Because once a woman gets married, it is no longer her parents, but her spouse, who rank first in her immediate family.
Even if the parents pay for the burial, the name of the person who erected the monument should be Jiang Zhan, so it should be "the tomb of Chu Li, his beloved wife", not his beloved daughter.
"I think Chu Li's early death is a deep blow to her parents. Jiang Zhan is a scum in the eyes of the public because of drinking and domestic violence all day long. It's conceivable that they will think that this man is responsible for her daughter's early death, and they will hate and resent her. So after her death, they don't even want his name to appear on her tombstone."
Jing SA understood, "that is to say, after Chu Li's death, her parents may have taken away all things about her and completely draw a clear line with Jiang Zhan."
This explains why Jiang Zhan didn't have Chu pear relics,
"As for the child's things, he will stay, which may be a kind of reminiscence!" He breathed a sigh and then said slowly: "in fact, in my opinion, Jiang Zhan is a cowardly man who dare not face the reality and expects to be magnanimous, but he can't do it at all. Usually, people with this kind of personality pay special attention to the eyes of the outside world and are very afraid of being ridiculed by others. His inner world is full of reluctance, but he has no courage to change, So getting drunk has become the only thing he can do. When the alcohol is boiling in his blood, I'm afraid it's also the most fearless time for him. He bravely breaks out his anger and unwillingness, resulting in domestic violence. However, when he wakes up, he will try his best to apologize and seek forgiveness, but after apologizing, he will relapse. "
So, repeated, and finally he became a complete scum.
Jing SA says again, "that Chu pear why not divorce?" If a man doesn't want to divorce, a woman can put forward it unilaterally. Even if Jiang Zhan doesn't want to divorce, the judge should divorce him. But their marriage has lasted for more than ten years.
"I don't rule out that she is also a coward. After all, many domestic violence women don't have the courage to divorce, or she also has guilt factors, which is why I guess Jiang Zhan may know that the child is not her own at the beginning."
If Jiang Zhan is still willing to marry her after knowing it, there is at least one gratitude in her heart.
Zhang Youcheng asked, "is it possible that Chu Li was raped before marriage?"
"It's impossible, according to the records of the black mountain fire, when she knew that the child was dead, she felt like she was crazy. She beat and kicked the fireman who sent the child's body down the mountain, and even fainted, which showed how important the child was to her. If she had a child because of rape, she would not have given birth to the child."
He also agreed with this view, "Jiang Yunheng's paintings are full of his love for his mother, which means that he has a good relationship with Chu Li, and she loves him sincerely, so the possibility of rape is quite low. In addition, when it comes to paintings, I have a bold guess, I doubt that the child knows who his father is."
"Well?" Everyone looked at her in surprise.
Jing SA said, "do you mean that the matchmaker in the picture who doesn't know what is hanging on his waist is his real father?"
He nodded, "the man in the painting has very short hair, just like a cactus, which is not consistent with Jiang Zhan's hairstyle. Jiang Zhan has a thick black hair, which doesn't look like a cactus. In addition, Jiang Zhan's childhood is not beautiful, but he specially painted a family of three."
Cao Zhen frowned and said, "could Chu Li have brought him to meet his own father? You said that painting represents the world that a child sees and what he thinks. "