Chapter 1468： I am in the midst of blessings and don’t know how blessed I am

Back in her office, Lin Ran's expression did not improve. Even if she took out her anger on Cui Qinglan, when she thought of what the other party had done, especially when she thought that the other party had planned to destroy her marriage for a long time, her anger returned. flooded my mind.

How stupid!

At this moment, Lin Ran scolded himself in his heart for being so brainless that he followed other people's ideas and almost ended up getting divorced!

If he hadn't had to receive a doctor in the afternoon, Lin Ran would have slapped himself twice to wake up.

Her good friend for many years has evil intentions, but she is as stupid as a pig and mistakes a jackal for her confidant.

Had it not been for the phone number dialed by her lover, she would have known nothing until now. She would have let her so-called good friend act in front of her, and then committed suicide, losing her family and the man she loved!

 Time passed by, and Lin Ran had a sullen face all afternoon. As soon as it was time to get off work, he packed up his things and drove back to the mansion.

"came back?!"

Jiang Li was watching a few cuties at home playing in the front yard. When she saw Lin Ran parked the car and got out of the car looking extremely annoyed, she felt strange, but she didn't deliberately inquire about her daughter-in-law's private affairs.

Unexpectedly, Lin Ran's eyes turned red as soon as he heard her voice: "Mom..."

“Are you wronged at work?”

Seeing that Lin Ran was almost crying, Jiang Li couldn't help but ask.

"No."

Lin Ran shook his head, but tears finally fell from the corners of his eyes. Looking at her like this, Jiang Li had kind eyes and a gentle voice and said, "Go sit in the main hall, don't scare the children here."

"Um."

Nodding lightly, Lin Ran tightened the shoulder strap of the bag in his hand and went to the main hall first.

"An'an, you and Tangtang take good care of your younger brothers and sisters. Grandma will go to the main hall to talk to your second aunt."

Jiang Li warned his eldest grandson.

"OK."

Children Xi Shuyu responded obediently.

In fact, the little guys are very well-behaved and will not sneak out of the mansion to play because they all have a strong sense of safety.

Needless to say, this is closely related to the daily teachings of parents, elders, and teachers.

Moreover, there is a concierge guarding the entrance of the mansion and surveillance is installed in all directions, so there is no need to worry too much about the safety of the children.

However, for the sake of safety, Jiang Li asked Lin Ran to sit on the bamboo chair under the eaves of the corridor outside the main hall door to talk, so that she could see a few cuties at any time.

“Mom, don’t you think there can’t be more sincerity between people?”

Wiping the corners of his eyes, Lin Ran said with a nasal voice: "I regard her as a good friend, but she intends to be a third party and destroy my marriage with Minghan, and... and she was transferred to our hospital not long after she was transferred to work. She started thinking about it and gave me some ideas, saying that it would... that it would make Minghan pay more attention to me, and that it would make Kangkang and Qiqi get closer to my mother. But I didn't know until now...it turned out that all the ideas she gave me were... On the contrary, they want to separate Minghan and I, make me lose Minghan, and push the two children further and further away!

Mom...why do you think she is so insidious? ! I learned that her marriage was broken down due to the interference of a third party. At that time, I comforted her a lot. We also scolded her husband and the mistress who interfered with her marriage, and encouraged her to look away. Not long ago, I discovered that our pediatrician Director Zhang was interested in her and encouraged her to accept a relationship again.

But I never expected that she would look down on Director Zhang and give me random ideas. She was totally trying to get Minghan to divorce me so that she could achieve her hidden agenda...Mom, I feel so good. Uncomfortable! "

Listening to Lin Ran's choked words, Jiang Li finally understood that he was hurt by his friend's betrayal, and the other person's thoughts were so disgusting that he couldn't bear it and couldn't control his emotions.

Shaking his head secretly, Jiang Li said, "Do you think Minghan will betray your relationship?"

Lin Ran shook his head subconsciously.

Jiang Li's tone was soft and gentle: "Since you know where Minghan's heart is, why do you have to feel bad for someone who has no moral values ​​and tries to hurt you?"

From Jiang Li's point of view, Lin Ran's daughter-in-law is quite unlucky. Before she even married Minghan, she was poached by colleagues in the same department. A few years later, she was plotted to steal her husband by a friend of many years. To be honest, Jiang Liting couldn't figure out what kind of luck caused Lin Ran to encounter such bad things one after another.

