"Don't randomly guess, I mean I'm not in any crisis, so it's called a comprehensive crisis, do you understand?"
"You are trying to escape! He was clearly in danger, yet he said that there was no danger! Bro, you really should talk to her. The basis of marriage is loyalty and trust. "If it wasn't for the emotional crisis, and if one of you went off the rails, the other problems would have been easily solved." Han Jiao said.
Han Yuan fixed his gaze on Han Jiao. After not seeing her for a few years, Han Jiao had matured to the point that she could help him analyze his marital problems! This little girl grew up very fast!
"I'm telling you, don't make wild guesses. We didn't cheat, she didn't, and neither did I. She felt that I was out of office, that she couldn't live a luxurious life as a husband and wife, and that her job was not good enough, so she put all this on me. She felt that my return to Hai Zhou had caused such a huge change in her life, and she was dissatisfied with me for doing so, causing me to be so annoyed that I didn't want to pay any attention to her! " Han Yuan said helplessly.
It was the first time he had said this to his family.
Han Jiao frowned when she heard that!
"Who is it!?" How can you think that? What did she have in mind? Marrying you and she still thinks she's at a disadvantage? Brother, although you have no position or authority right now, you don't lack money! You have a car, a house, a job, and a good salary. You have everything others have, so why wouldn't she be satisfied? What right does she have to make a fuss over you? It's as if our Han family owes her! She had to get to the bottom of this! How good you are to her! Even I am jealous! " Han Jiao immediately shouted out. She was crying out for her brother's injustice!
Although Gu Yan's conditions were good and her high education was pretty, her big brother Han Yuan was also very handsome. How many women had loved him and wanted to marry him! Gu Yan had married her big brother, that was Gu Yan's fortune!
How could he be so snobbish? Husband no longer has a job and looks down on him?
"What are you yelling for?" Han Yuan stared at Han Jiao and said, "You really want Mom to hear it, right?"
Han Jiao immediately curled her lips and said with dissatisfaction, "I think she's being too excessive. Bro, you're too wronged!" It's all because you were too kind to her in the past and too used to her, resulting in her being so arrogant and despotic! How unreasonable! At this time, she should support and encourage you so that you would be in a good mood to start over. That was the quality a good wife should have. "She is doing it through a reverse channel, it's really infuriating!"
"Stop it, cut some ginger for me, I'm going to cook beer ducks." Han Yuan said.
"Brother, you have to change this situation. You can't always be under her control!" After cutting the ginger, Han Jiao could not help but say.
"How?"
"The first is to communicate, do mental work, and empathize with her. If it doesn't work, then we'll do it both hard and soft. We'll treat her coldly, punish her, and stop being so nice to her. If it doesn't work out, we'll get a divorce!" Han Jiao said.
"What rotten idea?" "Is there anyone who would advise me like that?" Han Yuan laughed. "What about divorced children? She's holding the baby so tight I'm afraid of hurting her. "
"Bro, don't be scared. If worst comes to worst, you can just snatch the child from me and bring me to Canada!" Han Jiao said.
Han Yuan looked at Han Jiao with incomparable shock. She could even say those words! Take him to Canada! No, he definitely wouldn't do that. It would be too harmful to the child! The child was still young, and he needed his parents right now. He couldn't be so cruel and let the child lead such an abnormal life. He absolutely couldn't!
"Shut up! There's no way for a dog to spit out ivory! " Han Yuan scolded, "You are destroying my home! Stupid girl! "What kind of peace of mind do you have?"
"Bro, that's not what I mean. What I'm talking about is just the worst case scenario. I wanted to tell you, you can't let her lead you by the nose because you've always been too kind to her. Don't you understand that she is holding you so tightly with her child? " Han Jiao said.
Han Yuan kept rummaging through the duck meat in the pot, but his mind was muddled by Han Jiao to the point that it was like a lump of paste.
He admitted that Han Jiao's words were reasonable. Gu Yan was unwilling to let the child go, so she tied the child tightly to her side. As long as she could tie the child up, she would tie up Han Yuan, who would obediently go home and serve her.
But what could he do? What could he do? Stealing from her and completely destroying the child? Then wouldn't he be a beast? He would rather suffer than ruin his child.
Han Yuan poured a bottle of beer into the pot. A lot of smoke escaped from the pot before it calmed down.
After covering the pot with the lid, Han Yuan looked at Han Jiao and shook his head. "I understand, but I have no other choice. Don't say anymore, I'm sick of it!"
Han Jiao looked at him with a pained expression. She could see anxiety and pain on her Big Brother's face.
He used to be such a bright and handsome man! It makes you happy. Now they were all frowning, wrinkles appeared at the corners of their eyes, and the unhappiness of life was written on their faces.
"Brother, sometimes you can't just compromise. Compromise will only make the other party more unscrupulous. You really must consider all three points that I have mentioned, and if one or two of them have proved to be of no use, you really must consider the third. Unfortunately, a happy and healthy child cannot be raised in a married family. Your compromise may not lead to what you want. Hong'er is a smart and cute child, with Gu Yan's personality, sooner or later, you'll ruin her! " Han Jiao said.
Han Yuan admitted that what Han Jiao said was reasonable. But he just couldn't make up his mind.
Divorce, in his opinion, was unrealistic. Who was the child with? Gu Yan would definitely fight him to the death. She would never give up on her child, Han Yuan was sure of that.
