Chapter 228： Disappointed Daughter (2)

【Perhaps her daughter is rebellious? If a child today is in a rebellious stage, she/he will be able to say anything that hurts their parents. 】

I agree with you upstairs. I have a child like this who always talks back to me and refuses to say anything to me. It’s very frustrating. 】

【If all of you who give birth to daughters are like this, then I will feel balanced. My son is so rebellious that I want to drive him out of the house. 】

【Upstairs, when you really can't bear it, just silently recite the three words "son", that's how I am. 】

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Mother of two children: "No, I don't favor sons over daughters. I have a son, but I am very good to my daughter. My daughter was very sensible before she went to college, and she has been helping in her own store since she was a child."

“On the other hand, my son has not cared about his parents at all since he was a child. Whenever he has time, he wants money to go out and play with his friends.”

“My daughter even went out to work during the summer vacation of her senior year of high school. In three months, she earned her own college tuition.”

“Even when I was in college, I did a work-study program. We only had to give her 500 yuan for living expenses every month. Even so, every time she came home during the holidays, she would buy gifts for the whole family, even of good brands.”

"My son's living expenses of five thousand a month are not enough. Instead, he often gets into trouble. I don't know how much he paid for the glass in the school. I also paid tens of thousands for the medical expenses of those who were injured."

“In order not to worry us, my daughter also chose a local university to study.”

“I feel very happy to have such a considerate daughter, and I feel that I will have hope when I grow old.”

"But when my daughter was in her senior year this year, she told me that she had made a boyfriend and was living with him outside. That man was from Qingcheng. Qingcheng is really far away from Nancheng. They are across the province. If she She is married far away, and I will never have the opportunity to see her again in my life.”

【There is nothing in this person's mouth that favors sons over daughters, but in reality, all his actions are patriarchal. 】

That’s right, the daughter is given 500 living expenses a month, and the son is given 5,000 yuan, which is a difference of ten times. This is too partial. 】

【Yes, it is also a holiday, so the son can go around playing with friends, while the daughter has to help in the store. After a long time, she will definitely be disappointed with her parents. 】

[In order not to worry her, they chose a local university to study. Didn't they say it in front of their daughter? If they study locally, they can have an easier time, save living expenses, and don't have to spend too much on travel expenses every time. . 】

【Yes, such a good daughter, they spent more than twenty years making her farther and farther away from them. 】

Mother of two children: "It was all what my daughter asked for. Her father and I didn't force her. If she didn't want to, we wouldn't say anything."

【Are you really not going to say anything? Maybe you accidentally said that she didn't help and didn't know how to lighten the burden on the family. From then on, she didn't dare to say it, but she would be scolded if she did? 】

The mother of two was startled and fell silent immediately.

It seems like she said something like this.

Qiao Ningxun counted her fingers and said seriously: "If you want your daughter to be as considerate as before, then you must change yourselves."

The mother of two children came to her senses and asked: "How can we change?"         Qiao Ningxun: "What the friends said just now is right. In every word you say, you feel that you do not favor boys over girls. But in life, you are everywhere. They all favor boys over girls.”

The mother of two quickly denied: "I didn't."

Qiao Ningxun: "You have it. I've figured it out. I'll just tell you a few things."

“In the summer vacation after her college entrance examination, she originally wanted to go on a trip with her classmates. They found a tour group with a very good discount. They could go to more than a dozen cities for a few thousand yuan.”

"She asked you and your wife for money, and you didn't refuse at first, but once when you were talking, you didn't notice that she was there. I heard you say that after other people's daughters finished their college entrance examination, they started to make money for the family. You My daughter has to spend thousands to travel, what a waste of money.”

“From that day on, she didn’t think about traveling and found a job by herself.”

"The second thing is that she was not feeling well for a while during her sophomore year and did not earn enough for next month's living expenses. She only relied on the five hundred yuan you gave her, which was not even enough for medicine. She asked you for money. Do you still remember? What did you say? How could your daughter be sick at such a young age? She must have learned to spend a lot of money, so your daughter can save money. You don’t have any money at the moment. "

“But on the same day, your freshman son called you and said that the living expenses were not enough. Without saying anything, you gave him three thousand yuan and told him not to save and to buy whatever he likes.”

"What you don't know is that your son asked for the money for your daughter. As soon as the three thousand yuan arrived, he transferred it to his sister, and your daughter immediately used the money to buy medicine."

【This younger brother is pretty good. 】

【Generally speaking, younger brothers will take good care of their older sisters. Of course, there are also vampire younger brothers. 】

【This brother is really good. 】

【The mother of two children still said she didn't favor boys over girls, but now she's fine, and the anchor has revealed everything to her. 】

The mother of two hurriedly explained: "At that time, I just casually told my husband, and I really didn't know that she heard it. There was also the matter of her living expenses. I really thought she had learned to be extravagant. After all, she didn't take the initiative to ask before. We had to pay, but I really didn’t know she was sick. Because all the children around me were healthy, I thought she was also healthy.”

【You think your daughter jumped out of a rock, and you said you didn't know she was sick. 】

【That's right, as long as you are a human being, you will get sick, and you just can't bear to spend money on your daughter. 】

[Yes, your daughter must have struggled for a long time before she plucked up the courage to ask you for money, but unexpectedly she was rejected by the person closest to her. She asked me to be your daughter. At that time, she asked her brother for money. My brother If you don't give it, I will definitely die. 】

The mother of two burst into tears immediately.

She really didn’t know that the things she did hurt her daughter’s heart so much.

Qiao Ningxun didn't intend to let her go just like that, and continued: "The reason why your daughter chose a local school was really to save money for her family. Once, she couldn't find a part-time job for a long time, but her major had to pay for her performance. A good computer. When you asked for money to buy a computer, what did you say to her? She said it would take a long time for you to buy such an expensive computer, so she asked her to borrow it from her classmate."

“She did not buy a computer after that. Every time she did homework, she asked her classmates to borrow one.”

“But her classmates also have to do their homework. If she wants to borrow it, she will delay her classmates’ homework time, and she will receive a lot of looks from them.”