Chapter 631 The Terrible Blind Date Market
30th New Year's Eve, Liu Qing and the rest of the family lived here with Ding Yun.
The New Year's Day is also here.
On the first day of , Liu Qing accompanied his mother and sent a round of red envelopes to the security guards in the community.
The security brothers have deep expectations for the New Year's red envelopes. No one can go home for the New Year. The big New Year's Eve has to stand guard here for the owners, and it is not too much to receive a red envelope.
Giving them red envelopes at this time can increase their goodwill.
The red envelopes were given a lot. Even if the owners and the others remembered it, every security guard would remember them, and their attitudes would be better when they saw them, and those who could help them would also do a favor.
——Liu Qing himself has been a security guard for several years and knows these things very well.
On the first day of the new year, the whole family went shopping during the day and ate outside at noon and at night.
The cooking aunt went home for the Chinese New Year, and it’s not bad to eat outside.
The two meals cost more than a hundred thousand yuan, all of which were paid by Ding Yun.
I didn’t deliberately eat expensive things, I just ordered dishes based on my own preferences, and I ended up paying hundreds of thousands of dollars.
That also shows one thing - Liu Qing's life has gradually changed to a luxurious aspect.
In the past, if he had to order dishes according to his own preferences, such a large family would cost more than a thousand dollars.
——At that time, I hadn’t cultivated a love for high-end ingredients, and all I could order were some cheap ones that ordinary people could afford.
Now I can also order some expensive ones, and I think those expensive flavors are okay.
With the wealth he has now, whether it tastes good or not is what needs to be considered first, not the price.
Of course, he still won't try things that charge too much IQ tax.
This also shows that he has not developed the habit of completely ignoring the price of ingredients, and there is still some room for improvement on the road of luxury.
Those who demolished the second generation of Pengcheng, some people tempted him to buy a yacht, when he was free, he could go out to sea to play, have an indescribable party in the sea, and enjoy freedom under the blue sky and white clouds.
But after he learned about the price, he still rejected such an offer.
It’s not that I can’t afford it, but I don’t think it’s worth spending so much money for that little bit of fun.
Someone else suggested that he buy a private jet.
Liu Qing learned about the money needed to buy a private jet, the cost of follow-up maintenance, and the convenience that a private jet can provide him, and then dismissed the idea.
In addition to pretending, there is basically no other use.
He has some money now, but he can't stand it.
Helicopter can be considered, but I still can’t think of the use of buying that thing, and it has to go through a lot of procedures, which is too troublesome.
Stayed at Ding Yun's place for another day on the first day of the new year. On the second day of the new year, they left Ding Yun's house and returned to their community.
——After two days with me, I have done my due diligence, and it is time to go back.
The first thing I did when I returned to the community was to give red envelopes to the security guards at the gate, and to have the security guards call their ministers over and give each security guard a red envelope.
They stayed at home that day and made their own meals for lunch and dinner.
Now Xiaowen and Su Qi's craftsmanship has also improved a lot, and the meals they make are even better than before.
The two of them often go to the kitchen to watch Sister Mei cook, and sometimes follow her to learn. Over time, they have also learned some craftsmanship of rectifying high-end ingredients.
Xiaowen has done cooking live broadcasts several times. She put her mobile phone there, and people began to rectify the ingredients. While doing it, she explained why she did it. It also attracted a lot of people to watch and gave her a lot of fans.
Liu Qing is watching Su Qi's cooking skills getting better and better.
Before, I couldn’t even cook the simplest food, I couldn’t make dumplings, and I couldn’t make noodles either, so I would make instant noodles.
At that time, in front of this woman, he was like a God of Cooking.
It's only been a year, this woman's cooking skills have improved by leaps and bounds, and she has left him far behind.
couldn't help but feel a little depressed - a smart person is a smart person, and it's so easy to learn anything.
Like him, it is very difficult to learn anything.
With the reborn golden finger, and the identity of the rich second generation, it is only like this.
In the final analysis, it is still my own poor learning ability.
