Tang Xiaonan felt even worse, and thought of a word - Phoenix man.
She wrote down this word in her notebook and explained it in detail. It refers to a man from a poor family who can change his life through a white and rich girl and save at least 30 years of struggle.
However, there are two types of phoenix men. One is conscientious. After marrying a white and rich girl, at least he is loyal to the marriage, considerate to his wife, and has the ability. Such a phoenix man has merits. It doesn't matter.
But there is another type of phoenix man who cannot be married even if killed. Tang Xiaonan felt that it would be more appropriate to call him a blood-sucking worm rather than a phoenix man.
After such a man married Bai Fumei's wife, not only would he not be grateful to his wife, but he also took it for granted. He would even bring a bunch of blood-sucking worms into the door and drain his wife's flesh before giving up.
Tang Xiaonan was worried that her cousin would meet a blood-sucking man, so she endured listening to Chai Yuxiang describe the man in detail.
"Xiaowei's father died when he was three or four years old. His mother brought it up and never got married. Xiaowei also strived to be good, and he was among the best in his studies since he was a child."
"Then why didn't you get admitted to a key university?" Tang Xiaonan couldn't help interrupting.
Since it is so excellent, why should it be the next FD University?
Just like Gu Zhiyan, she is a true scholar.
Chai Yuxiang sneered, "Listen to me, Xiaowei's grades in elementary and junior high school were very good, but when he reached high school, he declined. His mother was not in good health at that time, and Xiaowei had to go to school and do farm work at home. , I couldn’t eat well, my nutrition couldn’t keep up, my grades declined, and I didn’t get into the ideal university.”
She added: "But Xiaowei works very hard. He gets a scholarship every semester. He also uses his spare time as a tutor and does odd jobs. He earns the tuition and living expenses himself. Excellent, right?"
"It's not bad to hear you say that, but I have to see myself. Where is his hometown?"
Chai Yuxiang said a place name, but Tang Xiaonan had never heard of it.
"It's a small county, from the Jiangxi province, and Xiaowei's family is from the countryside."
"It's Cheng Xiaowei, right? Which Cheng?" Tang Xiaonan asked.
"The course of the course."
"Has he gone home for the New Year?"
"No, Xiaowei stayed in Haicheng to work, he hasn't come home for the New Year for several years Chai Yuxiang's tone is distressed, and Tang Xiaonan's egg hurts.
Her cousin was trapped, and hoped that this man named Cheng Xiaowei was not a blood-sucking worm.
But a son who is brought up by a widowed mother and whose family is so poor, she is really not optimistic.
It's not that she has prejudice against widowed mothers. In the case of Cheng Xiaowei's mother and son, his mother's dependence and desire to control her son is very likely to be relatively strong, because his mother's life focus is on her son, and everything is for her son. When a daughter-in-law appears, in Cheng's eyes, she will feel that the daughter-in-law is here to rob her son.
This situation does not only exist with widowed mothers and mothers. Ten mothers-in-law, nine and daughters-in-law are not good friends. The best way is to live separately so that they can live in peace.
But Cheng Xiaowei couldn't leave his widowed mother alone, so if he married Chai Yuxiang, he would probably want his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to live together after marriage, and their teeth and tongue would fight.
Tang Xiaonan is really not optimistic about her cousin's love life.
"Cousin, arrange a meeting with Cheng Xiaowei after the new year, and I will help you see how others are doing." Tang Xiaonan said.