Chapter 4079: What to do if you are always being belittled (1)
Chapter 4079: What to do if you are always being belittled (1)
Sir, do you think Im decent like this? Do you think I dont look like a serious person dressed like this? asked the young woman sitting next to Qian Yan. She looked a little embarrassed and nervous, but there was expectation in her eyes.
Qian Yan didnt know why the other party asked this, but felt that it was important for the other party to get the answer.
"You are dressed very appropriately today. I don't see anything inappropriate about it. It's a very common dress."
The young woman wears makeup, a skirt that shows off her waist, and her hair is permed and dyed. This look is very **** and beautiful.
Sexy but not showy, not revealing anything. This outfit actually suits the other persons appearance and is very decent.
However, Qianyan could tell that the other party didn't often dress like this.
Growing up, I have received almost no praise at home. No matter what I do, no matter how well I think I have done it, even if my classmates and teachers are praising me, I still cannot get approval from my parents.
I dont know if adults understand this kind of mentality. No matter how much praise you get from outside, you will doubt your life when your family members say disparaging words and dont take it seriously. Speaking of which, its really a bit pretentious.
"However, I have been living in that environment for a long time and I can no longer get out. No matter how much praise I get from the outside, as long as I am faced with a situation where they are around, I am afraid inside and become unconfident. They will always say a few words about me. It seems that I cant open up the conversation if I dont talk about it. This lack of self-confidence surrounds me and brings great obstacles to my life.
Obviously I have a unique appearance, good grades, and great abilities, but my extreme low self-esteem and self-doubt have caused me to miss countless opportunities.
"I know I look good. After all, when I work and live outside, I still meet many people who praise me. I like those beautiful clothes very much, but every time I wear them in front of them, they always say that such clothes are inappropriate and not like I am a normal person, but it would be embarrassing to wear it. It also shows my belly and makes my arms and legs look thicker, which is not good-looking at all."
My life is very short, and I have a lot of regrets. I dont know what kind of wishes I should make at the moment. The young woman smiled, But I came here by chance, and it would be a waste to do nothing.
"I heard they said you are very powerful, so I would like to ask you to see how you would respond when you are in such an environment. You can use it as you wish. In the end, you will definitely not wrong yourself." Here she smiled again and said, "It will definitely make me, a bystander, happy to watch."