Sometimes people are so irritating than people.
is still a little bit, Su Qi is his wife, and having such a capable wife can save him a lot of things in the future.
Liu Qing has made a decision - the things that need to be used in the future will be left to his wife to do.
It's rare once a year that Xiaowen even stopped the live broadcast, just to have fun with everyone.
In the next few days, they traveled together as a family, and they visited almost all the places worth visiting in Yangcheng. On the sixth day of the sixth day, they even went to a district below the Buddhist city to taste the traditions there. Food.
The two nannies followed with their children.
Only Li Han did not follow him.
She signed up for a business course online and had to stay at home to study, so she didn’t have time to go.
A course for a few days cost her thousands of dollars. She didn't study hard, and I'm so sorry for the tuition.
On the night of the sixth day, Qiao Mu came back.
The news of him working as a security consultant in a big company has spread in his hometown, and it was spread out on his own initiative. Of course, the purpose is to let others know that he is promising now, and they want to deal with him quickly.
But his mother didn't say that Qiao Mu had a monthly salary of 50,000 yuan a month, only 20,000 yuan - Qiao Mu told his mother that it was 30,000 yuan a month, but when his mother said it, it became 20,000 yuan.
But 20,000 is not a lot.
Don't look at those parents talking about their children's work, which is tens of thousands a month, but they can count the real wages themselves.
——Of course, there is another reason for this. Those whose salary is less than 10,000 a month are not too embarrassed to participate in that topic.
No matter how high the salary is, he will not say it. I have never heard of anyone who earns tens of thousands of yuan a month.
It is not that there is no such talent, but that he can earn so much money in a month, and he has some concerns in his heart, and he is afraid to say it, for fear of attracting some people with bad intentions.
Wealth is not revealed, that is the truth.
Unless the whole family has moved elsewhere, then you can brag about it.
But ten thousand or twenty thousand a month is considered high, but it is not ridiculously high, and it is not so easy to make people feel bad.
The salary is a little lower, and there is another consideration - don't let the woman know that this man can make a lot of money, and then when talking about the bride price, the lion opens his mouth and offers a price that will hurt them.
20,000 a month, which can attract the attention of some older leftover women, but it will not attract some people who are too greedy.
This number is also what Qiao Mu said after repeated consideration.
Twenty thousand a month is quite high.
The security consultant of a large group, this position sounds quite high.
Therefore, as soon as Qiao Mu returned to his hometown, many people went to see him and asked him if his salary was that high, and also asked him about some work conditions to judge whether he really found such a good job.
However, seeing Qiao Mu's clothes costing several thousand yuan a piece, shoes costing several thousand yuan a pair, and high-end gifts worth tens of thousands of yuan he brought, everyone dispelled such doubts.
——This guy has only found a new job for a few months. To be able to wear such a suit and bring such things, it means that he has really found a good job.
I don’t have hundreds of thousands in my hands, I really don’t dare to pretend like this.
They even think that this guy's salary is definitely more than 20,000 a month, and 20,000 a month is not so extravagant.
Qiao Mu also explained that the clothes and shoes were all bought by the company, mainly because he was afraid that he would wear too low-end and lose the company's face.
As for those gifts, they were given by the boss.
This explanation made melon eaters lower their estimates of his wealth, but still retained their judgment that he had found a good job.
20,000 yuan a month, no one doubts it anymore.
The news of got out and caught the attention of some people with a heart.
On the second day of the new year, someone came to introduce his wife to Qiao Mu.
In the next few days, Qiao Mu became a blind date expert and had a total of eight or nine kisses.
But without success.
Mainly because the woman's request exceeded his current financial capacity.
The blind dates with him are all women over the age of 30, some are unmarried, some are divorced, and some even have children.
Some have returned to their parents’ home to take care of their children, and they will be old-fashioned if they don’t do any work.
There are also part-time workers.
looks quite ordinary - I really want to get married, but become a leftover woman, often not good-looking, or it is too demanding.