To take a step back, the child belonged to her.
How could Han Yuan let her take care of the child by herself? That would truly ruin the child! She was a woman who didn't even have the least bit of ability to live. If she couldn't even cut flesh, how could she bring children?
Han Yuan felt extremely upset! He scratched his scalp, feeling that it was going numb!
Damn it, it was a simple question for someone else. How come it was even bigger than the sky for him? If he couldn't even deal with this little family problem, could he still be considered a man?
It was truly sad!
"Stop talking and leave me alone." Han Yuan said.
If Han Jiao were to continue like this, he was going to go crazy!
Their conversation in the kitchen was overheard by the mother sitting in the dining room.
The old lady did not come over, nor did she interrupt him. She just listened to him quietly.
She could tell there was something wrong with her son's family, but she didn't expect it to be this serious.
Gu Yan and Han Yuan's father were not optimistic about this woman back then. She was too willful and ungrounded, and such a woman was not suitable to be a wife.
But at that time, Han Yuan liked it and was determined to marry. At that time, Han Yuan was in Southern City and they were in the Hai Province. What could she do if they were so far apart? He could only respect his son's wishes. He didn't expect such a huge problem to occur.
He actually said he was going to get a divorce! This damned girl, Han Jiao, tried to come up with some rotten ideas. However, she felt that what Han Jiao said made sense.
She did not approve of her son's divorce because it hurt him too much.
Building a family is not easy, but destroying it is easy. As a parent, he couldn't be too selfish. Since he chose to have children, he had to be responsible for them. He had to give them a complete and blissful home.
The old lady decided that when the time was right, she would go out and have a good talk with Gu Yan.
Han Yuan cooked a large table full of delicious dishes.
Han Jiao's two children had never seen so many delicious Chinese dishes before. They applauded in pleasant surprise, especially the boy Li Ze. As he ate the steamed crab cooked by Han Yuan, he kept saying, "It's so delicious!" First uncle's food is the most delicious! "
The child was very cute, speaking in both Chinese and English.
"Fortunately, you taught your child how to speak Mandarin. Otherwise, even if I cooked so many dishes, I wouldn't understand your praises!" Han Yuan laughed.
"You have to speak Chinese. We are all Chinese. We can't change it no matter where we go!" Li Fuquan smiled, "Big brother, if you have the chance, you should come over to our place to take a look. I've already invited you over once, so please give me some face!"
"Hur hur, good, if there's a chance, I'll definitely go!" Han Yuan laughed. "Let's go and have a look at the nice scenery there. It's so lonely."
"We are not lonely, we are a big family there. We often gather together on weekends, and it is very lively and enjoyable!" Li Fuquan said.
"That's good, that's life." Han Yuan laughed, "I heard some people describe life abroad in this way. They said that there are very few people on your side and you can't even see them after driving for dozens of kilometers. It's like you've arrived in the western part of China."
"Haha, this is a bit realistic, but it's not as desolate as the west." Li Fuquan said, "You'll know when you get there, it sounds very one-sided."
"Yes, I must see for myself. Personally down the river to know the depth, personally tasted the sweet and sour, personally went to Canada experience! " Han Yuan laughed.
"Brother, I believe you will fall in love there too!" Han Jiao laughed, "How about you also emigrate. Come to Canada with us and bring Su'er over."
When Han Jiao said this, Han Yuan immediately looked towards his mother and discovered that she was indeed very unhappy.
"What's so good about immigrants? Don't mess with your big brother, come back to me sooner or later! " His mother said with a straight face, "You guys have all gone out. Who do you think I will rely on for this old bone of mine?"
"Hehe, Mom, she's joking! This damned girl, why couldn't she bring it up? "You don't know that Mommy doesn't like hearing that!" Han Yuan scolded.
"Mom, I'll bring you along too. We'll all go! Isn't it just us being together? " Han Jiao continued.
"Nonsense!" You want me to send this old bone to Canada? What about your father? Who would accompany him? You heartless things, I have supported you all for nothing! " Mother scolded angrily.
"Hehe, Mom, don't be angry. Han Jiao just likes to joke around." Han Yuan gave Han Jiao a hard stare. "It's impossible for me to emigrate, because I deeply love my country and love this magical land of mine —"
Han Yuan recited it in a lyrical manner.
Mom was amused by his appearance!
"Jiao, in my opinion, if there is a suitable project, you should return to China to invest in it. There are also a lot of opportunities in the country right now, which is better than overseas development!" Mom said.
"Mom, we will think about it. Recently, we have also been thinking about returning to our country to invest in us." Li Fuquan immediately said as he gave Han Jiao a meaningful glance.
If he wasn't enlightened, he wouldn't know which pot to open!
Stupid girl! Han Yuan silently cursed at her.
The family had a lively dinner.
As Han Jiao helped her mother clean up the dishes, Han Yuan and Li Fuquan sat at the coffee table, preparing to make tea while the two children sat on a small stool to watch TV.
A happy family, that was the joy of heaven. Han Yuan thought to himself, it would be great if the house was so lively every day, it would be complete if Gu Yan and her child could come to the house.
When the water started boiling, Han Yuan took out his tea business and prepared to make tea. At that moment, his cellphone, which was placed on the tea table, rang!
It was from home. Han Yuan pressed the answer button and heard Hong'er's pained voice, "Father, my stomach hurts — —"