Chapter 1276

The question of entrustment

however, as for this question, Yin Qiqi couldn't help thinking in his heart: isn't that nonsense? If I'm not interested, why should I study these things all day? Of course, I'm not totally interested. It's a money making project for her. It's just a good thing that she can make money and benefit the women here.

However, on the surface, she replied politely: "that's natural, otherwise I wouldn't spend so much time studying this, women always love to do these fancy things."

Ning Yuming is a gentle smile, eyes gentle: "Yin girl's interests and hobbies seem to be different from the ordinary girl's family, the general girl's family like to learn piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, but Yin girl is so special, and also do so well, I believe there is no woman like Yin girl in this world."

Some of these words were too exaggerated. Yin Qiqi didn't think that there was no better woman in the world than her, but they hadn't seen her yet. However, how did she feel that the direction of their discussion was wrong again? This Ning Yuming how always intermittently in say some warm. Ignorant words, is it Do you really think too much? Does he just want to praise himself?

"Thanks for brother Yin's praise. Everyone has her own favorite things, nothing special. I just like to think about some strange things. The poor child is in charge of the family early, and I was forced out for the family's livelihood."

Just as Yin Qiqi was worried about what to say next, she suddenly remembered that Ning Xiaodie came to find her a few days ago. Didn't Ning Xiaodie want to know why her eldest brother didn't want to get married? At that time, Yu Ning promised to ask her.

So, without thinking much, Yin Qiqi directly asked, "brother Yin, I Can I ask you a question

Ning Yuming saw that Yin Qiqi suddenly showed a look of great interest, no longer a look of languid just now, he suddenly came to the spirit, and his heart was also guessing what Yin Qiqi wanted to ask him, "what question? Miss Yin can just ask. As long as I know the answer, I will know everything. "

"Really? Are you sure you know everything? " This answer surprised Yin Qiqi, but Ning Yuming was so straightforward.

”It's natural. " Ning Yuming didn't beat around the Bush, and he didn't want to hide what Yin Qiqi wanted to know.

"That's great, because you must know the answer, but I'm just being asked. "

As soon as these words came out, Ning Yuming was puzzled by Yin Qiqi's affirmative attitude and words. What's wrong with her? How can you be so sure that you can answer? And it's for other people? So Who wants to ask and what?

"Tell me, Miss Yin." This makes Ning Yuming curious.

"Well, Xiaodie was crying in my house for a long time a few days ago." Yin Qiqi thought of the embarrassment of Ning Xiaodie when she came to her a few days ago, and he could not help feeling.

"You said Did my little sister cry at your house? This Who on earth bullied her? " Hear Ning Xiaodie sad things, Ning Yuming both nervous and puzzled, is Xiaodie what happened? Why didn't he hear Xiaodie mention it?

Yin Qiqi shook his head, and then said, "it's not what happened to Xiaodie, but something happened to someone around her. She felt very worried, but there was no way, so she had to cry to me."

"Well Can miss Yin tell me why my little sister is sad? " Ning Yuming looks at Yin Qiqi, and he is already guessing what is going to embarrass Ning Xiaodie.

"Of course, it's because you are a big brother." Yin Qiqi didn't hide it, so he just said it directly. After all, Ning Yuming was not a fool. If she lied, he would certainly be able to hear it. She might as well say it directly.

"Because of me?" Ning Yuming feels very puzzled. He doesn't provoke his sister. It's too late for him to love Xiaodie. How can he make her sad?

"Yes, because I heard Xiaodie say that you, the eldest brother, have always refused to get married. You pushed the family to introduce you several good marriages. I heard that master Ning was very worried about this. Seeing you like this, Xiaodie was very sad in her heart, but she didn't know how to tell you and what she could do to solve it."

Hearing what Yin Qiqi said, Ning Yuming was silent. He didn't expect that Ning Xiaodie was still worried about it for him.

Yin Qiqi was not willing to give up like this. She continued to ask, "brother Yin, do you always refuse to get married because you want to get an official title? Are you worried that this thing will delay what you have to do?"

Hearing Yin Qiqi's voice, Ning Yuming was stunned. He just looked at Yin Qiqi silently. His eyes became more and more deep, but he didn't answer.

