Chapter 1355 Do you regret it?
Hearing this, Jiang Li shook her head in amusement: "You and Weiwei are about to become adults. Mom doesn't object to you being friends. Of course, there is a prerequisite for this, that is, you must protect yourself first..."
Before Jiang Li could finish speaking, Minghan said, "Mom, I'm not talking about friends!"
“Mom knows.”
Jiang Li nodded with a smile, and continued: "What I mean is, after entering college, if you meet the person you like, you must love yourself and the other person, and don't do anything outrageous because of impulse."
Minghan and Mingwei didn’t quite understand, so Jiang Li couldn’t help but explain tactfully. Seeing that the brother and sister both understood, they were about to continue, but unexpectedly, the two of them spoke in unison: “No way!”
Ming Wei's cheeks were red. Even if she could talk to Xi Jingyu about being friends, it was impossible for her to "break the defense" before marriage.
"Mom, don't you still believe in me, your son? I was raised by you. I know what it means to respect women, and I also know the responsibilities and responsibilities of a man. As for the situation you mentioned, it will never happen. On your son!"
With the things that her biological mother, Ms. Feng, did before her, and with the mother in front of her who was far better than her biological mother, Minghan had deep expectations for marriage and her future partner.
Even if he does not get married in this life, if he enters into marriage, then his partner must be as perfect as the mother who raised and taught him, at least a girl who knows self-respect and self-love, and has a good temperament and ability.
Otherwise, he would rather spend his whole life alone.
It is absolutely impossible for him to be promiscuous in the relationship between men and women before marriage, and it is taboo!
Minghan did not want to be like his so-called biological parents, who only gave birth to children but did not support them, and gave birth to him and his sister Mingwei against morality.
"Mom didn't say that you would do something irresponsible or hurt yourself. Mom's purpose is very simple. In the future, if you meet someone of the opposite **** you like, you can be friends, but you must know how to love yourself, protect yourself, and respect the other person. Don’t do anything irresponsible in a hot head!”
Jiang Li smiled and comforted Minghan.
“I understand, mom, don’t worry, I will remember everything you said.”
Minghan calmed down and heard Jiang Li say again: "You don't have to be angry with Weiwei. I'll tell you now. Xiaojing has a crush on Weiwei and wants to be friends with Weiwei, but Weiwei told him , wait until you all receive the admission notice from Xinyi University, and then give him a chance to pursue it. "
“When did that guy come to you?! And you, when did you reply to him?” Minghan looked at Mingwei with good eyesight. Upon hearing this, Mingwei said generously: “Years ago, Xi Jingyu brought...”
Only halfway through her words, Mingwei was glared at by Minghan: "At that time, I suspected that the boy had bad intentions when he came to our house. Later, I stopped you from seeing him off, but you said you were going to see your parents when they came back. No, Luo Mingwei, you are so brave that you actually learned to lie!"
"I'm not lying to you! Guoguo and I were just going to the gate of the compound to see if our parents were back. It was just a way to see them off."
Minghan: "Even if this is the case, you are not stupid, are you? You will accept whatever Xi Jingyu says. Are you already interested in him?"
"Second brother, you're going a little too far!" Ming Wei sternly met Minghan's eyes: "When Xi Jingyu said she had a crush on me, I didn't have any thoughts about him. Treat him as your good friend or just an ordinary classmate, but at the same time I don’t hate him, so I thought about his words for a while before I said those words to him.
After all, everyone in the Xi family, from Mr. Xi to Xiao Yu, is pretty nice, and our family has a good relationship with the Xi family. If I really get together with Xi Jingyu one day, my parents will definitely feel more at ease. have you understood? This is the truest thought in my heart. Can you stop being suspicious, as if I have made a big mistake? "
After listening to Mingwei’s words, Minghan knew that he was too sensitive. She couldn’t help but touch her nose and said with an uncomfortable look on her face: “Isn’t it all for your own good? I’m worried that you will be deceived!”
Jiang Li sat aside without interrupting, just quietly, with a smile on his face, listening to the conversation between Minghan and Mingwei.
Because it is sometimes better for children to resolve matters among themselves than for their elders to intervene.
"Luo Minghan! Open your eyes and look carefully. Am I stupid and easy to deceive?"
