A person's life is usually accumulated by countless choices, because it exists everywhere and exists all the time.
Whether it is big right or wrong, love and hate, or love and hate, or eating and dressing these trivial things, in fact, is a different choice in life.
As long as a person can make a choice, whether good or bad, right or wrong, he is a warrior to overcome himself, because living is the greatest success.
So it's hard to choose, but it's also easy.
But if she didn't make a choice for two minutes, it seems that she didn't make a choice
Are you playing dirty?
In Shangguan Qingmeng's opinion, Yin hanruo is actually the most standard and true answer.
Just like the papers in the examination room, not all the multiple-choice questions are single-choice questions. In some questions, in fact, all the single-choice questions are wrong.
Life is the same, because the seven emotions and six desires will never be a single existence.
But what if the answer is true?
Shangguan Qingmeng can be recognized, but she can't let Yin hanruo accept this answer, because life is also a single existence for this time. Sometimes, the authorities must be confused and make a mistake to the end.
She pondered for a moment and then asked, "tell me the truth, do you still love Lu Tianhao?"
This problem can't be described with cruelty, but it's domineering and sharp. She cuts open all the defenses set by Yin hanruo and takes his heart directly.
This time, Yin hanruo's choice was very difficult. All her struggles and pains were written on her face. Until a certain moment, as if the pain was numb, she was confused and said, "I don't know."
Shangguan Qingmeng seemed to have known the answer for a long time, and immediately asked, "do you love Liu Yanbo?"
"No love." Yin hanruo blurted out without even thinking about it, but she immediately added: "but I don't hate him, but I always want to be angry with him."
Don't love or hate. It's a stranger.
So how to define Yin hanruo's attitude towards Liu Yanbo?
Shangguan Qingmeng has seen Yin hanruo's intention clearly. What she has to do now is to let Yin hanruo see his own mind.
"Little girl, let me help you out." Shangguan Qingmeng tried his best to say in a relaxed tone: "you say you don't know if you still love Lu Tianhao. In fact, it shows that you no longer love him. The reason why you are confused is not that you don't want to admit it, but that he has satisfied your fantasy of beauty. The fantasy is not nostalgia but expectation. You are looking forward to all kinds of grievances and unwillingness that you have suffered in the past to become the sweetness of all tastes of life. You also hope that the estrangement and cracks left by time are a landscape to decorate life instead of swallowing the abyss of the past. But you have to know, bitter is bitter, sweet is sweet, sour, sweet, bitter and spicy mixed together is not wonderful, because they have lost their self
"Ni Zi, you can have expectations and fantasies in life, because life is not just about passing by, but don't let them become the whole of your life, and don't let them become the meaning of your life, OK?"
Shangguan Qingmeng is not a wise man. Her disorderly statement is not because she understands it. She just conveys what she sees.
All love has always been like this, you think it just seems disorderly, no sign, in fact, it is so disorderly, no sign, only people in it will understand, also can cut off all the interlaced source.
Yin hanruo turned over and buried his head in the quilt. He didn't want to talk.
Sometimes, it is more difficult to let people admit that they understand than to let her choose.
Shangguan Qingmeng is like a gentle big sister. She caresses Yin hanruo's hair and says softly: "in fact, you know very well that no matter whether you love or not, you and Lu Tianhao can't go back to the past and can't come back again. Let's not say whether the Lu family will stop him, just say Lu Tianhao himself, no matter whether he comes back to you with true or false feelings He actually gave you the answer four years ago. So even if you love it again, it's just an extension of the answer, and it's going to be very short and short, like the afterglow of death. "
"This is the opposite of expectation and fantasy, reality."
What is the reality?
Reality is life, that is, yesterday, today and tomorrow. In front of it, even time will deteriorate. What can a lost love take to resist it?
Only when we have a clear understanding of the reality, will there be poetry and distance in life.
Yin hanruo suddenly raised her head and supported her chin with her hand. There was no struggle in her face, nor was she numb. She said, "Qingmeng, what do you think Liu Yanbo is to me?"
Shangguan Qingmeng scraped Yin hanruo's Yao nose and joked, "can you be more reserved? Your cheap husband is not here now. What do you pretend to be cute?"
"You hate it." Yin hanruo looks red. "I said, I don't love him.""Well, I know you don't love him. You don't have to emphasize it all the time." Shangguan Qingmeng smiles. She knows that Yin hanruo is not insincere, but it is also worth being happy. "Because you don't love him, he is your reality."
"What do you mean?" Yin hanruo asked foolishly.
Shangguan Qingmeng looked disgusted and said in disbelief: "do you really don't understand, or do you pretend to be confused with understanding?"
"I don't understand." Yin hanruo shook his head with certainty.
"Your EQ is really in arrears." Shangguan Qingmeng shows the expression that he was defeated by you, and then he gently pokes Yin hanruo's forehead with a finger. "Today you feel aggrieved by the past, but you know that people can't go back to the past, so you can't slap Lu Tianhao who came from the past. You have to put all your anger on Liu Yanbo, because you know, no one but Liu Yanbo has the responsibility to take your slap and pay for your past. This is your reality."
"What's more, there was a sense of distance in the past, but there is no now. Without a sense of distance, there is no space, and there is no room for expectation and fantasy. You will find that people are not perfect. And he just disappoints you today. You will feel that what he gives you will never compare with what you have lost and what you have never owned. Therefore, you think Liu Yanbo should fight him, and you really hit him without hesitation. This is also your reality. "
Yin hanruo still did not understand, and asked, "what does it have to do with whether I love him or not?"
"If you love him, are you willing to beat him?" Shangguan Qingmeng asked, "is this not realistic enough?"
"Oh ~"
Yin hanruo nodded his head.
"You silly girl, it's a waste of saliva to tell you this profound knowledge." Shangguan Qingmeng reaches out his hand and takes out his mobile phone from Yin hanruo and throws it on the bed. "Be direct. If you want to get a divorce, you can get a marriage certificate. If you don't get a divorce, you can call to get your man back."
Shangguan Qingmeng's words are strong and confident, because she knows that this time, Yin hanruo's choice will be in line with her mind.
Sure enough -
I saw Yin hanruo slowly pick up his mobile phone, but he did not dial the phone.
"I really can't stand it." Shangguan Qingmeng rose decisively and decided to add fire. "If you like to fight or not, I'll go back."
"Qingmeng ~" Yin hanruo dragged a long voice, which seemed to be very aggrieved.
"My eldest lady, my boss Yin, what do you want?" Shangguan Qingmeng is going crazy.
"I..." Yin hanruo hesitated and couldn't say what he wanted to say for a long time.
Shangguan Qingmeng second understand, not from funny way: "you are afraid to call the past, he still refused to come back?"
"Um..." Yin hanruo's voice is as low as a mosquito.
"Then go and find him face to face." Shangguan Qingmeng said in a loud voice: "it's natural for a wife to find her husband. Besides, you can't get rid of your man's advice? "
Chuchi ~
Yin hanruo laughed, and the smile was brilliant.
Sometimes, it only takes a few words to open one's heart knot, and it doesn't take a long time to get out of the past. It just needs to meet the right person in the right time, and everything will pass in a smile.
Because I just met you. That's the beauty of reality.
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