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A man has a low requirement for his wife, that is, he can be strict with his wife at home, and he can be kneeling at the head of the bed (cabinet), but in front of outsiders, his wife should show respect for him. All men have this kind of face saving vanity. The reason is simple: if a man is known to be unable to hold his head up at home, he is only qualified to be a slave outside. Men often frown and have a headache when dealing with the roaring women, but for the sake of face and getting rid of embarrassment, men will say, "good men don't fight with women, men don't see women in the same way." Men often lose things, but for the sake of face, they are not ridiculed as "muddleheaded". Instead, he will say, "it doesn't matter. The old ones don't go and the new ones don't come."

There are many timid men, but these timid men are different when they are in love. In order to save face, they will sacrifice their lives. No wonder people often say, "men are the bravest when they are in love." There is no lack of stingy men, but these mean men will appear "grand" for the sake of face when shopping. They seldom bargain, and they don't care about spending money wrongly. No wonder people often say: "men are the most generous when shopping." Men love face. When they are tired, they should be very relaxed. When they are weak, they should be strong. When they are hard to protect themselves, they should also show that they can protect others. When they are helpless, they should also show endless useful methods. Men love face, they dare not be ecstatic when they succeed, they dare not sigh when they fail, they dare not cry when they are sad, they dare not ask for help when they are at a loss

Therefore, as a woman, we must take this into full consideration. When considering a man's face, we should not say sympathy, but take care of it. A man should not only take care of his own face, but also his family. The society also has the fixed pattern, certainly also takes into account the man's face.

"Wear it. You've bought it." Li Wenlong put the receipt into Lin Xuemei's hand. "Take it away. If there's anything inappropriate, you can come and find her"

"how can you..." Lin Xuemei looks at the waiter behind her. "It's too expensive"

"as long as you like it." in Lin Xuemei's ear, Li Wenlong whispers, "as long as you like, I can buy you anything expensive"

although Li Wenlong's words are deceptive, it has to be said that Lin Xuemei is still a bit drunk, because this sentence is too lethal to women Strong.

With boundless happiness, Lin Xuemei put Li Wenlong's arm on her arm, but she soon released it again. Because of her consideration of influence, she could not help it. Who could make herself a public figure at all!

The evening meeting is arranged in a secluded farmyard. Nowadays, the boss doesn't like to publicize it. Especially in this kind of wine shop, the more hidden the better.

Wine is a good wine, and the dishes are planted by the shopkeeper himself in his acre, which also caters to the current boss's taste of green and pollution-free.

"Is everything on track?" In such a private occasion, Xiao Yuanshan tried to put down his stature. However, the breath of a superior person still came out unconsciously. There was no way. People who had been in high positions for a long time were like this. Even if they wanted to hide it, they couldn't hide it.

"Thank you for your concern. Everything is OK. We'll wait for the road to be built in spring." Li Wenlong respectfully added wine to Xiao Yuanshan.

"Well, I've been thinking about you all the time. Next year's plan has your place, and it will directly solve the situation in Lanshan county." Xiao Yuanshan knows what Li Wenlong means, and he also knows his purpose. In any case, this kind of thing is to do things that are favorable to the flow, not to give away for nothing, and this is what Lin Wanjiang has explained, and he can't Xiao Yuanshan has the final say, but the boss needs to be followed by the following people. He hopes to be pursued by the following people. This is what the boss will give you. He will do it for you. But when he does it, he can do it. He has done it for three days and five days. He is also doing it for a year and a half. He, you can't go to the superior boss for this time, can't you?

It is precisely because of this that Li Wenlong asked Lin Xuemei to take herself to find a Xiao Yuanshan alone, so as to make the other party think about his own affairs, so that the other party can allocate his own money as soon as possible.

"You haven't done what I told you last time, have you?" With Lin Xuemei in, Xiao Yuanshan wants to sell a lot of people.

"Well, that I I have failed you. "Li Wenlong bowed his head in shame. That time, Xiao Yuanshan gave himself an excellent idea, but he failed to grasp it. This is really a bit of a pity for others.

"The past is over. It can be done at the beginning of the next spring, but the effect may not be so obvious. I will arrange a deputy boss to go with you, and you will..." Xiao Yuanshan can be said to be a man to be a family this time. He told Li Wenlong many details in detail. For a man who worked in the national Ministry of Commerce, the Tao in it is clear. However, Xiao Yuanshan will never reveal everything completely. After all, he has to leave some backhand for himself. If the people below can put all of them quickly When everything is done, what else should he do? Isn't he a dispensable person? Therefore, the boss generally likes to stay behind in handling affairs. Generally, the subordinates will think of him when they feel that they can't.At present, Xiao Yuanshan is also like this. Although he has told Li Wenlong all the steps and precautions, he still retains some things that only he can do.

