Chapter 821

"Well, during this period of time, I still want to be busy with this and that. Is there anything I forget to do? Now, I don't have to worry about it. I feel empty." Su's mother couldn't laugh or cry.

"My friend, you are aunt Peng. Ouch, when her son married his daughter-in-law, she was busy with all kinds of things. Her husband was an old child who didn't care about anything. The two young people didn't know anything. Aunt Peng was really busy."

"Are you not happy to keep you busy?" Su's father laughed at Su's mother. Then he looked at Han Yujing and said cautiously, "now that we're talking about marriage, let's talk about betrothal gifts and dowry."

Han Yujing was sitting in a critical position.

His economic strength was known to the two old people long ago. Before, he joked that he took all his belongings with him to become Su Fu, but he was rejected.

Su's father said that he only wanted his daughter to be happy if he sold her daughter. If her daughter is not happy, even if Han Yujing gives her millions, it's useless.

Daughter happiness, then betrothal gifts and dowry things, you can slowly talk about.

However, betrothal gifts are a heritage from ancient times to the present.

Second, since ancient times, women are actually the most tired. To be a wife, a mother, and a daughter-in-law, they should be filial, loving, and faithful to their husbands.

This is the shackle of women, but it is also tied by women themselves.

Third, the pain of production can't be compared with any pain. Dowry can't measure the pain, but it can pacify the heart.

Love you, so marry you.

To ask for a dowry is the respect that a man should give.

"I discussed with your aunt, considering your money ability, so I asked your aunt for a gift of 888888 yuan. And in Sanjiang, you have seen the house before. It's the big jump floor, the big garden and the rooftop. After that, our family can live together. I'll help you with the children with your aunt. "

"Because there is only one daughter in my family, and I also want to have an inheritance, so I hope susan can have a second child. The first one's surname is yours, and the second one's surname is Susan."

"As for the dowry, your aunt and I know that you are not short of money, but the form still needs to go. We will prepare eight sets of bedding, a famous brand car, no less than one million."

Han Yujing pained Su's father patiently and knew that the dowry of a car cost more than the betrothal gift. He was warm in his heart.

The two old people didn't save much money in their life. Besides, they spent a lot of money in hospital treatment before. At this time, they were able to pay more than 100000 yuan to buy a car, which really moved him.

Although he is not bad for the money, he will not refuse at this time.

According to Su Fu, this is a process.

He looked at Susan, raised his lips and a smile, held Susan in his hand, and said, "uncle, you know what my family looks like. You will go back to see one or two sides when it is necessary in the future, and live with you at other times. You will be supported by me and Susan."

"As for the children, my surname is not inherited. They all have the same surname as Susan."

Susan is cold again. Looking at Han Yujing, her eyes turn red.

Su's father shook his head. "No, children have to have the same surname as you. You are more successful. If your children don't have the same surname, others will laugh at you!"

Han Yujing is really moved. Su's father considers him from his point of view, although he doesn't care at all.

He said with a smile, "well, the first name is Susan, the second name is me."

As for the second, let's talk about it.

He didn't want Susan to be born.

Seeing this, Su's father didn't refuse. He said with a joke, "my daughter is really good at finding me a son-in-law and living with us."

With the development of society, daughters are parents' little cotton padded jacket. They are no longer the married girls or the water splashed out in the old days.

No one wants his daughter to stay away from home, and no one wants his daughter, who has been raising for more than 20 years, to be the daughter-in-law of other people's families and serve others.

In modern society, there are also many women who want to have sons, not because they prefer sons over daughters, but because their sons can be justly accompanied for a long time, while their daughters have to marry off.

Why can a man's parents live with his son and daughter-in-law in peace of mind?

Does the son-in-law have no face when his parents live with his daughter and son-in-law?

This idea needs to be changed.

Su's father took back his thoughts and was very happy. "When Susan went abroad to study, I couldn't bear it."

Susan took a look at him and said, "Dad, Yujing has already paid for the big house and has started to decorate it. It can be used when you get married, but when you get better, we have to go to the United States."

Susan's thought is actually deeper than Su Fu's. Su Fu just thinks it's unfair, but she doesn't think it's deeper.

Susan believes that the couple actually have a separate family, in order to reduce the conflict with the previous generation.When a daughter-in-law lives with her father-in-law, and a son-in-law lives with his father-in-law and mother-in-law, it is easy to have conflicts.

Anyone who lives alone will have to face different contradictions because of different living habits.

Su's father thought of the first layer, but he couldn't think of the second. Naturally, he thought that his daughter lived with him after she got married. He was not afraid of being bullied by her husband's family, so he was very happy.

The second layer is often overlooked.

However, Susan clearly knows that after she gets married, she has to score.

There are all kinds of contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law on the Internet. That's because since ancient times, it's the mother-in-law's family that lives with daughter-in-law.

However, with the development of society, there are also sons in law living with their parents-in-law, but the base number is very small, so there are no large-scale complaints on the Internet.

This is one of Susan's female classmates.

The female classmate and her husband were colleagues, and later developed into marriage.

The female classmate is from Sanjiang and her husband is from Qingcheng.

Her husband's parents are also local people in Qingcheng. They bought their son a marriage house in Qingcheng a few years ago. However, because of their work, her husband was sent to Sanjiang. They met each other and got married.

The female classmate is from Sanjiang. After she got married, she planned to let her husband sell her house in Qingcheng and buy a house in Sanjiang, but her husband refused.

Her husband thinks that he will stay in Sanjiang for five years at most. After completing the project, he will be transferred back to Qingcheng. Then he will have to live in Qingcheng. After selling the house, he will have to live with his parents.

Moreover, the house price in Qingcheng is higher than that in Sanjiang, and the appreciation space is also large, so it's not cost-effective to sell it.

So after they got married, they lived with their parents-in-law and planned to live in Sanjiang for a few years. As a result, they got divorced after only one year.

There is no big contradiction between them. If we have to say so, it is the small contradiction in the living habits of the man and his father-in-law and mother-in-law.