Yin Qiqi didn't know why Ning Yuming refused several marriages one after another, and he didn't have much impression of Ning Yuming, but he was entrusted by others, and it was not easy to ignore.So, after a struggle in her heart, Yin Qiqi still spoke out her doubts. It was not only her doubts, but Ning Xiaodie was also worried. After all, Ning Yuming had the hope of his family.

Since ancient times, the responsibilities of the men in the family are heavier than those of the women. Therefore, Ning Xiaodie's worries are not unreasonable. For Ning Yuming, the most important thing he should do now is to get married and have children earlier.

It seemed that after hesitating for a long time, Ning Yuming stared at Yin Qiqi and said slowly, "Miss Yin thinks Should men start a family as soon as possible? "

Maybe Yin Qiqi's problem was too sensitive, and the blush on Ning Yuming's face was scattered. Even his head, which had a headache due to drinking, was instantly sober.

Hearing this question, Yin Qiqi could not help frowning. She was a woman in the new era of the 21st century. In fact, when she got married and had children was not so important to her. After all, she pursued late marriage in modern times, but this was in ancient times. What "a hundred good and filial piety first" and "no later is the most important" fully illustrated the importance of getting married and having children in ancient times There is no view of late marriage and late childbearing.

"I I guess elder brother Ning thinks that love is too fettered, so he doesn't want to waste his time on it. However, I don't mean to oppose elder brother Ning's idea. Instead, I think it's a big deal to get an official title. It's OK to start a career first and then start a family. But if you want to get an official title, I think elder brother Ning would better explain it to his family, otherwise Master Ning and Xiaodie are worried about you for nothing

This time, Ning Yuming seemed speechless. He looked at Yin Qiyi's serious face, as if he was still speaking the truth. He could not help but swallow his saliva. At the same time, his throat was tight. She She didn't know he was happy with her

"Well What does Miss Yin mean is that a man should get an official title first? " In the end, Ning Yuming almost did not dare to see Yin Qiqi again, for fear that Yin Qiqi would see something in his eyes.

Yin Qiqi also felt that there was something strange, but he couldn't tell what it was. He simply didn't think about it so much, and said with a half joking smile, "that's natural. Since ancient times, reading books is not all for the sake of gaining fame? As the saying goes, "everything is inferior, only study is high". I think that if elder brother Ning really wants to get an official title, master Ning and Xiaodie will be able to understand. After all, this man goes higher and the water flows lower. If he breaks away from the identity of the common people, he may make your life better. "

The imperial examination is the only chance for poor people to realize their life changes. Many people only get a scholar's title in their life, but they don't give up.

Ning Yuming is young now, and his potential is immeasurable. Although Ning's family is rich now, he is a scholar in ancient times. He is a businessman. If he can become famous in the future, it will be a good thing for him to get married and have children, and he will be able to honor his ancestors.

Just, if this matter Ning Yuming has been suffocating in the heart, I'm afraid that master Ning and Ning Xiaodie will only worry more and more.

Yin Qiqi said so much, in fact, just hope Ning Yuming can understand his intention, his heart is good to get fame, but also pay attention to the communication with his family, mutual understanding is the most important.

However, she also came up with a problem: in ancient times, women had a low status. Even if they wanted to study, their family would think that reading was useless. After all Nuwa'er is going to get married in the future. She can teach her husband and children and do housework. What can she do with so many words? You can't eat it, you can't spend it.

In ancient times, schooling was different from that in the 21st century. At that time, the society was still male dominated, and women could not take part in the imperial examination or join the army.

In terms of ethics, the social class is very strict since ancient times, which is a serious problem for women.

Although there were "female son-in-law" and "Hua Mulan" in ancient times, it was also against the common sense at that time. Men could be officials when they read, but women could not be officials when they read.

Ning Yuming looked at Yin Qiqi thoughtfully. He always thought that Yin Qiqi was very elegant, not as vulgar as other women, and not as boring as the ladies. He seemed to have some knowledge, but he knew very well what the conditions of her family were. How could the poor family send her a girl to study, but

In any case, he felt that Yin Qiqi's words were very convincing, which made people want to be convinced that men should go and get fame. These words were deeply engraved in Ning Yuming's heart, just like a brand.

"In this way, Ning understood. Thank you for your advice!" Ning Yuming is still very happy in his heart. In this case, let's first get an official title and then talk about the love between children and women. When he is successful, let's talk about his own thoughts.