During the dinner, Xiao Yuanshan tried hard to communicate with Lin Xuemei, but Lin Xuemei was always a simple response. Everything would not be too deep, and he would always lead the words to Li Wenlong, which made Xiao Yuanshan depressed and helpless at the same time. He had no choice but to meet Li Wenlong's requirements as much as possible, and finally he wanted to solve some problems His own things hopeless, Xiao Yuanshan let his mobile phone ring, after receiving the call, Xiao Yuanshan got up and left.

"Eat something, just now you only care about drinking," said Lin Xuemei lovingly to Li Wenlong after Xiao Yuanshan left.

"I can't help it. It's like this on the table. The boss eats the vegetables and the subordinates drink," Li said sarcastically. "That's a good saying. You can drink half a kilogram and eight taels. This kind of staff should be trained to drink eight Liang and half a kilogram. This kind of staff should be conscientious and can drink liquor and beer. This staff member should be transferred and can drink beer and drink, This staff member can't drink and has no future. He drinks nine Liang and focuses on training. He only drinks drinks and the boss doesn't want to drink. If he can drink, he is the Secretary of the boss. If he drinks, he can't guarantee his official position. If he drinks too little, it's hard to find talents. If he runs half way, he's still early to be promoted. He leads the whole journey and the future boss will be a boss We can't belittle it. Having dinner with the boss is not only a meal, but also a "bureau". There is a lot of learning in what to say and what to do. If you are right in saying and doing the right thing, you may make a great progress; otherwise, you may fall into a trap and not turn over. Dining is a social way from ancient times to the present. Having a meal and chatting with others can convey the message of "not seeing the outside world" to each other. If we don't say what we should do in advance, we should eat first. In this way, we will have no sense of snobbishness. If we don't drink first, we will not lose face. But in the face of different groups of people, what to say and what to do at dinner is also particular. Especially when the boss is involved in the dinner party, you should be extra energetic. After all, the boss is the one who has the decision on your future and destiny.

Dinner is sometimes an important occasion for the boss to investigate the loyalty and ability of subordinates. On the wine table, ordinary people must pay attention to what they say, and be careful to run into minefields. Otherwise, it is very likely that the boss will have a bad opinion on you, and even bring trouble to personal work and development in the future.

It is said that the former boss of the supervision department spoke at the dinner party very mysterious, often with words in it. There is a young man in the office below who has no heart. He usually speaks frankly. At a new year's party, the boss invited them to dinner. During the dinner, the boss said sincerely that he could tell him what he wanted and what he wanted. Unexpectedly, before anyone else opened his mouth, the young man began to pour out bitterness. At that time, the boss didn't say anything, and he always listened with a smile, but later he suppressed the man He has the qualification of deputy general manager of the office, but he has not been able to mention it when the boss is in. A while ago, I just solved this matter. At that time, I saw the man kneeling for me. Well, to have dinner with the boss, first of all, you have to have a handle on your mouth. If you don't want to say something, you have to hold it back in your stomach. Otherwise, it will come out of your mouth. Lin Xuemei played with the cup in her hand and began to instill circle rules into Li Wenlong.

"I know that" Li Wenlong put a prawn in his mouth. "In a dinner party, we should learn to watch what we say and act according to the circumstances. If we say it well," one sentence is worth ten thousand words ". It will come and be used by the boss in the future. According to my uncle, vice president Shen Jian was like this at that time. Although he had no special background, he was highly appreciated by his boss. When we eat with the boss, others are busy drinking and eating, but his eyes are always staring at the boss's every move. The boss lit a cigarette, he would quickly hand over the ashtray, the boss wanted to toast, he quickly went to add wine. In addition, he would listen attentively when the boss made an "important speech", with a knowing smile from time to time, and a few flattering remarks at the right time. It is because of this that he can move from a real grassroots to a position at the department level. Otherwise, he may be a staff member for life. "

"Well, this is the characteristics of our country." Lin Xuemei inadvertently looked at her watch on her wrist. Li Wenlong looked at this action, and immediately accelerated the speed of eating. At present, she picked up a few mouthfuls of rice and put down her chopsticks.

"Sister Lin, let's go!" When speaking, Li Wenlong's hand has been unconsciously

"Pay attention! What occasion is this? " Lin Xuemei hit Li Wenlong.

"Hey hey, who cares about this?"

"Lie down" pressed Li Wenlong to the bed and lay flat. Lin Xuemei said gently, "relax, close your eyes."

"Where did you learn massage?" Li Wenlong asked with a smile.

"Close your eyes" Lin Xuemei reaches out and closes Li Wenlong's eyes.

Closing his eyes as he was told, Lee enjoyed the wonderful moment.

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