Sometimes marriage is really a Warcraft, but sometimes it is like an angel, which makes a woman happy and full of fantasy and expectation for life. Sometimes she is like a villain, which makes you hate and crazy.
Understanding and tolerance are the basis for the sound and harmonious development of marriage and family. It's easy to say but difficult to do. When a person likes your lover and combines them to face the cumbersome life together, if they unfortunately find her fatal weakness and unreasonable bad temper, just when you are attracted by her other fatal advantages and can't give up, you enter a superficial happiness, A dark and painful ice age.
Xia Yuhan's marriage with Ouyang Hao and Ouyang Hao's marriage with mei'er actually repeat the mistakes of these marriages. The terrible thing is not the physical torture, but the spiritual and spiritual destruction. This spiritual destruction is like countless poisonous insects crawling into your bones, slowly eroding every cell of you and slowly disintegrating your passionate passion for life, If you don't have the courage to commit suicide or give up marriage, you will spend the rest of your life in this terrible pain that can't be erased from your heart. No matter where you go, you will be arrested by your marriage. Because you can never run away, unless you choose to die. If you want to suffer less pain, you must give up many things, including your values, hobbies and ideas
Xia Yuhan saw ouyanghao, the woman and the dog in the community. In fact, Xia Yuhan wanted a simple life. He wanted to live a plain life with his children. He smiled and lived in the sunshine every day, but this little requirement seems to be difficult to achieve.
Family and marriage are actually fulfilling a new responsibility, and they are paying their whole life for it. There are many happy families and many unfortunate families. Some people suffer for the overall situation in front of marriage and family, and some people choose to escape or give up in front of marriage and family. Maybe it's really because of love, so it can't help being hurt?
Xia Yuhan came home to see Xin'er's sensible homework and sat silently beside her.
"Mom, do you have something to say to Xin'er?" The sensible daughter tilted her head and said to Xia Yuhan.
"Xin'er, do you miss your father?" Xia Yuhan thought of seeing Ouyang Hao today and felt it necessary to talk about this topic with her daughter.
The nine year old daughter's answer made Xia Yuhan feel ashamed. "Mom, why do you mention this man? Why do you have to make us all unhappy? What are you doing? Do you have to arrange a sad ending for an originally peaceful story? How boring!
When nine year old Xin'er calmly said these words, Xia Yuhan was so surprised that his mouth didn't close for a long time. How can today's children strangle their words and thoughts in the cradle.
Maybe it's really a thing. Everyone has a shelf life. In the past, don't you miss it? If we meet again, we all have concerns about each other. Even if we have been reluctant to give up and miss, we can't do anything again!
Like my daughter said, are we together again? forget it! How troublesome, it's better to start a new fate. Let alone get together again. Some of the original problems still exist. Why miss and start again? It turned out that his feelings had not been brought to LISO by a nine-year-old girl.
Since the love in the world can be separated, it's not surprising that they get together or compound. Some people know that they are precious only when they lose it. Instead of hating each other, they might as well try to start over. Besides, even if they give up their current feelings and choose a lover again, they may not be able to satisfy their own wishes.
Xia Yuhan's separation from Ouyang Hao must have scars. Which relationship will have no scars at all? Today's encounter with Ouyang Hao made Xia Yuhan confirm a problem. In the man's heart, he is just a colleague, a man and woman who have worked with him in the same bed, that's all!
In fact, I don't have any hatred now. Maybe I have put down or tolerated the man. Sometimes, tolerance is not for others, but to make yourself happier.
What is the purpose of saying these words to Xin'er? Is it because I'm too lonely? Or are some people just unwilling and lucky to renew their old relationship with their original lover Ouyang Hao, but if they really want to find a father for their daughter, will they be happy? Or it will make the already beautiful story more full of holes, hurt yourself and others. Hey! It's better not to renew this fate. I'm responsible for ouyanghao's feelings and my own feelings.
The cruel world always tells Xia Yuhan that there is something better ahead when he falls. No matter how good it is, in fact, the front is just more tempting. It satisfies people's curiosity. The distant scenery may not be better than the scenery around him or the things behind him. When you get to that place, you find that it's just that. Therefore, sometimes, we might as well go back and look back, which may make us happier!
What is the better feeling in the world? Some people don't know for life, but what they once owned is always owned. Is it not a new fate to renew the leading edge? In fact, everyone has the right to choose whether to renew the leading edge or listen to his own heart. Others have no right to doubt. How to choose to make yourself happier and happier, or decide how to choose!
The world of mortals is like a misty rain, dripping the hearts of amorous people and endless love. No one knows when they will meet the things they crave. More often, we just miss each other constantly, miss the spring of poplars and the autumn of maple leaves, until it is snowy and time is no longer. Time will not stop because of feelings. Time will only walk on its own. At some time, it will go back and forth. In the softest place of your heart, a gentle pumping is accompanied by a burst of heart correcting pain
The debate over who is right and who is wrong in the world has ripples in the heart lake tonight for a concern, penetrating the edge on the Sansheng stone. The world is noisy and decadent. It's pleasant to see the entangled people coming and going in the secular world. Who can get rid of the heart without dust?
That night, the daughter's words and Xia Yuhan's tangled thoughts made the woman with a dead heart awake all night. Her heart was occupied by the man named ouyanghao.