It is impossible for those who are too demanding to be regarded as unremarkable trees.
Those who are willing to have a blind date with Qiaomu have ordinary conditions.
But this does not prevent them from putting forward some unacceptable conditions when they have a blind date with Qiaomu.
didn't talk about the bride price step, and they didn't know what their expectations for the bride price were.
But the other items requested made Qiao Mu feel unbearable.
For example, in the city, there must be a house of more than 100 square meters, and the name of the woman must be written on the property.
For example, to buy a car, the price cannot be less than 300,000.
For example, if you buy a shop in the city, you don’t have to go out to work when you marry him, and you can open a shop and be the proprietress.
The shop must also add the woman's name.
These conditions are not what Arbor can do now.
As for other conditions, how much pocket money should be given a month after marriage, or the salary card should be given to the wife, and a house should be prepared for the wife's child before he turns 18, that is not so important.
We had a few kisses, and the gifts were all given out for several thousand dollars, but none of them were successful.
made Qiao Mu feel fearful about blind date activities.
It's not something he wants or not. He knows that he looks quite ordinary, and that he is a little old, and he can't make people happy. He has no background in his family. He wants to marry someone and pays a lot more than ordinary people.
He can accept a little more money.
The question is not whether he is willing to give the money, but whether he can take the money.
The salary is quite high, but I have only worked for a few months, so I really don’t have much savings.
——With a monthly salary of 50,000 yuan, five insurances and one housing fund are deducted, and personal income tax is deducted. There are not many people who get it.
A few months’ wages are added together to buy a house of more than 100 square meters in the city, and even the down payment is not enough.
There were a few blind dates, but in the end he simply refused, saying that work was about to start, and the boss called and he had to go back to work quickly.
Only then did he escape from his hometown.
The blind date experience in the past few days has also made Qiao Mu understand what the blind date market is like.
He has only saved 100,000 to 200,000 yuan, and he is thinking of going on a blind date, which is a bit bold.
But he also made up his mind to work hard in the future, and to live frugally.
After accumulating a year or two like this, you will have the conditions to go on a blind date.
can't say that it meets the requirements of all women, but at least it can meet the requirements of some women who are not so demanding.
I have survived it for more than 30 years, so it doesn’t mean that it is more than a year or two.
Of course, after getting married, you still have to work hard to make money so that you can support your wife and children.
After came back, Liu Qing also asked him if he had a blind date after returning home. He talked about the blind date when he came home, and made Liu Qing laugh out loud and said to him:
"That's it now, there are more wolves and less meat, and the competition in the marriage market is too fierce. And those older leftover women, who have not married in their thirties, have their own problems - if you really want to marry a person, In the domestic situation where there are more men than women, people have already married. Until now, they have not married, but they have high requirements. If you want to find someone younger, they may not have such high requirements. "
Qiao Mu said embarrassedly: "I'm in my thirties, so I can't find a woman in her twenties, right? Isn't that too much to slaughter others?"
Liu Qing smiled and said, "As long as you are rich enough, you can find a woman of eighteen or nineteen."
patted him on the shoulder and concluded: "So, men still have to make money. If you don't have money, you will leave with you. With enough money, you can find any good woman."
He was deeply touched by these words.
Now there are several women around him, except for Xiaowen, all of them are excellent.
If he wasn't Ding Yun, the son of the chairman of Tianyuan Group, but just the former security guard, those excellent women would never have followed him, and they wouldn't even look at him.
The only person who could follow him at that time was Xiaowen, who was not so good.
——Even at that time, he rented a house outside with an air conditioner, and his personal conditions were better than Xiaowen.
This is human nature.
Pure love may exist, but rarely.
And love, it also has a shelf life.
Only wealth is the most reliable.
He encouraged Qiaomu: "Don't be discouraged, follow me, work hard, there will be a day. It doesn't matter if the women in your hometown don't like you, it doesn't matter if the women in your country ask for too high, the big deal will find you a foreign country. Girl, it's pretty good too."
(end of this chapter)