Su Mu nodded, "ah, this method is good."

Su's father couldn't laugh or cry. "You're talking too far. It's not about children's marriage. Why do you think about where to live after marriage and let the nanny take care of you?"

Su's mother laughed and said, "I just like to think about it. Let's not talk about these things. You two go and get ready. If you want to prepare invitation cards, wedding candy and so on, I'll send them out. Now your father is in the hospital, so I have to run alone."

Susan said, "who's going to run in person? Who doesn't know about our family? Then you'll call one by one, and I'll ask the courier to help with the delivery. "

Sue asked, "isn't that bad? There are still excuses for those who are far away, but those who are all in Sanjiang do not come to the door in person. People will think that we are too impolite? "

"Mom, you don't know that nowadays young people get married, and all the invitation cards they send are electronic ones. They don't even get a candy." Susan laughed. "But I'm not the same. I still have to prepare paper invitation, special wedding candy and hand gifts."

Su's mother didn't understand, "what is the hand accompanying gift?"

"It's a gift for guests. It can be given before the wedding ceremony or after the wedding ceremony. I want to give it both before and after the wedding ceremony. The gift is different." Susan looked at Han Yujing and said, "I'm a small family, and my friends are also small families. Few new people prepare hand gifts for their guests, but you are different. You are a successful person and a celebrity in the business world. The friends you invite are rich or expensive. At that time, they will feel that you are not prepared for the most basic hand gifts, and they will be unhappy."

Han Yujing never married, but also participated in many times, sent out countless gifts, also received a lot of hand gifts.

There are DIY style, new people do their own biscuits and so on.

also has the style of riches and honour, which is full of expensive perfume and so on.

Han Yujing said with a smile and asked Susan, "what are you going to prepare for your hand gift?"

Susan looked at Han Yujing and said with a smile, "this is a separate gift. It's sent by hand before the wedding. It's sent by express together with the invitation and wedding candy. Naturally, it can be separated separately. But after the wedding, it's all the same, because at that time, it's only for one person, and it can't be distinguished."

"So, I'm going to give the guests hand gifts after the wedding ceremony, which are simple DIY snacks, such as making simple cookies, nougat, snowflake crisp and so on."

"Then the hand gifts before marriage are made according to different identities. For example, my classmates can have snacks and Dior lipstick. If they are the boss you cooperate with, they can choose something more expensive, such as famous wine and tea. If they are my parents' friends, they can send neck massage instrument." Said Susan.

Su's mother was stunned, "how much does that cost?"

Susan said, "I can't help it. Han Yujing's value naturally means that he has to give a gift for his companion. If it's cheap, people will look down on it. But if it's so expensive, we'll suffer."

Su's mother really couldn't understand the brain circuit of the young man. "No wonder now that it's said that marriage costs money, how much lipstick do you give your classmates? About how many? "

"Well, I grew up, and my college classmates, American graduate students, add up to about 30 people, the official price of Dior lipstick is 299."

"Those 30 people, each of them is about 300 yuan. You have to spend 9000 yuan. How many gifts do you students give you?" Su Mu asked.

Susan said, "well, before my classmate got married, the money I sent out ranged from 400 to 1000. Depending on the relationship, the good thing was 1000. The money I sent out 400 belonged to ordinary friends."

"Well, thank you. You gave me four hundred at the beginning, and now they give you four hundred in return. As a result, you still pay for a lipstick." Su Mu stressed.

Susan laughed, "Mom, if you want to calculate like this, it's not clear. When people come, I have to arrange food and accommodation. When my American classmates come, I have to pay for reimbursement."

Su's mother was stunned, "you, you rely on the wealth of Yujing, you black sheep."

Han Yujing said with a smile, "Auntie, don't be angry. This gift belongs to the gift given by new people. We have to give it away. Moreover, we are big losers. In Susan's classmates, we will lose money, but in those big bosses, we have to earn money."

Sue asked, "how much do you earn? How much did you send out at the beginning, and how much might they give you back? "

"Let's take a smaller one. At the beginning, a boss who just cooperated, his son married his daughter-in-law, and asked me to go with Ji Yanxi. At that time, Ji Yanxi gave a gift of 200000 yuan. Over the past few years, our company has become bigger and bigger, and our relationship is getting better and better. In addition, Ji Yanxi married his own wife, not an alternate generation, so that person directly gave a gift of 2 million yuan."

Su Mu's mouth didn't fit. "Ten times."

"In business, I can't give you gifts or anything. Otherwise, people say it's a bribe. Ji Yanxi is not born and doesn't hold a banquet. It's time for people to flatter. I also gave him 200000 yuan at the beginning. Now even if Ji Yanxi is not worth it, he has to send me a million yuan back. Even if Susan and I prepare a 100000 yuan hand gift for him, it's not bad! " Han Yujing said.Hundreds of millions of businessmen, where do they care about the money?

Su's mother was so shocked that she couldn't speak.

Or Su Fu youyou said, "sure enough, poverty limits my imagination."

At first, they thought that the lipstick of nearly three hundred and one was too expensive. As a result, they directly prepared 100000 hand gifts for their partners. You know, many families don't earn 100000 a year.

Han Yujing touched his chin and said, "what's more, when brothers get married, they pay attention to who gets married behind and who makes the most money. Ji Yanxi got married. I gave him a gift of 8.88 million yuan. At the beginning, I wanted to give more money to Ji Yanxi and let him return it a little more. Hey, no, Ji Yanxi didn't even have enough money to give it back to me. According to his urine nature, he must send eight figures back."

Businessmen are not bad for money, and the better their relationship is, they will never return the gift intact. Instead, they have to add some money back.

It's just like Susan, who only knows her classmates, but asks you to get married in order to collect money. Susan sends 400 yuan, and then they return 400 yuan.

When she thought about it, Susan felt that it was too bad to send her hand gifts back. "Forget it, my classmates who gave me 400 will not be invited. At the beginning, they just asked me for money."

Su's mother immediately nodded, "you're right. This kind of person won't be invited. It's also a loss to take back the 400 yuan."

It's not only money for hand gifts, but also food and housing for people. Thank you.