"But I just can't help it, Mom... Whenever I think of my friend's intentions for me, I feel so stupid that I mistakenly regarded a jackal as a confidant."

Lin Ran wiped her tears and said: "She and I were college classmates, and we had a really good relationship. When we entered society and had our own families, we still got along very well. If I hadn't found out about her today, "I'm afraid that the day before my divorce with Minghan, I still regard her as a good friend."

“How did you know that she intended to destroy your marriage with Minghan?”

There was no emotion on Jiang Li's face. Her tone was calm and she looked at Lin Ran quietly.

"This noon, I just finished my meal in the hospital cafeteria when I received a call from Minghan. He thanked me for the pork rib soup that someone sent him. I immediately felt something was wrong. When I asked, I found out who was using me. He said that he was just on his way to do some errands. He passed by Minghan's work and brought a portion of pork rib soup to the concierge to replenish Minghan's health.

Mom, why do you think she is so thick-skinned? Isn't she afraid of being cheated on or that I'll settle the score with her if I find out? "Although she had already found Cui Qinglan, slapped him, and trampled his face on the ground, didn't Cui Qinglan think about the consequences when she did what she did at noon?

Lin Ran doesn’t think Cui Qinglan is a fool who is so understanding that he has no scruples.

“Perhaps your friend is too confident, thinking that she understands men very well, and that Minghan will not be attentive enough to call you.”

Jiang Li said, paused for a moment, and asked, "Did Minghan call you to say thank you?" Well, she actually already had the answer in her mind.

After all, he is the son she raised. Even though she is busy at work, this daughter-in-law even specially cooks pork rib soup and asks others to deliver it to her work. As a man who has a wife in his heart, he is bound to see the "Love Card" when he sees it. After having pork rib soup, I called the woman I loved deeply to say thank you.

Emotions are mutual. Since the wife has given something, Jiang Li thinks that it is natural for the husband to respond, rather than that the wife's contribution is due and that it does not matter whether she responds or not.

Knowing that sincerity is precious, based on this, when Jiang Li taught several children at home, he naturally warned them about the meaning of the word "sincerity".

This has the correct three views, and he knows that "sincerity" is not just words. Therefore, when Minghan saw the pork rib soup at the concierge of the unit, it was not surprising that he immediately called Lin Ran to thank him.

However, Cui Qinglan was too self-righteous, so not long after the "soup delivery" incident, Lin Ran received a slap in the face and the "mistress" accusation.

In other words, being slapped by Lin Ran and accused of being a mistress was purely something Cui Qinglan asked for.

She is also the one bringing humiliation upon herself!

"Um."

Lin Ran nodded. Jiang Li suddenly tapped his forehead: "Look at my memory, you mentioned before that Minghan called you to thank you for sending him pork rib soup, but I forgot about it and asked you again."

"this is nothing."

Lin Ran shook her head, saying that she didn't take it to heart, and then heard Jiang Li say: "You have to live happily in this world. Since you already know what the other person's character is, you can just stop interacting with him in the future. There is no need to blame the other person for his fault." It’s not worth punishing yourself!”

After a slight pause, Jiang Li continued: "Besides, since you and Minghan have been married, you should already know your husband very well. Do you think he is the kind of man who changes his mind casually?"

Lin Ran did not respond for a long time.

“Do you not believe Minghan? Or do you mean you don’t know him well enough?”

Jiang Li frowned slightly and said, "I trust my son. He takes relationships seriously and does not treat them as a child's play."

"Mom, I...it's not that I don't trust Minghan, it's that those women have too many tricks. Take my colleagues in the department Wang Qiang and Cui Qinglan as examples. One of them pretended to know Minghan and came to you to gain favor, and the other borrowed I sent soup to Minghan in my name so that I could get to know Minghan gradually, and then hooked Minghan into asking for a divorce. They were calculating on their own and it was hard to prevent them!"

Lin Ran whispered. Hearing this, Jiang Li suddenly smiled: "You are right, there are some women here who are as thoughtful as a sieve. They have endless means to achieve their goals, but have you ever thought about it? "Whether it's your colleague or your friend, have they ever deceived me and Minghan?"

…”

For a long while, Lin Ran was in a daze and could not recover.

“As long as you have a pure mind, you will not be easily deceived when looking at people and things.”

When Jiang Li said this, she sighed: "Lin Ran, you seem to be a smart child, why are you so easy to get confused? Think about it, just as you were so noisy before, if Minghan doesn't have you in mind, or is tired of it You, can he continue to live with you? "

“I am in the midst of blessings but I don’t know how to be blessed.”