Ming Wei did not give up because Minghan "tactfully" admitted her mistake. She snorted coldly and said angrily: "I have a brain and can analyze whether other people's words and deeds are sincere or false. If I make my own judgment, Whatever decision I made, I deserved it if I was deceived in the end. I can’t blame anyone else!”
"You don't need to be cold-hearted with me. I really do it for your own good, and I don't have any bad intentions."
Minghan smiled sarcastically and said, "That boy Xi Jingyu... That boy Xi Jingyu is just so-so. Don't be easily won over by his sweet words, but...compared to the flowers and plants in the university, I personally think that there will be more people in the future." A brother-in-law like Xi Jingyu is actually... not bad at all."
Speaking of this, Minghan looked at Jiang Li: "Mom, I'm going to find my brother and the others."
As the sound fell, Minghan seemed to be chased by a hungry wolf behind him, and he disappeared in the blink of an eye.
Jiang Li couldn't help but laugh out loud: "Your second brother is a sister-in-law. He is worried that you will be abducted by someone else's kid, so he is so awkward and overly nervous about the matter between you and Xiao Jing."
Hearing this, Ming Wei couldn't hold it back and laughed out loud: "I know, I just think my second brother is too sensitive."
Jiang Li: "You must always remember that only people who care about you will be nervous about your affairs and think about how to protect you."
Mingwei nodded to show that she understood.
“Okay, let’s go play. Mom will go to the study to write something.”
Jiang Li stood up, walked out of the room with Mingwei, and watched her enter the study. Mingwei looked back and went to the wing where her brother Mingrui lived.
“You’ve been restless since you hung up the phone. What happened?”
Mr. Xi asked Xi Jingyu.
“Minghan, he knows!”
Xi Jingyu was a little annoyed: "I thought about it, but I don't know how he knew it? I have been as careful as possible. Could it be...could he be because I asked him to call Mingwei and Guoguo to watch the game, and then he Thinking that I have feelings for Ming Wei? "
“You asked Minghan to help you remind Mingwei not to forget what he promised you?”
In fact, Mr. Xi had already guessed what Xi Jingyu was thinking, so he reminded his silly grandson with a smile.
When Xi Jingyu heard this, he was startled for a moment, then slapped his forehead: "So that's it!"
Looking at Mr. Xi, Xi Jingyu said with a sad face: "Grandpa, what do you think I should do? That guy Minghan definitely knows what I'm thinking! But I can't do it if I want to give up pursuing the girl I like!"
“Then try your best to pursue her. Be thick-skinned and sweet-mouthed. Show your face in front of your elders more often. Treat Weiwei sincerely. No matter how reluctant Minghan is to recognize you as her brother-in-law, she can only accept it.”
Mr. Xi smiled and said: "Grandpa thinks highly of you, but you must not embarrass our old Xi family!"
“Sister Guoguo once mentioned to me that Sister Wei wants to find a partner according to the ‘three obediences, four virtues and five inaccuracies’ that Aunt Jiang said in casual chat.”
Xi Chenyu was sitting next to his brother Xi Jingyu. He was holding a book and reading, but after Mr. Xi said something, he looked up at Xi Jingyu and said something casually.
“Three obediences, four virtues, and five disobediences?”
Xi Jingyu opened his eyes and looked at Xi Chenyu: "What is this?"
Mr. Xi became more energetic, and he also turned his attention to Xi Chenyu.
In his opinion, the "three obediences and four virtues" mentioned by Xi Chenyu are definitely not the three obediences and four virtues that he knew.
I am even more curious about the “five inaccuracies”!
The fact is indeed what Mr. Xi thought. No, after listening to what Xi Chenyu said about "three obediences, four virtues, and five disobediences," Mr. Xi was happy. He said "very good" twice!
“This ‘Three Obeys, Four Virtues and Five Don’ts’ is so interesting!”
Xi Jingyu rolled his eyes and asked Xi Chenyu: "Little brat, are you planning to do it?"
Xi Chenyu glanced at Xi Jingyu indifferently and said expressionlessly: "I have always been strict with myself, didn't you see? Besides, Aunt Jiang's 'Three Obeys, Four Virtues and Five Don'ts' are quite reasonable, and Sister Guoguo said This is how Uncle Luo and Aunt Jiang get along."
After a slight pause, Xi Chenyu added with a serious face: "If you can't do it, don't pursue Sister Mingwei, otherwise, you will definitely be embarrassed!"
