383. Persuading
"yes, she is responsible for her own fault, but Qingqing, when she made the first mistake, she wanted to help us! I always thought you were a kind person, but why didn't you have a little sympathy for mengshasha? "
Meng Qingqing was angry, but she didn't want to quarrel with Qin Haonan because of people like Meng Shasha. She patiently said: "it's not to help us, it's to help you. She's not so kind to me. She loves you, and blind people can see that. So for you, she sacrificed herself tragically. Why did she do this? If she is really very selfless to do everything for you, do not need your return at all, why does she tell me, tell you, is not to get your sympathy, your attention. She just has a bad intention. "
Seeing Meng Qingqing angry, Qin Haonan is very excited. His words have never been fierce. What else does he want to say, but in the end he doesn't say anything.
Meng Qingqing knows that he didn't say anything, which doesn't mean he turned the corner.
"Hao Nan, if we give mengshasha compensation, we will admit that her ending is our fault. What are our mistakes?"
"I didn't say that we were wrong. I also admit that all this was brought about by mengshasha. I just think that she is poor, the child is small, and her health is not good. It is not difficult for us to give her some money to help her."
"Yes, money is not a problem. It is a very simple thing for us to give her some money. I don't care about the money. I sympathize with her, but I just can't give her any help, even the simplest thing like money, because I don't want to have any relationship with her. Once I get involved with her, it will be endless trouble. Some people you meet, is your blessing, he will bring you happiness, but some people you met, is your disaster, he will bring you endless trouble and trouble, and even destroy you. So for such people, the best way is to stay away from him, the farther away the better. Mengshasha is such a person, so you'd better stay away from her. There must be something hateful about the poor. She is poor, but she is not worth helping. "
"Well! My wife, I don't care about her anymore, OK! How can I feel there is a strong smell of vinegar In order to ease the atmosphere, Qin Haonan gives in and pretends to be relaxed.
Meng Qingqing disagreed, "she, Meng Shasha? Would I be jealous of her? You don't have such bad taste, do you? "
"So! I just want to help her. You won't have such a big reaction. You know, I only have you in my heart. I can't accommodate any other woman, let alone Meng Sha. So you can rest assured. "
"Hao Nan, you completely understand what I mean. I object to you helping Meng Shasha, not because she likes you, nor because I don't trust you. I don't need to be jealous about her. I just think that she is not worth your help. When you wanted to help her go to school, I told you that you provoked her, and maybe she would become your trouble in the future What did you say, remember? "
"I said that I just supported her to go to school. I would never have any interaction with her in the future. We may not see each other again."
"What about the facts? You not only met her, but also took her home as a girlfriend... "
"Qingqing, don't you say that you will not mention this matter any more? It's over, we're together now, and doodle
"Why not mention it? This thing really exists, it seriously hurt my feelings, I mention the old thing again, is to remind you, don't repeat the same mistake. Mengshasha, a girl growing up in a remote mountain area, is living in an ignorant life. Your appearance is like a divine coming to save her. Therefore, she has admiration for you. If you don't take her back home as a girlfriend, she may just admire you, but you give her hope and make her feel that you are not so far away from her Far, or can be touched, you give her such hope, don't you think this is hurting her? So when she fell from hope to despair, she made such a sacrifice without hesitation. She wanted to prove how much she loved you with the way of destroying herself. The purpose is to arouse your sympathy. Now, if you help her again, give her the chance to fantasize about you again. I don't know what shocking things she will do to make you again Pay attention to her. "
Qin Haonan reached out and took Meng Qingqing into his arms.
"Qingqing, I just want to help her, but I didn't expect that. Maybe, I'm really self defeating. From the beginning, I shouldn't subsidize her and let her live in her hometown. Finding an ordinary man to live an ordinary life may not be bad. Qingqing, I listen to you, no longer worry about it blindly, let her go! We have nothing to do with what she has become and how she is doing. A person still has to rely on himself. No one can solve all his own problems with his help
Meng Qingqing sighed, "Hao man, don't just rely on your enthusiasm to do things in the future, OK? If you help others, you are kind-hearted, but you should pay attention to the ways and methods, otherwise it is good intention to do bad things. In the beginning, if you were anonymous, it might be a simple good thing for you and her, but she knew the real situation of the people who funded it, so it was not so simple. ""Qingqing, how can you see this matter so thoroughly and analyze it rationally and calmly? You can see that people are always penetrating, which makes me sigh
"Because my father is a living example! You know, my dad sacrificed himself for his brother and sister and helped others, but what did he get? Of course, helping others doesn't need to be rewarded, but their ingratitude is nothing more than adding insult to injury. This is trampling on your good intentions. If it was you, would you still think it was a good thing to help others? As his daughter, as a sober spectator, no one can feel that feeling better than me
Qin Haonan nodded, "I understand."
"You don't understand, because you must think that my father's situation is different from that of your support for mengshasha. Mengshasha will not be ungrateful to you and will not make it worse. Even, she wants to repay you. But if you continue to help her, she will do some extreme things. If you don't, you will be separated. At that time, you will know that if you help those who are not supposed to help, the final result will be almost the same. When scraping coupons, scratch out a thank you word. Do you have to scrape out all the thank you patrons to know your disappointment? "
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