"In fact, the skills of this circle are not complicated, but the people in the circle complicate it. In other words, the people in the circle are complicated," Li Wenlong said with emotion after putting down his pen in his hand. At this moment, he seems to have become a circle veteran again, a new generation rookie in the education room.
"Now some people no longer put their main experience on their work and on the welfare of the common people. Instead, they try every possible means to approach and compliment the boss. By approaching and complimenting the boss, they try their best to act cute in front of the boss, so as to get the boss's favor and make the boss remember himself Li Wenlong pointed to the water cup in front of him to inspect the observation power of the lily. Fortunately, he didn't let him down, so he couldn't stop picking up the water cup to fill him with water.
"In the past, this phenomenon was generally recognized as abnormal." sipping a sip of water, Li Wenlong then said, "but now it's different. Now, this phenomenon has changed from abnormal to normal. If you are down-to-earth, it will become another kind in the circle. Let alone the boss does not appreciate you, even the colleagues around you look down on you You should know that this upper mode has been unanimously recognized by all, and has formed an invisible chain that connects all people together from top to bottom. Has the final say has the final say of
cadres? It is not the masses who have the final say, but has the final say of the bosses with certain powers, especially those who occupy the positions of various units. The saying goes that the new official takes up three fires, and those fires are the original boss's work mentality and decisions. One of the important problems is the employment problem. If the new does not negate and eliminate the old, how can it reflect the new? After all, the old is old, and the new is new. In the past, the old ones were more powerful than the new ones. Now it is just the opposite. The new ones are more powerful than the old ones. It's an indisputable rule of the game.
"I work hard under the boss of my superiors." This is absolutely not a formula. It is both the principle of organization and the specific procedure of submission.
Only with capable personnel can we open up the work situation, have political achievements, have a foothold, and have more opportunities for improvement. Many years of experience has proved that in a society where human relations are rampant, it is impossible for a boss to have a few people, especially capable people, and few capable generals, so that they can not support a whole world.
As a superior, it is relatively easy to make friends with subordinates. First, they should show more care and more support and protection in their work; second, they should use their own confidants to make friends and draw them into the circle; third, they should be courteous and virtuous. If you have more subordinates, your work will be easier and you will make more contributions to yourself. And these people are familiar with the rules of the circle game, and the risk is relatively small.
Therefore, this has formed a mutually beneficial chain relationship. You seek political achievements for me, and I work for your welfare. In this mutual support, everyone takes what he needs.
Haven't you heard that there's a sentence now? No matter how good the work is, it's better to say hello to the boss. What does that mean? It shows that one's ability is not limited to work, but according to the boss's preference. The boss says that even if it is not good, it is good.
nowadays, some people always like to connect their work with their personal feelings, and their main thoughts are not on their work, but on how to handle the boss's private affairs. For some subordinates, their daily work is good It's no longer your own job, but how to deal with the boss's personal affairs. Now there is a popular saying that it's hard to be criticized for business affairs and kicked for private affairs.
If you are criticized or kicked, most of you will choose the former. What is criticizing one by one? What's more, if the boss criticizes you, he thinks that you are your own person. If you are not your own person, he will not criticize you. However, if you are kicked, it will be a complete end.
You said, in such a situation, who would like to risk being kicked and just deal with the daily clutter? However, those who are self-motivated use these time to figure out the boss's preferences and inquire about the boss's private affairs. Only by doing these two things well can they have the hope of promotion.
A good personal relationship between the subordinates and the superiors is basically equivalent to a good working relationship. Because our national conditions lie here, many big decisions are made not in the conference room, but in the dining card game. This forces you to do everything possible to take the lower level line, or the rear line, as long as these lines are followed That's almost half the success. "
Speaking of this, Li Wenlong is also a burst of emotion, thinking more about his ability to turn the tide, the bad habit suddenly uprooted, but he is not that ability, do not say himself, even in the high position of Lin Wanjiang is afraid to have this strength!
"Brother Wenlong, I've heard a saying that if you can't find the boss's office today, you can't find your own office tomorrow. What does that mean?" This time the room lily is really a rookie, for some things in the circle know little.
"Ha ha, the meaning of this sentence is to let you often report to the boss, whether it is your own job or some of your own ideas, that is, often let the boss see you, can remember you, and also can understand some private affairs of the boss in this way," Li said, remembering a joke that the father of a boss who was a farmer came to visit him The son who is in a high position, but the boss has a party at noon, and he can't eat with his father, but he is afraid that his father will be angry. So he called the Secretary to his side and asked him to treat his father on his behalf. However, this secretary belongs to the kind of person who is not very smart in the boss's private life, just because he is more handy in his work and is also a senior manager's relative That's why I stay with the boss.After receiving such a task, the Secretary asked the big boss carefully: "boss, what's the relationship? How do I call this then?"
