Chapter 186

"I'm more and more aware of the impact of their growing environment and educational background on their relationship."

She looked up at him and said, "because you and I have different family backgrounds, when we look at a lot of things and people, we get very different opinions, even completely different. It doesn't mean who is right or wrong in the end. In short, it's different. You stand in your position and say what you think is objective, but in my opinion, it is biased. "

She sighed: "no wonder the ancient people had to say that" the right family "is not totally unreasonable

"Family environment has a very important influence on the formation of a person's character. However, even children who grow up in the same family do not necessarily have the same views on things, let alone the same, even if there are similar ones.

Therefore, in my opinion, there is a certain truth in matching the family, but it is not entirely suitable for modern marriage.

In my opinion, whether the two people are harmonious or not depends on whether they can think from the perspective of the other party when there are conflicts or disagreements.

Maybe, we don't have to be consistent with each other, but try our best to understand each other's thoughts and thinking habits, which will be better! " He said.

She nodded and said, "it's just that a lot of times, we'll forget that! Always blame the other party for not understanding themselves, or what kind of

"Well! No one can really stand in the other's position. As long as we work hard, we will understand each other completely one day. "He said earnestly, but she left his arms and said," stop, I'm not going to understand you like this and be assimilated by you! "

He couldn't help laughing and said, "if a couple gets along, one of them will be assimilated."

"Well, you seem to be very experienced. I don't believe it She looked at him with her hands on her cheeks, and asked, "what should I do now? Yi Xuan she -- "

" we don't care about the rest. After all, it's their business. What can I do for you? Let them solve it by themselves. Let's go to America. I don't have much time. I have to go earlier. " He took her hand and said.

"Then you can go by yourself. What do you want me to do? I don't go! It's hard to separate from you, and I'm with you when I go there. I don't understand! "

"Then you should take pity on me, can't you? Look, I'm alone over there. It's Christmas and new year's day. People are reunited with their relatives. Am I alone in New York? You are too cruel He said.

"Who said you would be alone? Where to find someone to accompany you? I think, as long as you give money, no one will ignore you. Didn't you say it yourself? A lot of women will pay for money. Since you need it, you can buy it with money! No one has a grudge against money, young master Wang! " She pouted him on purpose.

"Well, are you telling the truth or the lie? It's the first time I've heard someone tell her husband to take money and go out to find a woman. Xu Shiyuan, you are so generous! Don't men all over the world want to envy me to death? " When he saw her running against himself, he also deliberately said something embarrassing to her.

Dead girl, look who is good! Hum! He thought so, and he couldn't help laughing.

"Go to hell with you. I have nothing to do with you. You can do what you like. I don't care about you!" She deliberately pushed him away and sat away from him, as if to avoid the plague God.

"Well, don't be so heartless! Will you come with me? Just like in the past, when you go to work in the hospital after the holiday, I'll visit you at the weekend. "Finally, he got up and went to eat in the kitchen.

"I used to buy this kind of orange when I was in Japan. How could you have it in your family?" She took out two and went into the living room to eat.

"Oh, I like it too, don't you know? I've got them in the fridge He followed her all the time.

"Not before!" She used to sit on the ground, put the oranges on the tea table, and peel them off a little bit.

"Give me one, will you?" He sat next to her and began to pester her like a child.

She laughed, and then she peeled a flap into his mouth.

He didn't swallow, his mouth purred. She didn't understand what was going on. She thought he was going to poke his finger into it. She reached out and poked it hard. He swallowed the whole piece without chewing it. Then he choked on the orange water and began to cough.

She patted him on the back and complained, "is there any mistake? You can choke on an orange? You're a real backseat Then he ignored him and began to eat by himself.

He stopped coughing, pulled her over and said, "I said hello, don't you understand?"

Her mouth was just blocked, and before she could answer, she found someone coming to her. She not only took the fruit from her mouth, but also kept her tongue in her mouth. She tried to push him away, but he hugged her so hard that she couldn't move at all. He had to give up the invalid resistance. Finally, he was completely captured."Stay with me, will you? I don't want to be there alone. I'm too tired! " He pleaded.

"But we, we, are divorced, aren't we? What's the matter now? " She asked, looking up at him.

"Don't think too much about it. We are just like in the past. We don't get along with each other under pressure. Then, as you said, when one day we find out that we still love each other, we will get married. " He kissed her on the lips and said, "let it be."

She laughed, and he asked why. She said, "I find it strange that we can get along with each other so easily before and after divorce. It's only in the two years of marriage that we get along like that, and few days are easy. Why? "

He didn't answer, and she didn't seem to need an answer. She explained to herself, "maybe it's the responsibility of marriage, I think. Once you get married, you will naturally take a lot of things for granted, and tie yourself firmly with each other, just like a vine. The tighter the entanglement is, the more pain you feel, you will want to break away from this bondage. "

"Then wait until it's all right." She looked at him and said, and he nodded and kissed her with a smile.

"I promise to go to America with you. But don't pester me like that, and give me a little freedom. " She said.

"I know, I know!" He was excited.

She laughed involuntarily and said, "well, let her and ouyijia solve the matter by themselves! I don't want her hurt, and her children! If ou Yijia must marry Mu Hanyu, and Mu Hanyu knows about Yixuan, it will be miserable! Mu Hanyu is not easy to provoke

"If it comes to that day, Yijia will protect Weng Yixuan and her children. Don't look at Yi Jia so useless! He has a magic weapon to deal with Mu Hanyu Wang Zixuan said mysteriously.

"I'd like to know what magic weapon it is, but if you look like this, you won't tell me, and I won't ask, so as not to be disappointed!" When she finished, she got up, went to the ground and began to pick up her clothes and put them on.

Looking at this scene, his mind seems to go back to that summer many years ago.

"Well -" he called out to her.

"Don't I have a name? Now you're more and more relaxed. You can use "Ai" instead of my name She sat by the bed, just in her underwear, but he sat up and hugged her from behind, his chin on her shoulder.

"Xu Shiyuan, it's good to meet you!"

She didn't answer, but she was full of thoughts.