When ye Xiaoan was bored in the afternoon, she flipped through the calendar on the office desktop. It was the end of the month. Tomorrow she could go to see her son and Su Han.
After wandering around for so long, in fact, their real relatives are only two of them. What is relatives? Relatives are people who will accompany themselves and never give up no matter what happens. Of course, ye Xiaoan remembers that he would have made such a deal for them.
At the beginning, I just wanted to make some money so that my son could go to a better school and have a better educational environment. Later, he sold himself to Gu Yizhen for the house left by grandpa Su Han. He never contacted him because of his feelings. What are you struggling with now?
The next afternoon, ye Xiaoan packed up the office documents early. When it was time to get off work, he quickly took a taxi to Xiaowu's school. Little five is now four years old and goes to school in a closed bilingual kindergarten. At first, when ye Xiaoan went to see Xiao Wu at the end of the month, he always pestered himself to buy him all kinds of snacks and toys.
But when Xiaowu became bigger and bigger, xiao'an felt that Xiaowu was a little different from before. When he saw himself, he would not rush up as before, but would politely call his mother, and his speech was very organized, just like a little adult.
Even the kindergarten teacher said that he seldom went out to play games with those students in school. When the teacher asked him why he did this, he would tell the teacher with a very disdainful look, because he thought the games they played were too chatty and were only played by children.
In comparison, ye Xiaoan still prefers the original little five. It's round and fleshy. At least he takes his child's innocence and carefree. Such clean eyes are the comfort when he wants to cry many times at night. But now little five is because of himself, he will start to be sensible so early. Precocious children are destined to be heavier than other children.
They need to bear the emotions of adults early and experience all kinds of things in the world in the process of growing up. Being sensible too early will only make them feel sensitive to foreign things, and they will have more troubles. Ye Xiaoan only wants his children to grow up carefree, but the cruel reality always makes the set things go against his wishes.
Ye Xiaoan stood at the gate of the kindergarten waiting for school, his heart full of guilt for his son. There were so many thoughts that I didn't even hear the school bell. A teacher came out and was contacting the kindergarten bus with a telephone. Seeing ye Xiaoan waiting at the door, he hurried to meet him.
"Hello, are you Ye Lu's mother? Although I seldom see you, I can still recognize you."
The teacher came forward to say hello to Ye Xiaoan. Although it sounded just ordinary, it made Ye Xiaoan's heart like a thorn. As a child's mother, she can't pick up her son from school every day. It's also her own dereliction of duty to be a mother.
Ye Xiaoan's face was very bad. He nodded and showed a pale smile.
"Yes, I'm Ye Lu's mother. Because of my work, I rarely come to pick him up from school. It's really troublesome for you."
The teacher listened to Ye Xiaoan's words and probably knew it in his heart. Now many parents have no way to better estimate their children because of work, so there will be some emptiness in their children's heart, and Ye Lu is one of them. The teacher seemed to have something to say, but he didn't say it because he took into account something.
Ye Xiaoan found her abnormal, so he took the initiative to ask her.
"What's the matter? Is there something wrong with my son recently? Is there something wrong with him? Teacher, just tell me that if he makes a mistake, I will go home and educate him well."
The teacher quickly shook his head and stood there thinking for a long time. Seeing that ye Xiaoan was a little worried, he said.
"Ye Lu seems to be in a bad mood recently. Although he didn't want to play games with the children in the past, he usually gets along well.
But recently, I found that he had less and less interaction with the children in his class. I didn't know why yesterday. He even threw his apple out and almost hit the little boy next to him.
I think maybe it's because of the lack of parents' company, so the child's condition is so bad. Since you have time to go home today, you should have a good chat with the baby. "
Little five is usually very good, and little five is sensible earlier than other children. How can he do such a special thing? Even if there was an abnormal behavior, Su Han should have noticed, but she didn't call herself.
"Good teacher, I know. I will ask him well when I get home. If there are any questions, I will come back to communicate with you. It's really troublesome for you."
The kindergarten bus came, and the children lined up from the door with small schoolbags, ready to take the school bus home. Other children were holding hands in twos and threes, running and running to the outside. Only Xiao Wu walked in the back with his schoolbag on his back, his hands in his trouser pockets, showing a cold expression.
