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If you have a good personal relationship with the boss, this kind of personal relationship should not be easily revealed. Whether it is in public or in private places, even when you are alone with the boss, if the boss does not take the lead in showing the attitude of an old friend, then you must not pretend to show off your relationship with the boss. In this way, it can only cause the boss's opposition If you use the relationship with the boss to show off in front of people, the boss will feel that you are trying to help others, and he will have an idea for you. Once you have an idea, you will be finished. Therefore, even if you have something in common with the boss, you will never think of what he is thinking If it is not at a very special time, don't take these so-called "personal relationships" out. Otherwise, in the eyes of the boss, you are taking advantage of the personal relationship between two people, and the boss is the last one who likes this kind of person. Even if you have a personal relationship with me, I may absolutely take care of you, However, you must not take the lead in proposing it. Even if it is true, I have to find a suitable reason to tell you at the right opportunity, and then let everyone remember this relationship.

Xie Qiang had a personal experience of this. When he just went to work, he once encountered such a thing. At that time, he transferred a leader. The next day, a female comrade in the unit began to grow wings and publicized the relationship with that leader. In fact, he was a distant relative, such a distant relative, if not very special It's estimated that they won't get along with each other, but we all know that even distant relatives can sometimes become close relatives. Don't you tell me? No one asks about poor people in downtown areas. Rich people have distant relatives in the mountains. As long as they are related to relatives, how can they find a way to keep up with them? Therefore, the big guy looks at this girl in a different way, especially when that one When the woman said the position of the section chief in her mind, it seemed to everyone that she was already the head of that department. Who knows, from this woman's disclosure to arrogance and then to decadence, she never saw the boss's special care for her. She was still the general employee, and she did not want to go to a certain department to be a section chief as she said In the last ordinary day, the little-known male employee suddenly jumped from the general staff to the position of section chief who had been vacant. The position was the position that the woman had been talking about. People were puzzled and went around to find out what method the man used. However, the inquiry did not find any powerful clues. In the end, it was still that position One of the leaders solved the secret by himself.

The granny of the first leader and the grandmother of the male employee are sisters. This relationship between the two is just like this. The seemingly distant relationship plays a role in such a specific moment. The male employee is also very lucky. At that time, he happened to be on the birthday of the grandmother of the first leader. As a relative sister, she was so old I hope I can go over and have a look, so the male employee has a "chance encounter" with the leader. Even if it is like this, the male employee is still respectful to the leader, and he does not call him "brother". Even in the future, he has never looked for anything. What he was like before is just a chance encounter.

With such a relationship, the leader himself felt that if he didn't do something, he would be too sorry to raise his grandmother. Therefore, the self righteous woman was not promoted, and the man who had been unknown was promoted to section chief.

Xie Qiang has always kept that in mind, so even if he later learned about Lin Wanjiang's real identity, he never asked for anything in person. Every time, Lin Wanjiang took care of it at an appropriate time. Especially when Lin Wanjiang just came to Central Plains Province, Xie Qiang did not even lean on it, but was always wandering in the marginal zone He didn't get angry because he understood Xie Qiang's mind. The reason why Xie Qiang didn't lean on was that he was waiting for the opportunity. In case Lin Wanjiang couldn't stand up, he would vote the key vote in his hand. Facts have proved that he did the right thing. It was because he didn't publicize it that Lin attached great importance to him. He always asked him to do the most important things Xie Qiang also knows that this is not only trust, but also the accumulation of capital. As long as the accumulation of capital is enough, it will naturally be smooth in the next promotion. Most importantly, there is a feature in the circle. As long as there is something to do, it can basically get benefits. This law even appears in no matter what, so we all rush to ask for it The boss of the superior adds burden to himself, so there are people who keep going to work there. As long as there is something wrong, there will be contact. If there is contact, you have to coordinate and deal with all aspects of the relationship. How to deal with the relationship?

The way of dealing with the relationship between the two dynasties is almost the same. It's nothing more than drinking and eating. If you add some weight, you'll be frank after drinking, take a bath, and take the mulberry. All of these are inseparable from the word "money". As long as you can pass the money from your own hand, which one won't fall into your own pocket? It's like a classic dialogue between a bank president and his son. The son of a president asked the president, "Dad, you can see that the money in your bank belongs to those customers and depositors. How do you earn your house, Mercedes and yachts? " The father said, "son, there is a piece of fat in the refrigerator. Bring it." Here's the son."Put it back." The son sent it back. When he came back, the son asked, "what do you mean?" The father replied, "do you think you have oil in your hands?"

