Luo Hongyu said here, subconsciously looking back at Ye Xiaoan.
"Don't you understand why his father beat him?"
Ye Xiaoan nodded. He really couldn't understand. It is reasonable to say that if he finds a girl with so many better conditions than himself, his father should praise him for his ability. How can he beat him in turn?
Luo Hongyu smiled. In those days, these things might make him very painful. Now, I think it's a little funny.
"Let me tell you, even in today's society, it's very important to be a good match. If small families want to find a suitable partner for their children, they must choose each other's family background, not to mention large families.
This is more important than before. If their family wants to marry me as their daughter-in-law, they should at least have some decent bride price. Of course, this is with the consent of my parents. If my parents don't agree, their family comes to propose marriage, his father is likely to be ridiculed and scolded by my parents, and then walk away in dismay.
At that time, when I went home and talked to my family, my parents didn't agree. The reason was that although his father had a tailor's shop, his life was not good. The key was that his father was not self-motivated and lived day by day. "
Ye Xiaoan nodded his head, which was true. Now even an ordinary family wants to find an object with relatively better conditions for their children, but that is only when the conditions are feasible.
"At that time, we were still young and didn't know much about these things. We thought that we would talk to our family and look forward to getting married. As a result, I haven't seen him since that day. My parents locked me at home every day and didn't let me go out. At that time, the biggest worry was not that we couldn't see him, but that he didn't have enough to eat at home.
Later, despite the opposition of my family, I ran out secretly. I stole 50 yuan from his father's money box with him in the middle of the night and ran away. We plan to find a job to make money when we go out. When we get the money back, our family will not be so opposed.
But who knows that fifty yuan was very much at that time, but even if we were outside, we didn't spend enough three months. Fortunately, we didn't sit around and try to find a job. Finally, we found a garment factory.
I can only do some odd jobs. After all, I haven't done anything at home before. He studied tailoring and earned more in the factory than I did. We worked like this for a whole year and saved more than 100 yuan.
It was the first time we spent the new year outside. I still remember when I said it was not easy to make money, so I had a meal together. When I got rich, I would celebrate the new year again. He spent two yuan on a small plate of meat behind my back. At that time, two yuan was a lot of money, and he went out to earn money to know that it was not easy to make money. It was really painful to eat that plate of meat. That's it. I ate it He was reluctant to eat. Finally, I said if he didn't eat, I wouldn't eat. He ate a small piece.
After the new year, I was going to go back to the garment factory for a while. But my health has not been very good. In addition, the work of the garment factory has always been very heavy. He said, otherwise, the two of us would use the saved money to do some small business. It was much easier to want the business at that time than now. Where are the distribution licenses and various procedures We spread a piece of cloth on the ground and put in ten clothes, which is the first time we do business. "
When ye Xiaoan heard Luo Hongyu say this, he was also surprised. Now the rudiment of Koo's group, which has been shaking in the mall... Is that all?
Luo Hongyu nodded and looked at Ye Xiaoan in surprise. Let alone her, anyone would be surprised to hear that Gu's group was built in this way.
"Yes, that's true at the beginning. We set up a stall, put a piece of cloth and have more than ten clothes, so we began to do business. Small businesses can't make much money. After tossing around for a month or two, we didn't make much money, and it's hard to be exposed to the sun and wind day by day.
At first, he was a little discouraged. It would be better to work in a garment factory. But I'm still unwilling. If I can do business by myself, why do I have to work in someone else's factory? We began to try to read the emerging garment styles in the newspaper.
At that time, when there were fashion magazines and newspapers, we tried to make some similar patterns on the clothes of celebrity models. Unexpectedly, when the clothes were going out, someone really came and asked, and then we did it bit by bit. After tossing for about a year, we had the capital to set up a small stall.
Then it turned into a clothing store. At that time, we couldn't afford to buy a house, so we hid in the clothing store. We put up a roll of bedding during the day, and then put it on when the store closed at night. That's our own home.
After tossing around outside for five years, we gradually had a little money and became rich. He said I couldn't follow him like this, so he planned to take me home and propose marriage to my parents. We went back to my house first. My parents hadn't seen me for five years. I really hugged my parents and cried bitterly at that time.
