Chapter 1462： But I'm really incompetent

Chapter 1462 But I am indeed incompetent

“I am Fang Ying’s mother-in-law and Xiao Dudu’s grandma. It is natural and my responsibility to take care of Fang Ying’s confinement and Xiao Dudu.”

Hearing what Jiang Li said, Jiang Boya looked annoyed: "Of course it should be? As an elder, it is right for you, a mother-in-law, to take care of your daughter-in-law and grandchildren, but this does not mean that they are your responsibility, and it does not mean that they should be taken care of as a matter of course. Being looked after by you.

Not to mention that you are not in good health. We can obviously solve things with money, so why do you need to do it yourself? Or do you only have love for your children and grandchildren, but have forgotten the filial piety you owe to me, your grandfather, and your parents? "

Hearing this, Jiang Li was stunned.

Jiang Boya emphasized: "Li Li, if something happens to you, you will be unfilial to us as elders. We don't want our white-haired people to give away black-haired people. Please take it easy in the future. You really have to take your own body seriously."

Besides, the children are old, whether they are married or have a wife. As adults, they know how to take care of themselves and what their responsibilities and obligations are. You don’t have to think about them in everything. "

“Dad, look at what you said,”

Jiang Li came back to her senses and felt quite helpless: "Parents worry about their children the same way, just like you are worried about my health. Over the years, you have told me to go to the hospital for regular check-ups and cared about me. This concerns me and that, and I am just standing in your perspective and paying some attention to my child!

Besides, my daughter-in-law is not in a special situation. I am her mother-in-law, so I can take care of her during the confinement period. This is actually nothing. "

“I didn’t say I wouldn’t let you take care of me. What I meant was that you have to take care of your own body.”

Jiang Boya sighed softly: "Why do you think we make money? Isn't it just to let the family have a good life and live a relaxed and happy life every day? Since Zan has money and there are service organizations like the confinement center, we Wouldn’t it be good to spend some money to hire a few more people to help you at home?”

“I have invited a confinement nanny and a childcare nanny.”

 Before Jiang Boya could speak, Jiang Li added: "Everyday I just wash a few diapers for Little Dudu, and I don't do any heavy work."

Xiao Dudu uses diapers at night and only uses diapers during the day. She really doesn't feel tired when taking care of the little guy and her daughter-in-law Fang Ying.

Looking at Jiang Li steadily, Jiang Boya was silent for a while and then said: "...Okay, you have a point, but I can't argue with you."

"Dad! Don't be angry. I know you care about me. This illness is just an accident. As for my reduced immunity, it may be related to the lack of daily exercise I do. I promise to be diligent after I am discharged from the hospital. , keep running every day and keep your body in great shape!”

The ward was very quiet. Luo Yanqing and others stood aside as a backdrop. Seeing Jiang Li smiling favorably at Jiang Boya, she felt quite complicated.

They naturally knew that Jiang Boya said those words out of concern and distress for Jiang Li. This was true, but it made them feel deeply ashamed!

At about nine o'clock in the evening, only Jiang Li and Luo Yanqing were left in the ward.

“Xiao Li, I’m sorry!”

Luo Yanqing's chin was smooth and clean. It was obvious that he had some stubble after taking a shower. At this moment, he was lying on the hospital bed with Jiang Li in his arms. He whispered: "Don't take too much responsibility for yourself. Dad is right." , Luo Mingrui and the others are old. They can take care of themselves and know what their responsibilities are. You don’t need to think about them in everything like before. Just let them go and let them support themselves. The sky rises.”

"oh."

Jiang Li responded, and then asked: "Then what can you say to me that I'm sorry for?"

"The responsibilities and burdens on your shoulders are mine. If my work is not so busy and if I can always be at home, you don't have to worry too much and you won't tire yourself out."

Luo Yanqing's mood was a little depressed. Of course, this depression came from the fact that he felt sorry for Jiang Li and felt that he was not a competent husband and father, so that he put all the burden of the family and the responsibility for his children on Jiang Li's weak shoulders. .

  Self-blame and annoyance engulfed his heart. He tightened his arms and said "I'm sorry" again!

“You...how do you want me to say good things to you?”

Jiang Li gently pinched the man's handsome face: "After so many years of marriage, every time something happens to me, you always say sorry to me. Mr. Luo, have you never treated me like an outsider?"

“Absolutely not.”

Luo Yanqing answered quickly.

“Really? If not, why do you have to say sorry to me?”