But when he saw his mother standing at the door, ye Xiaoan could obviously see his eyes. There was a flash of excitement, but it was only pressed down for a moment, and then he calmly wanted to come by himself.
"Mommy, you have time to come and see Xiao Wu today."
Ye Xiaoan reached out and picked him up. Xiao Wu was more than four years old and unknowingly much taller than before. It's hard to hold him up now. Maybe he can't hold him when he grows up.
"Son, say goodbye to the teacher. We're going home."
Little five held Ye Xiaoan's neck and frowned. Obviously, he was very dissatisfied with his mommy's behavior. He is over four years old. He is a little man. How can he let his mother hold him every day? That's what three-year-old children do!
"Mommy, put me down quickly. It's a shame for the teacher. I'm already a big child. You can't hold me every day, especially outside. Don't hold me in the future!"
Ye Xiaoan was slightly stunned. He used to hold him like this. He had never had such an extreme reaction. How can he become like this now? The teacher also felt Ye Xiaoan's embarrassment, so he quickly said.
"Ye Lu seems to be very sensible these days. Sometimes he will suddenly ask me some things that adults will consider. Children's growth process is different. Maybe some children start early. We also need to adapt to children's changes. We just need to be able to control their growth track."
After listening to the teacher, ye Xiaoan realized that he had not communicated with Xiao Wu for too long, so there was such an embarrassing scene. Little five is just sensible at this stage, and some psychological changes are normal. And usually he is not around Xiaowu. He may not have noticed his change, so he can't accept his son's change for a time.
"I really don't spend much time with my children at ordinary times. I will pay attention to it in the future, but please believe that I really love him." Ye Xiaoan looked at Xiao Wu and the teacher with a guilty face. The people around Xiao Wu, whether Su Han, the teacher or even the students in the kindergarten, spent more time with him than he did. So now it is understandable.
Ye Xiaoan thought, anyway, he has been in a bad mood because of his relationship with Gu Yizhen. After all, living together and not looking up and looking down every day is really worrying. Otherwise, I'll find an excuse and move over to live with Su Han. You can not only accompany your son, but also let yourself calm down for a period of time and think about what you are thinking recently.
"Son, why are you more and more reluctant to play with children recently, just because you think they are not as sensible as you?"
In any case, ye Xiaoan can make it clear that she will always think of her son when she does anything. So if the son has any problems, it's a big thing for him. No one can match it.
Little five moved to the side of the window, trying to pick up the window and look at the scenery outside. Obviously, Xiao Wu didn't want to answer Ye Xiaoan's question, but Xiao Wu refused to answer it, but ye Xiaoan also came together.
"Son, what's the matter with your mother? You should believe that your mother knows more than you and will be able to help you solve the problem."
Little five turned back and looked at his mommy suspiciously. He was really not sure whether his problem could be solved by mommy.
"A few days ago, the kindergarten teacher asked us to draw. The title was to draw the father in my heart. But I didn't know who my father was, so I drew a mother with short hair and handed it in."
When Xiao Wu said this, he forked his waist angrily, as if he could still remember what happened that day.
"Later, my classmates asked me why I wanted to draw a mother with short hair. I said because I had never seen my father. Later, they always laughed at me and said that I was a child without a father. I didn't want to pay attention to their ignorant children. They were too childish!"
Xiao Wu has been holding in his heart for several days. Today, he finally said it. Suddenly, he felt that he was not so sad in his heart. But why did Mommy suddenly keep silent?
Little five thought about it. It must have been the teacher who told Mommy when he took an apple to hit his classmates. Mommy was angry with herself, so she ignored her. He carefully pulled mommy's sleeve, but found that mommy seemed to be in a daze and didn't notice his action at all.
Should I explain to mommy that if I admit a mistake, I should be fine. I won't be beaten, will I? It's not his fault at all. Who makes him say he's a child without a father!
Ye Xiaoan finally found out how outrageous she was wrong. She always thought that as long as she gave Xiao Wu superior learning conditions so that he could grow better, she was the most responsible performance of being a mother. But ye Xiaoan didn't realize that Xiao Wu was also growing. He became more and more sensible day by day, and he would contact more and more things. Just like dad's problem, he has never mentioned it before, but now he will be troubled by it. I was so careless that I ignored that the child had grown up inadvertently.