Lin Ran suddenly said this.

Jiang Li was startled for a moment and said, "There's no need to talk about yourself like that. You just need to remember to trust Minghan. When it comes to things related to you and your husband, you can figure it out yourself. If you can't figure it out, just let Minghan know." Ask clearly. In fact, to put it simply, couples should trust each other and communicate more. In this way, you will not feel distressed no matter what ideas other women have about your marriage. "

“Mom, you are so kind! You are more enlightening than my mother. After listening to your words, I feel like I have been enlightened, and like taking a bath in a mountain stream on a hot summer day. My whole body feels refreshed!”

As soon as Lin Ran said these words, he immediately made Jiang Li laugh out loud: "You are so good at blowing rainbow farts, did you learn it from Minghan?" Before Lin Ran could answer, Jiang Li said again: "Minghan Growing up, he was the best at speaking nice words in front of me. Your fifth brother always followed his example. The two brothers are the treasures of our family!"

“I...I didn’t learn from Minghan.”

Lin Ran's cheeks turned red and she said: "I just told the truth. Every time I make a mistake, you are the one who enlightens me. After listening to your words, I feel very comfortable and not rejected at all."

"This shows that you have good understanding and that you can listen. Otherwise, no matter how much I say, it will be in vain."

Jiang Li smiled and asked, "How are you feeling now?"

"very good."

 Lin Ran smiled, and she casually chatted with Jiang Li about Cui Qinglan's gossip: "Mom, my friend's name is Cui Qinglan. The reason why her marriage was interfered with by a mistress is actually because she doesn't want to have children."

"It doesn't matter if she doesn't want to have a baby. If she negotiates with her partner before marriage, the two of them will not have a divorce for the sake of the child."

Jiang Li gives an objective view.

Lin Ran: "Having said that, people's hearts are fickle, especially her mother-in-law did not agree with it from the beginning. This is actually equivalent to laying the fuse for her marriage."

Jiang Li: "The mistress is pregnant?"

Lin Ran nodded "Yeah" and said, "More than a year before the incident, every time she called me, she would say that her husband had gone back on his word and wanted her to have a child. She also did not miss it when she met me. She mentioned in front of me that my advice to her was to have one child, because I felt that the child had begun to make her marriage shaky, but she refused to listen, and then one day she told me that her husband had filed for divorce from her..."

Jiang Li: "The whole thing is her husband's fault. Since he agreed not to have children before marriage, he shouldn't regret it after marriage. In addition, even if he wanted to divorce and find another man, he shouldn't have cheated on her during the marriage or even let her mistress get pregnant with the child. , forcing the legal wife to divorce in order to give the mistress the status of mother and son.”

“Mom, do you think who is right about the divorce?”

Lin Ran asked.

Jiang Li shook his head: "It's hard to say. We are outsiders after all. Divorce is a matter between a husband and wife. Maybe it is unknown what happened between them before her husband cheated."

“Mom, you are sober in the world!”

Lin Ran gave Jiang Li a thumbs up.

“It’s not about human emotions, I’m just talking about things.”

Jiang Li shook his head and said with a smile: "The life of a couple is like whether the shoes fit or not. Only the person wearing the shoes knows."

Lin Ran thought for a while and agreed: "That's what it is."

Then, she said: "Director Zhang of our department is young and promising. After being widowed, he raised the child very well by himself, and the child himself is very sensible. During the front-end period, I saw that Director Zhang was interested in Cui Qinglan, so I mentioned it in front of her. After a few sentences, Cui Qinglan turned out to be dissatisfied with Director Zhang.

At that time, I just felt that she was too high-spirited, and if she missed this good marriage with Director Zhang, it would be difficult to find a better one. She was actually planning on Minghan. If I had known what she was thinking, I would definitely give it to her. She comes twice. "

Jiang Li smiled and asked: "Why do you think Director Zhang of your department is a good match for you?"

"She is already a fourth-year student, and she doesn't want to have children. Director Zhang is a native of Beicheng, five or six years older than her. She has a son, and this son is smart and sensible. In addition, Director Zhang is also good-looking. I am an only child, living separately from my parents, with a car and a house, and a stable job. Both of them are in the Department of Pediatrics, so it’s easy to take care of anything at work. I can’t find anything bad about Director Zhang.”

Then catch the insects. . .