For the people around him, the boss is angry and loving, angry is the things in life, he cares too little, loves the person is really talented, now listen to his question, want to tease him, "I have a special relationship with him!"
Special relationship!
Secretary still did not understand ah: "boss, how special law?"
The boss also wants to be humorous in the end: "I won't say much about the details. Anyway, his grandson is actually my son."
In fact, sometimes the secretary is not the same as the Secretary, but at this time, the light is shining. His grandson is actually his son, that is to say, he and his daughter-in-law are good! Love is the father-in-law of the boss's second wife. This thing should be treated well.
The Secretary immediately transferred a car from the logistics department to accompany him in person. He also said to the hotel that this was the boss's guest and must be served well.
The boss's guest came, and the Secretary accompanied him in person. How could it be a joke? The hotel didn't dare to neglect it at the moment. The delicious food was served on the table, and the best waiter was called to serve in person.
In such an environment, the old man soon lost his way. After three cups of wine, he couldn't keep his mouth shut: "do you know what I have to do with your boss?"
"Know, know," the Secretary repeatedly answered.
"What's the relationship between us?" the old man sipped his wine
"This..." The Secretary faltered and didn't know what to say.
"What are you afraid of?" the old man put a prawn into his mouth.
"It's said that the relationship between the boss and your daughter-in-law is good." the Secretary thought that he might as well take a turn. The old man knew that his daughter-in-law was good with others, which might mean that he was angry. However, if he knew that his grandson was the seed of others, he would be angry.
"Ha ha, you only know that he has a good relationship with my daughter-in-law, but don't you know that I have a better relationship with his mother? Every night, we all sleep on the same Kang. "The old man laughed and poured the wine into his mouth.
Hearing this, the secretary was scared and got up to call all the waiters out of the door.
"I tell you, no one is allowed to tell me what I have just heard, or I will not spare you!" Call a few waiters out of the door, the boss secretary just said.
"Ha ha ha, it seems that it is very important for the boss to do a good job in personal relations." Fang Baihe laughed after Li Wenlong finished.
"Yes, I'm afraid that I will encounter embarrassing things in this life." Li Wenlong nodded. "However, there is another point that is very important, that is, don't let your own personal relationship with the boss be good, and you can just say anything in front of the boss, but even vent some anger in your heart. If that is the case, you will be totally wrong, and the boss needs to It's the subordinates who are honest and obedient, rather than those who complain in front of them, especially those who don't like the kind of subordinates who can't keep their mouths shut. They can't tell which words will cause the boss's dissatisfaction and will directly "seal" your mouth. "
"My God, I've always wanted to be a civil servant before. Now it seems that it's better to be comfortable at the front desk of a county hotel. At least, I don't have to pay attention to the boss's rain and sunshine watch all the time. I don't have to worry about which words are not suitable for the boss and will be picked up." Fang Baihe spat out her tongue.
"I can't say that. Why are so many people scrambling to take the civil service examination? What's more, I heard that there was a rich man who took the civil service examination in the event exposed a while ago. Why? It is because in the eyes of some people, this civil servant is a stable group and a group with "superior" status. Every year, so many people compete for the national examination. To say that they are all aiming at the purpose of serving the people, not to mention you and I don't believe it. I'm afraid it's ghosts who don't believe it. Isn't it for the welfare and social status of civil servants?
I remember a time when my comrades in arms got together. When we chatted, we inadvertently talked about what unit they were working in. Those who had entered the public security inspection and law department system by virtue of certain relationships and opportunities were quite arrogant. Those who entered the industrial and commercial tax bureau were full of arrogance. Even if the monthly salary was only one hundred yuan, they were full of bullshit A lot of words, and drinking and smoking are still high-end goods. Although those who want to do business have a lot of wealth, they have little words and act in a very low-key way. I once asked a comrade in arms who has a good personal relationship and is engaged in real estate business in his family. Why is the problem so lonely and low-key? What do you think he said?
He said that he always felt inferior to others. There were too many departments to deal with, such as real estate business. Land planning, construction and housing management were indispensable. Every place he went, he had to be a grandson and ask his grandfather everywhere. If the procedures were complete, he would delay you for a period of time. If the procedures were not complete, you would be in trouble It must be delayed. The key is that you don't look well. Even if it's just a small clerk, people can yell at you. What can you do with your money? Can't really like the angry words said, take money to hit each other?
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