Maybe it's the common fault of men in this society. In their eyes, it's always their career, ideal and ambition. They even sacrifice their families, wives and children to achieve their goals!
At the same time, Gu Rou was a little regretful and felt sorry for Qionghua. She encouraged Bart to take this road at the beginning. She only remembered Bart's potential in this respect, but never thought about it. It was this potential that destroyed Bart's and Qionghua's family warmth!
If Bart didn't go to the county to develop, but just the village head here, he and Qionghua would love each other all the time and live a happy and happy life. So, why do you have so much to do and why do you want to join others!
The more you think about Gu Rou, the more uncomfortable you feel. You can't help but cover your face and cry.
When Bart saw this, he immediately asked, "what's the matter with you, Gu Rou?"
Gu Rou cried for a while and murmured, "Bart, does every man put his ideal in the most important place, even if he loses love and family?"
At the same time, he wondered why Gu Rou's reaction was so intense.
He knew that she came to argue with Qionghua for justice, but he felt that her performance at this moment was not just like this, as if it was a little sad, was it
No, no, Ji Chenxi loves her so much and regards her as her own life. How can she do something that makes her sad? What's more, Ji Chenxi is so capable and doesn't have to be aggrieved to seek perfection.
Gu Rou never tells Bart the contradiction she and Ji Chenxi are facing, but tells Qionghua when she meets Qionghua again.
Qionghua is really surprised after listening, staring at Gu Rou, eyes full of disbelief.
Less inclination, Gu Rou continued, "Qionghua, I'm sorry. Actually, I shouldn't tell you this to add sorrow to you, but I have a suggestion in my heart. I must let you know something before I tell you this suggestion."
"No, sister, please don't blame yourself." Qionghua hurried to say what she thought, "by the way, are you sure there is no misunderstanding about what you just said? My brother-in-law loves you so much. He shouldn't do that. He took a lot of effort to catch up with you. Unlike Bart and I, we didn't have a foundation for love. "
Really? What about having a love base? How many husbands and wives once loved each other to death, but soon changed their faces, even became enemies and killed each other.
Looking at Qionghua comforting herself and defending herself, Gu Rou said sincerely, "Qionghua, thank you, I'm ok. Now, let's go back to the suggestion I just said. I ask you, if Bart really chooses his ideal and ambition, will you continue to live blindly with him? "
Qionghua finally stopped talking, and the whole person immediately fell into confusion.
Gu Rou takes her hand, pinches it and pinches it, hoping to input strength for her, and goes on, "I know you love Bart, and it seems that you can't live without him, but this life of people, not only love, we always treat ourselves well, I don't know if I'm right or wrong with what I'm saying to you now, I just want you to have a happy life, not to cry every day, Support with a smile until you can no longer support it, like a flower withering and withering. I know Qionghua, even if she is not born excellent, but she is also a very hard-working, very intelligent girl, she can also hold up a day, can also hold their own destiny in hand, live a really belong to their own wonderful
Qionghua was really smart, and soon understood Gu Rou's meaning. "Sister, do you mean I want to leave Bart?"
Gu Rou looked at her, her eyes full of pity and pain. "In feudal society, women's status was low and all depended on men to live. But now it's different. Sometimes, we can give our best to love, even put down our dignity and suffer a little grievance, and feel happy. But it's all based on that person's worth your love, but Bart Qionghua, my sister doesn't want you to bury yourself. "
As Qionghua said, she and Bart were originally bound by their parents' orders. Bart was angry with Qionghua because of his disgust with the marriage. Later, he helped them and made Bart grow some feelings slowly, but the feelings were not deep enough to let Bart abandon everything and stay with her for a lifetime. Now it is a turning point. Bart's heart has obviously turned to the outside, He wants to pursue more, Qionghua is far behind. Qionghua is still young. It's better to get rid of her grievance for a lifetime. Even if she can't find a new lover in the future, at least, she can live a wonderful life.
Each other, silent for a while, Qionghua asked coldly, "elder sister, what about you? Will you divorce your brother-in-law? "
GU Rou calms his mind, but unconsciously shows helplessness.
She can persuade Qionghua to divorce, but she can't see her own way. Maybe this is the way of the beholder.
Although I told Qionghua that my problem was not as serious as her, but actually my problem was more serious. At least, Bart had not had a substantive relationship with that woman, and Wen Shuya
At the thought of this, Gu Rou felt like a knife in her heart, and could not think any more.
Later, she said to Qionghua in this way, "Qionghua, give your elder sister some time. When her elder sister decides to take you away, she will give you a good arrangement. But before that, you should take good care of your health. People's life can't be smooth and profitable. It's inevitable that such setbacks and tribulations will occur. What we have to do is to face them bravely. We must not have the idea of reincarnation There's only hope if you keep your life, you know? "Half a time later, Qionghua nodded her head sadly. "Well, I understand. Don't worry, elder sister. I won't do anything stupid. I will remember your teaching. I won't be defeated two years ago. I believe it's the same now!"
Good Qionghua, you really grow up!
Looking at Qionghua happily, Gu Rou's beautiful face finally showed her first understanding smile in recent days.
Next, she lives here, every day trying to think about how she should go in the future. The word "divorce" flashed in her mind countless times.
She likes to run to the lake alone to be dazed, and her mind always remembers the scene of that year involuntarily. He comes to coax her back.
After arriving here this time, she closed the card directly, so she didn't know if he had called her.
She didn't want to disappear completely. She didn't plan to hide anything after running away from home this time. She wanted to find out where she had gone by his ability. If he wanted to, even if the phone couldn't get through, he could come here directly, but in fact, he didn't.
Does that mean he can't find the right words to explain to her? Or, don't care?