said calmly: "You can do your own thing and ignore the kid who is looking for trouble. As time goes by,

She will find it boring on her own. Another possibility is that the teacher will discover her problem and talk to her parents. Finally, the problem will be solved through negotiation between the teacher and the parents.

Telling you this, what Dad wants to tell you is that the fault is not on us, so we don’t have to avoid it on our own, and we don’t wrong ourselves. We should treat him (her) as air, as if she does not exist.

We will study when it is time to study, and we will play when it is time to play. You must remember that in your life, you will meet all kinds of people, but what you must do is not to argue with intellectuals, nor to compete with villains. ', so that your life will be meaningful and you will move towards one high point after another step by step. "

“My great-great-grandfather once said to us, ‘Don’t argue with wise men, don’t argue with villains’.”

Jiang Hongfa often taught Tuanzi three ancient poems, especially some wise sayings and inspiring poems and aphorisms, and explained them to his three great-grandsons, so that Tuanzi and Tangyuan Guoguo could understand the principles of life.

The person who spoke out at this moment was Tuanzi. He really understood the meaning of the sentence "Don't argue with wise men, don't compete with villains."

To put it simply, truly smart people learn from experience when facing the strong, and are downwardly compatible when facing the weak. Often those who make irresponsible remarks, point fingers and make judgments about others are the real fools.

Seeing Tangyuan and Guoguo nodding and agreeing with what Tuanzi said, Luo Yanqing twitched the corner of his mouth with a faint smile, and his eyes showed relief, and he said: "It's good to know.

However, Dad quoted that sentence just to explain a truth to you, but he did not say that the child in your class is a villain. After all, you are still young and are learning everything. Maybe when that child grows up, he will Know that some of her current practices are wrong and then make changes. "

“Well, I (Tangyuan, Guoguo) know!”

The three dumplings were in high spirits and nodded their little heads together.

There was a hint of smile in Luo Yan's clear voice, and he asked: "Then do you still want to go to kindergarten?"

Then catch the insects. . .

(End of this chapter)