"I say, Caiping, I just heard you talking about the Su Family Member, but I never heard you talking about that little girl Su Nuannuan. If Yifeng likes her that much, there shouldn't be any problems with her character, right?"
Facing his good friend's question, Tang Caiping was silent for a while, and then said, "I have not interacted much with this girl, and have yet to find anything that is not good for her character. However, as the saying goes, one who is close to the point of not being able to see the light of day, if she stays in that kind of family for a long time, she will more or less be affected by it."
"That's hard to say. Isn't there another thing that goes on, to get out of the mud without being tainted?" I think that this girl should be good as well. Furthermore, she has already cooked a mature rice dish, if you don't like her, won't Yifeng and this girl be married? Rather than staying still like this, you might as well let go of your heart and try to accept this little girl and see if she's a good daughter-in-law who can benefit three generations! "
After Tang Caiping heard this, her heart softened a little, but thinking back to the shopping bags just now, her slightly relaxed heart softened back down.
If she wasn't mistaken, there were quite a lot of children's toys in those shopping bags just now. Su Nuannuan had only married Yifeng not long ago, and judging from her figure, she did not seem to be pregnant at all. Even if she was, she would not buy the toys that this kind of school-age child would play with.
She had only just entered the door when she thought of using Yifeng's money to make up for her own family.
Furthermore, she clearly knows that I do not like her, so she did not urge Yifeng to get our consent first. Instead, she ignored our objections and secretly married Yifeng, who no one knows, so how could such a person possibly be simple? In my opinion, there is no need to waste time to get to know her, and taking advantage of the fact that they have not been married for a long time, before they have children, it would be better to separate the two of them as soon as possible. "
"Caiping, hey ~ You are being too arbitrary, no matter what, you have to give this girl a chance!"
From the perspective of a good friend, Su Ming felt that she had the duty to persuade Tang Caiping.
However, whether Tang Caiping would be able to listen to such persuasion was entirely up to her.
"Caiping, after we have been together for so many years, you should know that I still have some ability to judge others. Although it is the first time I have seen that girl just now, I feel that she is a good child. Most importantly, she has managed to get Yifeng's attention. In my memory, I have never liked anyone ever since I was young. It's been more than thirty years, and this is the first time he's fallen in love with someone. You can see how serious he is.
It was fine that Su Ming did not say it, but when he said it till here, Tang Caiping exploded with rage, "You're still talking about it, although Yifeng is not a man of his word, but in all these years, he has never been like this, not caring about our objections and acting alone. With such a big marriage, he actually went and registered without seeking for my father's and me's opinion.
"This …"
"Now, this Su Nuannuan is able to make Yifeng go against the elders for her. Once she stabilizes her footing, wouldn't Yifeng be willing to go to heaven for her? Don't tell me you want me as her mother-in-law to curry favor with her?"
The more Tang Caiping talked, the angrier she became. Thinking about how Tang Yifeng cared about him, she felt sour in her heart. What kind of thing was this, she had painstakingly brought up her own son, yet in the end, she had become someone who followed the words of others. Then what was the blood and sweat that she spent on Tang Yifeng all these years?
Hearing Tang Caiping's words, Su Ming couldn't help but burst out laughing.
Tang Caiping turned his head and stared at Su Ming, "What are you laughing at?"
Su Ming stopped laughing, and raised his head to look at Tang Caiping, "Caiping, Caiping, Caiping, oh Caiping, I was wondering how you hated that girl so much.
Tang Caiping's face reddened, but she denied it directly, "What nonsense are you spouting? I am Yifeng's mother, why should I be jealous? "
"Only a mother would be jealous, seeing her son raised from a young age, with other women in his heart, this is something no one can endure, otherwise why would he say that all the wives in this world are natural enemies? This is also human nature, so you don't need to be embarrassed. "
"…"
Tang Caiping looked at Su Ming strangely. Having her thoughts seen through by her good friend, she felt a little embarrassed, but since she had been seen through, there was no point in denying it now.