“Who says I can’t do it?”
Xi Jingyu sat upright and said with a serious face: "I can do it if I just want to be a good man!"
If you're a man, you can't say no, not to mention that "three obediences, four virtues, and five inaccuracies" came from Aunt Jiang, and Uncle Luo is an example. If he wants to catch up with the girl he likes, and wants to be with her until old age, he must naturally Gotta do it!
“Why are the three obediences, four virtues and five forbidden?”
Xu Dan walked into the living room with a curious look on her face: "As soon as I entered the yard, I heard you two brothers talking about three obediences, four virtues, and five prohibitions. Why don't you tell mom carefully?"
Xi Chenyu remained silent and turned his attention to Mr. Xi.
The same goes for Xi Jingyu.
“Since your mother asked, just tell her and make her happy too.”
Mr. Xi spoke, and the next moment, Xi Jingyu explained everything.
However, Xu Dan did not smile, but looked solemn: "You must say this several times in front of your dad, remember?"
She looked at Xi Jingyu intently.
"…oh!"
After being stunned for a moment, Xi Jingyu nodded.
"And you, don't forget it." Xu Dan turned his gaze to Xi Chenyu and warned him.
"knew."
Xi Chenyu responded.
“Dad, I’m going upstairs.”
After saying hello to Mr. Xi, Xu Danti stepped towards the stairs. The moment she turned around, she let out a low laugh, which showed that she had been holding back laughter a moment ago.
About two or three minutes later, the hearty laughter of Xu Dan and Mrs. Xi came from upstairs.
Brothers Xi and Xi Jingyu don’t need to think too much, they both know what their young daughter-in-law (my mother) said to their old wife (grandma).
Second floor.
“Mom, this Li Li is really interesting. He can actually say such three obediences, four virtues and five inaccuracies!”
If Jiang Li heard Xu Dan's words, he would definitely wave his hands repeatedly.
That's not what she said, it was something she accidentally saw while surfing the Internet before entering this world.
“That girl Li Li is very knowledgeable and talented. It’s not surprising that she can say the alternative ‘Three Obediences and Four Virtues’, and her five inaccuracies are also excellent!”
Mrs. Xi said with a smile. Next to her was a half-knitted woolen vest for Mr. Xi.
Taking off her reading glasses, Mrs. Xi asked Xu Dan: "The college entrance examination results are out. How many points did Xiao Jing get? Can you tell me?"
Xu Dan nodded: "The phone call came to me. I was very disappointed."
“It’s a full fifteen points lower than that kid from Li Li’s family. How can he not be disappointed?”
Mrs. Xi said: "But your father and I think that the child did well in the exam. Although he did not become the top scorer in science, he was still a top scorer. In ancient times, he was among the top three!"
"I don't know how Li Li teaches his children. The eldest son got the top score in science before. Now the second and third eldest children are the top scorer in science and the other is top scorer in liberal arts. The second eldest child is only five points away from the perfect score in all subjects. This study The ability is really beyond the comparison of ordinary children!”
Xu Dan could not hide his envy in his tone.
“When I first saw Li Li, I thought this girl was very smart. Then look at the three little ones she had with Xiao Luo. To be honest, it’s really amazing!”
I have completed self-study high school courses at a young age, and now I am studying the knowledge in college textbooks. However, because of my age, I have to listen to my elders in the family and sit in middle school classes.
"Yeah." Xu Dan nodded in agreement, and then said, "Should we also have a celebration banquet?"
"Of course we have to do it. Our Xiaojing did well in the exam. When these relatives and friends know about it, they will definitely come to congratulate her."
Mrs. Xi said: "You, your father and Guobang will discuss it and decide on a day."
Xu Dan: “It’s done.”
…
The celebration banquet hosted by the Xi family for Xi Jingyu was two days earlier than Minghan Mingwei's celebration banquet.
Jiang Liniang and several others were present.
Captain Jiang and Cai Xiufang were called together by Jiang Li.
As old friends of the Xi family, there is no need to say more about Jiang Hongfa and Jiang Boya.
Time flies very quickly. On this day, many guests came to Minghan Mingwei's celebration banquet. Minghan’s head teachers, teachers of various subjects, and school leaders were all present.
The banquet was set up with seventy or eighty tables.
Many of the guests were not related to Jiang Li and Luo Yanqing, and even to the Jiang and Jiang families.
