Tang Xiaonan almost uttered the three words "Old White Lotus", and quickly swallowed it. The term "white lotus" is not popular at this time, and no one understands it. It sounds like Xiaotian's mother-in-law is indeed enough to respond.
"Actually, the best way to deal with your mother-in-law is to pretend to be pitiful than she is. She cries and you cry. She pretends to be sick and you pretend to be sicker than she is. Let your husband worry."
Tang Xiaonan gave Xiaotian's mother an idea, this is the way to take Bailian, so that Bailian has nowhere to go.
"Mr. Huo is right, it's useless to be **** your mother-in-law, it will only affect the relationship between your husband and wife, push your husband to your mother-in-law's side, you have to fight for your husband, and if you don't want a divorce, you can only fight over it. Let your husband deal with your mother-in-law." Qiqi's mother said.
"But I can't cry. I'm such a strong woman of steel that I haven't cried for many years." Xiaotian's mother resisted.
She also had tears when she was in elementary school, and stopped crying after she entered junior high school, because she knew that crying couldn't solve the problem, she could only become stronger herself so that she wouldn't be bullied.
"You're stupid, onion and ginger, you can do anything, just because you don't usually cry, suddenly crying is more rare, and more touching, your husband will think, how abominable his mother is, to actually call Iron Superwoman The daughter-in-law has forced her to become Sister Lin." Tang Xiaonan said with a smile.
Everyone burst into laughter. The atmosphere that was still a little heavy at first was relieved all of a sudden. Xiaotian's mother was also amused and thoughtful.
Maybe she should change her method. During this time, she also noticed that there was a problem between the husband and wife. The reason was the old woman. She refused to give in to the old woman, and her husband was unhappy. Take care of her.
"Does this really work?" Xiaotian's mother was uncertain.
"It will definitely work. If you still want to save the relationship between husband and wife, you have to use this method. People like your mother-in-law can only use soft knives. , your husband and wife are really going to have a problem." Tang Xiaonan said firmly.
Getting along between husband and wife is also a knowledge, only feelings and sincerity are not enough, but also wisdom and tolerance.
Xiaotian's mother is too hard-tempered, and she would rather be bent than bent, which can easily lead to conflicts. She has seen Xiaotian's father, who is also a character who would rather be bent than bent.
There must be one party to soften first. Xiaotian's father was provoked by his mother, and he will definitely not accept it. Then, Xiaotian's mother can only be softened first, and then do some tricks, and the problem will be solved easily.
Tang Xiaonan was interested and taught on the spot, "You have to learn to be weak, your husband is strong and strong, just like steel, if you are like steel and slammed into each other, either you will break or he will die, you have to be surrounded like water. Live him, let him go nowhere, and listen to your words."
Xiaotian's mother was fascinated and a little shy, "I...what should I do?"
"Being coquettish, pretending to be weak, you have to learn these two things."
Seeing that Xiaotian's mother was a little disdainful, Tang Xiaonan said: "Do you think that weak women are useless? Coquette women are all incompetent? Let me give you the most representative example. Wu Zetian always knows, she Is she the most successful strong woman?"
Xiaotian's mother nodded, it is true, there is no one in the past and present, and there is no one in the past.