If the money is too stupid, I can only say it again.

That's why some people really want to do things.

Of course, people of Xie Qiang's level will not make small profits for this. What he wants is to accumulate capital. As long as the accumulation of capital reaches a certain level, it is difficult to think whether or not to be on the top. What he wants is that level, not some illusory things.

If a boss wants to be on the top, he should be open-minded, but he should be able to bear it. It is like the story of an ancient grain transportation boss. Once, a grain transportation boss was punished due to the sinking of a grain ship. A superior boss rated the boss as "middle and lower" in the examination. When the boss learned about it, he didn't put forward any opinions or any expression of apprehension. The superior boss then thought, "the sinking of the grain ship is not his personal responsibility, nor can he save it by his own strength", so he decided to change it to "medium and medium" level. The boss still did not express his opinion. He did not say a hypocritical thank-you or a moving look. The superior boss saw that he was so appreciative that he said, "well, it's hard to be flattered or humiliated! Rare! " He immediately changed his achievements to the "middle and upper" level.

To be open-minded is to keep a normal mind. When we open the history books, we can see that some people take the gain and loss of honor and disgrace deeply in their hearts, while some people get carried away by being spoiled, and frown because they are humiliated. Only by maintaining a normal heart, can we be open to the public, and be able to live up to humiliation. It is not a passive avoidance, nor a disillusionment with the world, but a calm and calm way away from fame and wealth and noise.

To endure is to endure poverty and loneliness. "Fame" and "profit" have great attraction. The desire for fame and wealth often makes people lose their sense and get lost in their minds. Therefore, we should grasp ourselves no matter when and under what circumstances. If the boss is full of fame and wealth, greedy for money, he will relax the transformation of his world outlook, his ideology and morality will decline, his outlook on life and values will be distorted, regardless of Party discipline and national law, and will pursue fame and money by unscrupulous means. Eventually, he will be corrupted by the temptation of power, money, beauty and so on, which will lead to moral decay, deviant behavior and illegal behavior Discipline and self destruction of the future were spurned by the party and the people.

If a boss wants to be open-minded, the first problem that needs to be solved is to treat himself correctly, treat those things that seem unreasonable correctly, and treat the unreasonable as reasonable. Especially now Xie Qiang, even as a boss of this size, has to be respectful and careful in front of Lin wanjiang, and behave like grandson Many people think it is incredible, and they always feel that they can't understand this kind of behavior. However, as a real interest holder, you have to be able to bear this kind of "humiliation in front of you". You have to live in the boss's barometer. You have to take the boss as the center, take the boss as the premise, know how to advance and retreat at the right time, and know when to be brothers with the boss When you should take the boss like your ancestors, only if you can bear the humiliation of the crotch, you can be a general. Therefore, after working together for so many years, Xie Qiang takes out the identity of an old friend for the first time. Because he knows that this is the right time to do this, because Lin Wanjiang shows his personal feelings. In such a situation, if you don't know how to treat it with a working attitude, it's too shameless for the boss. If the boss can show his feelings in front of you, it's an alternative trust of the boss. If you don't take the trust of the boss seriously, then the boss will not Will take you seriously, the boss does not take you seriously, you say you have any future? Maybe you still have a chance after the boss leaves here, but you should know that opportunities are fleeting. If you can't grasp this opportunity, you will be slower than others. If you want to be superior in the circle, there will still be age restrictions. It is just like the exposure on the Internet. It says that the basic age limit of a professional is 35, the deputy is 39, and the department level is 44 If you haven't reached the required level in the corresponding age group, you'd better look for another job. Therefore, for those who want to go to the top, age is also a very important part, and the tenure of the boss is generally three to five years. In the three to five years of the boss's tenure, if you can't succeed in the top position, it is equivalent to growing three to five years old out of thin air. I believe that people in the circle know what the consequences are. Therefore, Xie Qiang does not dare to play games, he will immediately At that so-called ridge, if Lin Wanjiang's term of office can not smoothly step into the ranks of ministerial level boss, it is likely to lose this opportunity forever.

When the boss arrived at the vice ministerial level, if he could not firmly grasp the opportunity, he could only say that he had eaten rice and white flour for nothing, and Xie Qiang, of course, was not willing to make a bucket. Therefore, he would take out his old friend's identity to comfort Lin Wanjiang at such a critical moment.

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