They didn’t know where they heard about it, so they brought their families to the banquet.
Wang Guilan, Luo Yanqing’s biological mother, arrived in Beicheng yesterday.
Receiving a call from the third son, Meng Xingping, Jiang Li directly asked this brother-in-law to bring Wang Guilan and the rest of the Meng family to her big house.
That is, the old residence of the Yu family.
At noon today, another car was arranged to take everyone to the hotel.
At this time, Wang Guilan, Meng Xingping and the Meng family were all seated in the banquet living room on the second floor.
At the entrance of the hotel, Jiang Li, Luo Yanqing, and Minghan Mingwei were welcoming guests.
Seeing Feng Lu walking behind Mr. Feng, Jiang Li's face didn't look strange.
“Uncle Feng is here, sit upstairs.”
Jiang Li greeted him warmly, and then Jiang Guoan took the Feng family upstairs.
Fang Su had no expression on her face. She walked beside her stepson Feng Wei, and Feng Wei pushed Mr. Feng towards the elevator entrance under the guidance of Jiang Guoan.
Feng Lu remained silent and kept her head lowered, her face not very pretty.
“If you don’t want to come, don’t come. Who does she show her face to?!”
Mingwei muttered.
"Maybe something has happened to you, but you can't do it in a big or small way."
Jiang Li looked at Mingwei and lowered his voice and said something.
"oh."
Ming Wei nodded, but her mood was still somewhat affected by Feng Lu's appearance.
“Aunt Jiang!”
This is the voice of Guoguo’s good friend Lu Xuanxuan.
The little girl is holding her father Lu Han with her left hand and her mother Ruan Xin with her right hand. Her brother Lu Tao is walking beside her father Lu Han.
A family of four walked to the door of the hotel.
"Hello, Uncle Luo! Hello, Aunt Jiang! Hello, brother Minghan! Hello, sister Mingwei..."
She said hello to everyone Lu Xuanxuan knew, and introduced her parents and brother Lu Tao to Jiang Li and Luo Yanqing.
Luo Yanqing and Lu Han said hello, while Jiang Li touched Lu Xuanxuan's head, smiled and chatted with Ruan Xin for a few words, and praised Xuanxuan and Lu Tao for looking good and looking like smart kids.
Then, Mingwei took Lu Xuanxuan and her family to the banquet living room on the second floor.
Seeing her good friend, Guoguo was so happy that she immediately hugged Lu Xuanxuan and jumped up and down.
“Guoguo, this is my dad, this is my mom, and this is my brother Lu Tao!”
"Hello, uncle! Hello, auntie! Hello, brother Lu Tao!"
Guoguo said hello with a smile on her face.
“Eldest brother, fourth brother, fifth brother, come here!” Seeing Mingrui and Tangyuan standing not far away, Guoguo waved to the three of them and introduced Lu Xuanxuan’s family to them.
“Hello, uncle and aunt!” Mingrui looked at Lu Han and his wife and said hello politely, then turned to say hello to Lu Tao.
The same goes for Tuanzhang glutinous rice balls.
…
This celebration banquet was still hosted by Director Song, and the guests were all envious of Jiang Li and Luo Yanqing.
I feel that the two of them are good at raising children, and that their children are worthy enough to make their parents look good.
Feng Lu was the only one sitting on the seat, with his head lowered, his thoughts already far away.
Well, her thoughts will be all about the Han family.
She hated Han Mu for looking for trouble, and hated Han Bin for clearly agreeing to accompany her to Minghan and Mingwei's celebration banquet.
The results of it?
After a phone call, Han Bin left her behind and drove to the hospital in a hurry.
Hand said Han Qian’s nosebleeds continued.
Feng Lu was so angry that she had to take a ride to her parents' house, and then follow Mr. Feng to the banquet.
It would be better to die in the hospital. Feng Lu's eyes were full of haze, and she was secretly cursing Han Qian.
…
Beicheng People's Hospital.
Outside the emergency room.
“If there is something wrong with Sissi, what should you do?”
Mother Han's eyes were full of anxiety, and she scolded Han Bin with a cold face: "During the Chinese New Year, Sissi had a nosebleed, so I asked you to take her to the hospital for a checkup, but on your side, Sissi said she was fine, so you just let it go. Now she's fine, Sissi Qian had a nosebleed and fainted. What if something big went wrong? How would you face your child? "
“Okay, what’s the use of complaining about Xiaobin now?!”
