Chapter 1252 feelings are two people's
Guo Zhou came to find Xu Qingyou. There must be something. Xu Qingyou can see it.
She put down the design and followed Guo Zhou to her office.
Sitting down in the office, Guo Zhou took a sigh of relief. "I don't have anyone to say, so I want to talk to you."
After such a long time of contact, Xu Qingyou almost knows Guo Zhou. She has no friends in her life and no chatty partners at work.
Xu Qingyou said, "what's the matter?
What happened? "
Guo Zhou was a little embarrassed to say, "that's what I told you before."
Xu Qingyou understood that a man wanted to be with Guo Zhou. Guo Zhou hesitated here and didn't know how to make a decision.
She tilted her mouth. "Did he tell you anything again?"
Guo Zhou's expression was a little uncomfortable, but he still opened his mouth. "Last time he finished with me, I said to let me think calmly. Later, he called me and I didn't answer. Then he sent me a message last night and wanted to invite me to dinner. He said there was something in his heart. The two people explained it face to face."
It's just that Guo Zhou doesn't know what he has in mind.
Even at this age, she hasn't had a man around her for too long, and she doesn't know how to deal with such a relationship.
When the other party called her, she was very flustered and didn't know how to deal with it.
Xu Qingyou asked the identity of the man.
Guo Zhou sighed, "he is the boss of the company. I participated in the program before. She was the person sent by the organizer to connect. That was the contact that time. In fact, I don't know him very well."
Xu Qingyou then asked about the other party's conditions. She certainly didn't ask about economic conditions.
The boss of a company's economy is certainly not bad. She asked about other aspects.
Guo Zhou also understood Xu Qingyou's meaning. Then she said, "he divorced and had no children. His ex-wife seems to have gone abroad. I'm calm, at least when I contacted him at work."
In ordinary life, Guo Zhou is not sure what kind of person the other party is, but only from the contact at work, the other party is quite polite, very calm and gentle.
Guo Zhou has been in contact with the top management of many companies, both good and bad. She only classifies those people into these two categories, and the man is even in the good category.
Xu Qingyu nodded. "In fact, I'm not good at giving you advice on emotional matters, but I still want to say that some people are actually very difficult to meet. If you have a good impression of him, try it. You two don't say you want to get married now. At least contact first."
Guo Zhou closed his eyes. "You don't know me. I'm really not good at dealing with male female relations. I'm really afraid of problems in the future."
She can be independent at work, but she's really bad in life.
She likes to avoid problems. When her last boyfriend broke up, she listed many of her problems.
Although there are emotional factors of the other party, most of Guo Zhou still recognize what the other party said.
She still remembers that her ex boyfriend finally said to her, "don't fall in love with a woman like you, don't harm others, just work with her all your life."
Guo Zhou also thinks so. She is only suitable for work, not for dealing with trivial things in life, and she can't understand.
Many things are not complicated, and may become more and more troublesome through her hands.
Xu Qingyou thought for a while before saying, "In fact, I don't think it's just one person's problem that the relationship between two people will eventually collapse. If you meet the right person, you may improve some of your problems bit by bit. Of course, it doesn't mean to shift the responsibility to the other party, but a good relationship is that two people are positive, rather than one is walking and leaving the other in place Disregard. "
If two people want to go hand in hand, they must hold hands, not dislike each other's slow pace.
Xu Qingyou doesn't know whether she is suitable or not. Anyway, she feels like this.
Guo Zhou heard that Xu Qingyou wanted to persuade her to try boldly. She frowned gently and thought for a while before saying, "otherwise, when you have time, let's have dinner together. I'll always be uncomfortable facing him alone. It's inconvenient for you. If it's convenient, I'll take you to see her."
I took myself to see each other. It can be seen that Xu Qingyou helped her check.
Xu Qingyou nodded. "It's convenient for me. Just tell me when you've arranged it."
But she also made it clear to Guo Zhou, "my eyes are not sure. I have to tell you first. I can only say how he treats your friend at that time. I dare not say anything else."
Guo Zhou uh huh twice, "OK, just take a simple look for me at that time. I'm dizzy now."
Xu Qingyou couldn't help laughing. "I didn't expect Mr. Guo to hesitate like this in such things. I feel you are a particularly decisive person."
When she said this, Guo Zhou was even more embarrassed. She sighed, "I'm really not good at dealing with the relationship with men. If I work, I'm more confident, but once it involves feelings, I'm really empty."
She may have put too much energy on her work in the past, so she is not very energetic in emotion, and she always feels that she doesn't know what kind of attitude to respond to each other, and she is always afraid of self defeating.
So the whole person becomes more and more empty.
Xu Qingyou breathed out, "in fact, don't be afraid. Feelings are the business of two people. If the other party is the right person, he will naturally guide your emotional direction and he will tolerate you."
When she said this, what flashed in her mind was Ning Xuan's face.
Xu Qingyou is also lacking in emotion. She felt guilty when she thought of these.
But after being with Ning Xuan, she knew what just good was.
She got along with Ning Xuan, and all her emotions were mobilized. She became more and more positive and optimistic, and then she knew how to express her feelings more and more.
Sometimes it's not self-regulation. What you can learn is that you need another person to teach you slowly.
Two people slowly run in to find the most suitable way to get along.
Xu Qingyou talked with Guo Zhou here for a while, and then went back to the office. She cleaned up and went to the cutting area. Guo Zhou gave her some samples, which are more complex design drawings, and asked her to make clothes according to the design drawings.
Xu Qingyou sat down and began to measure the size of the cloth and cut it. The design drawings given by Guo Zhou are really complex. In some places, she doesn't dare to cut the scissors at all. She needs to look carefully and calculate carefully. How can she cut and sew it to fully show the style on the drawing.