Jiang Li snorted and said, "We are husband and wife. You are busy with work and have no time to take care of your family. I am your wife. Shouldn't I be more concerned about it? Besides, the nature of your work is there, and it's not like I can't figure it out clearly. , I have to make trouble with you to express how wronged I am."

“But I am indeed incompetent.”

Luo Yanqing said: "From the moment you and I got married, you were destined to have a hard time, and this is what I imposed on you."

“Wrong. Let’s not talk about whether it will be hard or not after marrying you. The fact that I chose to be with you is something I brought upon myself willingly. So, please don’t take responsibility for yourself, Mr. Luo.”

After a slight pause, Jiang Li continued: "In addition, don't take what Mr. Jiang said to me to heart. He just cares about me as a father, but I really don't think it is hard to take care of my daughter-in-law during her confinement. Besides, there are The confinement sister-in-law and the childcare sister-in-law are the main force, and Sister-in-law Xu is here, think about it, how hard can I go? "

“I feel sorry for you too.”

Luo Yanqing's voice was a little muffled: "It's been hard enough for you to take care of Luo Mingrui and the others when they grow up. Is it possible that their children also need you to take care of them all the time?"

"Do you think that's possible?"

Jiang Li asked with a smile.

Luo Yanqing: "When Luo Mingrui's daughter-in-law flies abroad, you are not allowed to help them take care of their children?"

“…Do you still remember how Tuanzi and the others grew up? If you don’t remember, think about how Doubao grew up to this day.”

To be honest, the three children in the family who were truly raised by Jiang Li were undoubtedly Mingrui, Minghan, and Mingwei. The three dumplings and the little bean buns were all taken care of by specialized caregivers. Before they were three years old, Jiang Li, their mother, only played with them every day, told them stories before going to bed at night, and watched them during the day.

To take a step back, from Mingrui to Xiao Mingxiu, all the seven children in the family are quite sensible. Even if Minghan and Mingchen were naughty when they were young, they still have nothing to do with naughty children.

They are all smart, and Jiang Li has never had to worry about his studies.

Of course, Jiang Li also didn’t work hard in life.

Because after Mingrui was eight years old, he learned how to wash and cook in a short period of time, and gained the ability to live independently.

It can be said that the seven brothers and sisters are all good in the hall and in the kitchen, and they are not the kind of high-scoring imbeciles.

At the same time, over there at the mansion, there was the courtyard where Minghan and Lin Ran lived.

"Why are not you talking?"

"say what?"

“Overwork leads to reduced immunity. Do you think the doctor’s assertion is credible?”

"What do you mean?" "I just think what the doctor said is a bit mysterious."

“Don’t you believe that my mother contracted a viral cold due to a cold due to her weakened immunity due to overwork?”

Although there was no emotion in Minghan's tone, Lin Ran knew that he was probably angry with her and felt that she had other ideas.

"I don't."

She caught a cold and contracted a viral cold. This is a disease related to low immunity, but overwork can lead to low immunity. She believed that, but her mother-in-law took care of her sister-in-law during the confinement period. In her opinion, as her mother-in-law said, there was not much tired.

As if she guessed what Lin Ran was thinking, Minghan said: "Do you think that my mother's immunity was weakened, so she caught a cold and contracted a viral cold? The cause has nothing to do with whether my mother was overworked, or do you think that I Mom is not tired at all from taking care of your sister-in-law during her confinement?"

Lin Ran blurted out: "There are confinement sisters and childcare sisters to help, and mom is just helping me."

“It seems that I was right.”

Minghan was lying on his back. His face was not very good at the moment: "Have I ever mentioned to you that my mother was born weak?"

"You mentioned it before, but triplets can be born at one time, and now they look about the same age as me and my sister-in-law. Are you sure my mother's health is not very good?" This is Lin Ran's real thought. She thinks Jiang Li is a mother-in-law. My body is pretty good, otherwise, I wouldn’t look the same age as my daughter-in-law.

Especially after giving birth to triplets, her figure is still slender and graceful, and she does not look like a woman who has given birth to children.

Lin Ran was very envious of Jiang Li's good figure and good temperament. When walking with Jiang Li, he often felt ashamed of himself.

"My mother is serious and dedicated in everything she does. She stayed in the hospital for a whole week before my sister-in-law was discharged from the hospital. When she returned home, although there were confinement and child care nuns to take care of my sister-in-law and her son, how can outsiders' care be compared with that of my own people? And my eldest brother doesn't At home, can my mother feel free to leave her sister-in-law and her son to the care of her confinement and child care sisters-in-law? Furthermore, my mother is not an ordinary woman who only enjoys herself at home and does some housework occasionally. She does nothing at all every day. few!"