Seeing that Tang Caiping did not say anything, Su Ming laughed and advised, "Although it is human nature to think about this mentality of yours, you must still think of a way to change it. As your mother, you can't possibly stay with Yifeng for the rest of your life, right? To put it harshly, when we finally pass away from age, you would like to see Yifeng having his own family, with his wife and son by his side right? If you have always been unwilling to accept Su Nuannuan, it would be hard to get Yifeng to stand in the middle of her, so take a step back and give that girl, Su Nuannuan, a chance to show off. You should also carefully observe this daughter-in-law, and if it's a good one, you might as well just openly bless them. As you said just now, Su Nuannuan's family wasn't at ease, I think that Su Nuannuan isn't stupid.
Su Ming's words could be considered to be on Tang Caiping's mind, as her eyeballs rolled in her eye sockets, and she felt that it made a lot of sense.
daughter-in-law was wholeheartedly thinking about his parents, and wholeheartedly wanted to dig his husband's family's belongings into his own home. Normally, he would not live a comfortable life with his husband's family, and would only do this if he wanted to win over family member as his backer.
On the other hand, if her life in her parents' home wasn't good, then her husband's home would make her feel warm instead. In addition, as time passed by, she would eventually have children. This thought would naturally rest on her husband's home.
However, even though he thought it through, when Tang Caiping thought about Su Nuannuan's entire family, he could not help but feel a sense of empathy.
Seeing that Tang Caiping had changed his mind, Su Ming continued to work hard, "It's going to be a new year in a few days, according to the logic, that girl and Yifeng should be married, and should be going to the Tang Family in this year, I think you should take this opportunity to carefully observe that girl. If you think it's good, you should close your eyes, and quietly observe the changes, seeing how Su Family Member will not do anything that would make you uncomfortable, and then see how the girl reacts to him.
Su Ming looked at the slight change in expression on Tang Caiping's face and continued, "Yifeng is your son, you should have confidence in him.
"Then what if that girl doesn't come to Tang Family to celebrate the new year? If she doesn't come to Tang Family for this reason, I won't be able to find fault with her either. After all, I can't take the initiative to ask her to come to the Tang Family for the New Year, right? "
"You, ah, really are a mystery to the onlookers. You don't need to say anything. Isn't this girl showing her attitude by not coming over for the new year?" If she comes, it means that she values her marriage with Yifeng a lot. Although she knows that you don't like her, and she hopes to get your acknowledgement as well, if she doesn't come, it means that Yifeng still has this marriage, and to her, it isn't the most important thing. At least it doesn't matter to her at all.
"Are you saying that her presence or absence is an indication of her attitude?" Tang Caiping felt that he understood the crux of it all.
When the time comes, you should tell them about your worries and let them clap your hands for you. This is, after all, their granddaughter-in-law, and I think they will be as attentive as you, and as for you, you should take back your dissatisfaction first, and test your father and the old lady together. If the two old people think that this little girl is capable, then you should open your heart and accept this daughter-in-law.
Tang Caiping looked at Su Ming, a strange look in his eyes. "Why do I feel like your words and actions are actually speaking up for the girl? If I wasn't sure that you had nothing to do with her, I would have thought you were relatives. "
Su Ming laughed heartily, "Regardless of whether you believe me or not, this girl has my eyes, my intuition tells me that she is a good girl, you better not fall for her in vain. You must believe in Yifeng's judgement on people, Yifeng is even more rational than you and me, if this girl does not have any outstanding points, with her family, do you think Yifeng will marry her without any hesitation? Don't you know that your own son was raised by you? "
Tang Caiping muttered to herself for a long time, before finally nodding, "Okay, I'll listen to you. If she comes to Tang Family for the new year, I'll endure my temper and see how she performs before deciding whether to accept her or continue to oppose it."
"That's right. No matter who it is, we can't kill them all before we understand them, right?" Su Ming paused for a bit, then suddenly thought of a question, "Oh right, what is that girl doing? She had to have a life, didn't she? Otherwise, you won't be able to survive for so many years, right? "