After all, they all live in a small place. The news of our return came to his father's ears in a short time. His father was so angry that he came to my house with a crutch to beat him, but when he came in and saw the two of us, his eyes were red and he couldn't do it. In this way, the two of us are really married. We've been tossing about for eight years. "
Ye Xiaoan really lamented the love at that time and how pure that era was. Maybe just because there was a little favor in her heart, she could stick to it for each other for many years. Luo Hongyu's elegant temperament now has something to do with that year. People who have suffered in great storms and waves have now lived a good life. They have always been neither arrogant nor impetuous, and live their own life in a down-to-earth manner.
"How beautiful the love was at that time. I really envy that you and your father could come through so many years of ups and downs and still have such love now."
Luo Hongyu lowered his head and smiled. He is still a young man. How can he know that life is not easy.
"How can there be so many stories about childe and beauty written in the play? Your father and I have been fighting with each other over the years. I'm not afraid of your jokes today. I'll tell you something. But don't let your father know what I told you. Otherwise, I don't know how to make trouble with me."
Ye Xiaoan nodded. He didn't know what Luo Hongyu wanted to say to himself, but he was vaguely looking forward to it. After decades together, they must have many unforgettable memories.
"Your father also made mistakes when he was young, and he didn't look like a Zhen. It was just gossip outside, but he really made mistakes. At that time, the company had just been established, and it didn't have the current Gucci group. However, the company developed very fast, but it took more than two years to have its own place in city a, even to the point of no one To the point where the law is ignored.
At that time, your father was in high spirits. He bought a big house in two years, which is now the ancient house. He also bought a car, and his employees changed from a few people to more than 100. More and more people went out to socialize, and sometimes he didn't come back until late at night for many days.
With more entertainment, it is inevitable that the people he makes friends with are different from the previous levels, and more excellent upper class people began to enter his life. Such a gorgeous and colorful world he had never touched before. He was dazzled for a time, and he also made mistakes.
At that time, I knew. I didn't quarrel with him and didn't make it clear. In the past, I was always diligent and thrifty, and rarely spent time dressing myself. Don't look, I wear the best brocade cheongsam and the most expensive jewelry every day. At that time, I only had a few sets of clothes all year round. I didn't think about buying new clothes for daily change.
But when I learned about them, I wanted to understand that a woman can never count on her feelings to tie a man's heart in her life. Even if you treat him sincerely, even if you love him deeply, but man is always an animal. If you become a yellow faced woman, it is inevitable that he will not hate you for a long time.
So I began to spend money on dressing up, beauty and new clothes. I thought that if I spent more, he would spend less on women outside, and make himself younger and more beautiful. After all, women's appearance is capital. Later, he gradually changed his mind and stopped fooling around outside. "
Ye Xiaoan didn't expect that he has been blaming Gu Yizhen's old man. When he was young, he was also a prodigal son in love. Usually he looks righteous and upright. Ye Xiaoan thought he was a clean man all his life. It turned out that Gu Shaohua had so many unknown romantic past events.
Luo Hongyu saw so many wonderful expressions flash on Ye Xiaoan's face, but she also understood the small activities in her heart. Although these things are all the past events of Chen sesame and rotten millet. But for myself, it is to be able to recall the experience of a lifetime. Whether it's good or bad, it's very precious now.
"Mom told you this, not to say anything else. She just wanted to tell you that sometimes a man may really make a mistake. Mom won't tell you that you must forgive him. She just hopes that women can understand what they want most in their life and what kind of man they can really trust.
Maybe he did wrong this time, but if you can trust his character and think he can be entrusted. If you believe that he just made a mistake for a while, you can consider giving him a chance to reform.
People are not sages, no one can make mistakes. As long as his character can be trusted, as long as he is worthy of your trust for a lifetime, making some concessions in time is also a kind of wisdom and a truth of life. "
Luo Hongyu said here and gently took Ye Xiaoan's hand. She hoped Ye Xiaoan could understand what is precious. If you miss something, you may really miss it. But there are some things, when it is about to slip away, you timely stretch out your hand, maybe you can hold it tightly in your hand for a lifetime.