Father Han's face was as dark as water, seemingly calm, but in fact he was worried about Han Qian, his granddaughter.
“I haven’t seen Sissi’s nosebleed since the New Year. She seems to be in good health, so I didn’t take her nosebleed during the Chinese New Year to my heart.”
Han Bin explained.
He now very much suspected that Han Qian probably had a nosebleed before she fainted today, but she just chose to hide it from him.
I don’t know what I’m thinking?
Having nosebleeds frequently is not a trivial matter. Why didn't you tell him?
Does this mean you don't take your body seriously, or do you mean to scare him?
Han Bin stood leaning against the wall, staring at the door of the emergency room with complicated emotions in his eyes.
At this moment, he forgot that this was a good day for Minghan and Mingwei, and that he had promised Feng Lu to attend the celebration banquet.
Speaking of which, Han Bin didn't have much affection for Minghan Mingwei in his heart. It can even be said that the moment he knew Minghan Mingwei was his child, except for a brief surprise, he had no other thoughts in his heart.
Want to ask why?
It's just that the Minghan brothers and sisters were an accident, not something he wanted.
Furthermore, we have not seen each other since we were children, and we have never lived together. Apart from the biological relationship between father and son, or father and daughter, what kind of relationship can we have?
But Han Qian was different. This was Han Bin's daughter after they got married. She was the only child listed in his household register. She grew up day by day before him. Now her only daughter was lying in the emergency room. To say that Han Bin was not worried , it must be fake.
About an hour later, the door to the emergency room opened, and Mother Han stepped forward and asked the doctor about Han Qian's condition.
Learning that multiple organs in Han Qian's body were diseased and on the verge of failure, Han's mother couldn't bear the blow for a while, her eyesight turned black, and she was about to faint to the ground.
Fortunately, Han's father stood beside Han's mother and hurriedly supported his old wife.
“How you need to be treated, just tell me!”
“Can only be treated conservatively.”
“Can you recover?”
“It’s hard to say. The patient’s multiple organs are failing, and there are currently no specific drugs available.”
“By saying that, you mean my daughter is hopeless?”
Han Bin’s voice was trembling.
“With conservative treatment, it can be slowed down, but miracles cannot be ruled out.”
…”
How could this happen when multiple organs are failing?
Han Bin felt like his head was buzzing at this moment.
Both Han's mother and Han Qian entered the ward. Facing their old wife and granddaughter Han Qian lying on the hospital bed, Han's father seemed to have aged more than ten years for a moment.
“What are you going to do?”
Han’s father asked Han Bin.
“According to what the doctor said, as long as I can cure Sissi, I will pay no matter how much it costs!”
Han Bin’s reply was categorical, without any ambiguity.
“Your mother’s blood pressure is just a little high, but there’s nothing else wrong with her. She can be discharged from the hospital when she wakes up.”
As Father Han said, he paused for a moment and then continued, "I'm afraid you'll have to hire someone to take care of Sissi."
"I...I know." Han Bin wanted to say that he would do it alone, but when he thought that he was a **** man, it would be inconvenient to take care of his daughter all the time.
“Where is Feng Luren?”
Han’s father asked.
Hearing this, Han Bin was stunned for a moment and said, "Today is a good day for those two children. Feng Lu went to congratulate them."
…”
Father Han was silent for a while and then said, "Do you regret it?"
"What?"
Han Bin didn’t understand.
Han's father: "You didn't recognize those two children at first. Do you regret it now or later?"
"Dad, you shouldn't have asked me this! Not to mention that I never thought of recognizing them from the beginning, and even you and my mother never mentioned this matter. Now that the two children are promising, they are with me, and even us I don’t have any connections at home, so what do I have to regret?”
Han Bin smiled bitterly and said: "I am not a good father. I have not taken good care of my daughter, Sissi. If those two children were around, I might not be able to raise them well."
Han’s father: “But you are their biological father after all!”
"So what if I'm the biological father? Dad, please stop talking. I'm very confused right now. Just leave me alone, okay?"
Han Bin was sitting on a chair, with his elbows on his knees and his head in his arms, making it difficult to see his emotions.
But his voice was full of exhaustion and sorrow.
This undoubtedly revealed his mood.
(End of this chapter)