Chapter 1012

At this moment, xiaowentian didn't realize that this matter had something to do with her. At most, she just thought that her mother and father might have some opinions about the family and wanted to ask her some ideas.

After Wen Xin said some of his worries, he asked, "do you think the relationship between mother and aunt Qian Bing is your best understanding of friendship?"

After hearing this, Wentian understood that these things had something to do with her!

After my mother nodded her head, she said, "I don't really know the relationship between my mother and me, so I don't think about the relationship between my mother and me, But after seeing the friendship between my mother and aunt Qian Bing, I suddenly got a very solid understanding of the word "friend."

After hearing this, Qian Bing immediately replied: "have you ever thought that this kind of fixed understanding may limit your understanding of a certain kind of emotion, because not all the friendships in the world are like your mother and I. there are also some friendships. They have known each other since they were young, and then they pretend to get along with each other slowly. We all understand ourselves more and more More and more can understand each other, and then get along with each other and become the best friends. There are also some people who are at the critical moment of life and death to be sure that each other is the best friend of each other. This is a very normal thing. If you just take the friendship between your mother and me as the standard of friendship, you will probably make fun of the scope of your friends. "

At least, in Qian Bing's opinion, the circle of making friends will be very wide, so if you always ask everyone with very, very, very good friends, your social circle will probably become very narrow.

At least in Qian Bing's opinion, she is a person who can be called half of the entertainment circle. After all, he often acts as the host of some entertainment programs and knows a lot of people in the entertainment circle. Therefore, those people can be called her friends. But her best and best friend is only a warm person, which is the problem of the circle.

If xiaowentian has no way to understand these things, it is likely that because these circles are not clearly divided, her social scope will be limited.

Qian Bing said it seriously, and Wen Tian, who was sitting there, listened very seriously. Wen Tian could understand that the reason why her aunt and mother were sitting here and saying these words to themselves today was just because they were worried about themselves.

Since they are worried about themselves, she will perform well, and they will not be so worried!

Seeing that Wentian listened so seriously, Qian Bing was playing with what she wanted to say. Then she looked at her with a headache and said, "you can't just listen to what you know? You have to understand what aunt just said to you. Can you understand what she just said? There are still differences between intimate friends and good friends. You have many friends, but there may be one or two close friends

Because xiaowentian is in a kind of thinking, she is more mature than ordinary children, but she is not fully up to the level of an adult. Therefore, it may be more troublesome to explain some things, because if you can't give her a very detailed and clear explanation, it is likely to cause some resentment and opposition in her mind. Now the result comes out It's also a headache for everyone.

After hearing Qian Bing's explanation, xiaowentian nodded seriously and then said, "I know what you mean by these words, auntie? You don't have to worry so much. I can understand how to distinguish a friend from a bosom friend? "

Always can not get along with a friend, suddenly become a bosom friend, or a close friend, get along with this and then become friends, there must be a boundary between them, is not it?

After hearing this, Qian Bing frowned, and then said, "you are worried about this matter. In fact, there is nothing difficult to distinguish. If you want to regard it as a friend, she can do it. It is a close friend. It must be more advanced than a friend. But you can be friends with him first, so that you can get along with him slowly, Once you become intimate friends, you two will be like me and your mother. Although there may be some differences between your way of getting along with us, the possibility of gradually degenerating into a friend is very small, and you don't have to worry too much, because you are still young now, you think there will be a lot of opportunities to make friends You will gradually understand, you do not need to be like now I and your mother how to get along, to each other heart and lung, because, you are very likely ah, get along with each other, will be some because of some small contradictions, and then do not want to continue to get along, so when you become intimate friends, in the efforts of each other can be good

Everyone has a close friend and a friend's boundary, such a clear is different, so now Qian Bing's thing to do is not to guide him to make mistakes, or ask him to investigate the origin of these things, but what she has to do is to let xiaowentian stop wasting too much mind on the matter of friends.Although it should be good to friends, it is wasteful to treat ordinary friends like intimate friends.

After listening to this, Xiaowen nodded. She seemed to understand something, but she didn't understand all of them. Therefore, her expression should be very serious. It doesn't look like a child.

After finding that, Qian Bing couldn't help laughing and said, "OK, OK, don't worry about this kind of thing any more! When there are any problems, you can continue to ask your mother for help, such as this kind of questions you don't understand, you can ask him, you think about some things will be more mature than those children, but after all, you do not have that adult experience, let you understand what these things are, so you go to ask your mother, nothing You need to worry, she can give you a more perfect explanation

Xiaowentian is just because she is too strong, so she is not used to asking her mother for help. She will have these problems. When she is used to it, she will not have these problems again.

After hearing Qian Bing's words, Wen Xin looked at him and said, "well, you don't understand anything about what your aunt said to you just now. You want to ask your mother for advice or get some advice."

After listening to this sentence carefully, she repeatedly thought about her usual discrimination in some things, and then she said, "OK, I'm more curious that if I can't accurately distinguish whether I should be friends with him or intimate friends, what should I do to be the best?"

For this point, Wentian is more headache, because she thinks that friends should be like mother and aunt Qian Bing, but now they are telling themselves that friends need the difference between ordinary friends and intimate friends. For a child, even if she is mature, it is difficult to understand this matter.

After hearing about xiaowentian's problem, Wenxin said with a smile: "this matter is actually very easy to solve, and you don't have to have a headache. In fact, before you can be sure that she can become a normal friend or a true friend, you can get along with each other as ordinary friends. When you two get to know each other thoroughly, you can be sure that you are intimate friends, You are twice as good to him, aren't they all the same? "

In fact, it is the best way to treat him with a normal heart before everything is determined. It is actually the best way to do it. At least, it seems that this is the best way to deal with problems. It will not make Wentian feel headache when getting along with friends, and it can also make him easily solve these problems.

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