After not hearing Minghan's voice for a while, Lin Ran said, "Don't be angry, I didn't mean anything else."

“If there is no other meaning, what do you mean?”

Minghan asked.

"..." Lin Ran was asked, and for a long time, she said, "I don't know either." In fact, she was probably a little jealous of her mother-in-law!

Obviously, in his forties, he was spoiled by the Jiang family and Jiang family, and everyone in their family. It was completely called a pet -like existence.

Lin Ran thought this, she knew it was wrong to be jealous, but what she saw and heard in the ward flashed into her mind for some reason, and then she couldn't help but feel a little emotional, and she said something to her. My mother-in-law was not very friendly. Obviously, her unfriendliness was noticed by the person next to her.

For a moment, Lin Ran felt ashamed and annoyed. She felt that she was just a white-eyed wolf and was sorry for her mother-in-law's kindness to her.

“Minghan.”

"explain."

"sorry."

Hearing Lin Ran's sorry words, Minghan said nothing.

“I was wrong, I was too lazy and thought too much.”

She has admitted her mistake, so he shouldn't continue to be angry with him, right?

Time passed by, and when Lin Ran was extremely frightened and about to cry, Minghan said: "This is the first and last time. If you have any dissatisfaction with my mother again, just say it!"

Lin Ran hurriedly explained: "I'm not dissatisfied with my mother."

“You know it yourself or not.”

Minghan's tone still showed no emotion: "You just need to know that in our family, my mother deserves the respect of everyone in the family, and she treats everyone sincerely. If you have other thoughts, you can choose not to do it. Be part of this family.”

“You...I know.”

As he said this, Lin Ran felt aggrieved in his heart.

“Xi Jingyu, my mother’s hospitalization this time really scares me, and the level of shock is the same as the previous time. I’m really afraid that my mother won’t wake up.”

After putting their children to sleep, Ming Wei returned to her and Xi Jingyu's bedroom. As soon as they got into bed, she snuggled into each other's arms and said something.

“I know, you have said it more than once.”

Xi Jingyu responded.

“What? Do you think I’m annoying, or do you think I’m verbose?”

Mingwei pinched the opponent's waist.

“No, absolutely not, I mean I know mom is very important to you, and I know how nervous and uncomfortable you feel when mom is unconscious.”

The personality charm of his mother-in-law is unparalleled. Not only is the daughter-in-law in his arms worried that her mother-in-law will not wake up, but he is also worried. Fortunately, her mother-in-law wakes up today. To be honest, he is very happy.

Ming Wei: “My mother seems to have a leisurely life, but in fact she is very busy every day.”

Xi Jingyu: "Yeah."

“What are you saying ‘um’? I’m not lying.”

Mingwei was a little dissatisfied. She said: "So far, my mother has published a lot of novels. These are all written by my mother whenever she has free time at home. In addition, my mother has to deal with a lot of JL matters, even if she is not there. In JL Building, I don’t go to the company below, but the documents that need to be processed by my mother will be sent to my home. In recent years, the Internet has developed rapidly, and my mother sometimes holds video conferences at night. "

“My mother-in-law is very powerful, she is an absolute strong woman.”

Xi Jingyu praised him sincerely.

"Yes, my mother is a well-deserved strong woman, but she has not forgotten that she is a wife and a mother, and these two identities have been hard to fault for many years. It can be said that for us children, , My mother has sacrificed a lot for our family. Therefore, in terms of hard work, if my mother ranks second, no one can rank first.

Her devotion to our children, especially to me and my eldest and second brothers, was more than that of a mother in an ordinary family. You know, my eldest and second brother and I are not my mother's biological children, but in our hearts, my mother is our biological mother, because other people's biological mothers may not be able to sit down and care for us like my mother treats us like saplings. It seems that they take good care of us. "

“My mother-in-law is a good mother, I can see that, and I envy you for having such a good mother.”

"My mother is indeed very good. When we were young, she gave us baths, told us stories at night, taught us painting, handicrafts, erhu and piano during the day. In short, my mother taught us many things. When we were bullied outside, my mother would stand up for us and enlighten us later, so as not to leave any psychological shadow on us. She really treated us as her own children. Even after we had my fourth brother and the others, I Mom, there has never been a trace of partiality.”

Then catch the insects. . .