Chapter 1622： ignorant responsibility

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The chat between Evan Bell and Jupiter temporarily came to a paragraph because of the beginning of the meal, but the two of them chatted a little from time to time. On the occasion of today's wedding, Evan Bell accidentally met Jupiter and met this girl who was unexpectedly pregnant at the age of sixteen. It must be said that it was a coincidence.

Unintended teenage pregnancies are not uncommon in the United States, and in the United States, there are various ways to deal with them. Linking pregnancy and teenage is a controversial topic from start to finish. In fact, not only in the United States, but all over the world, because of different values, it will also lead to different disputes. Controversies are nothing more than revolving around responsibility and human rights.

First of all, the first part is about teenage pregnancy itself. Why did you get pregnant unexpectedly?

Whether in the East or in the West, the shirk of responsibility is very common, but the manifestations are different. But this is especially true in Eastern cultures.

In eastern culture, when this situation occurs, people will start to condemn teenagers for being unruly, and juvenile pregnancy may even become a representative of corrupt family style, making the whole family the object of ridicule, so when this kind of situation arises , most parents will begin to shirk the responsibility of each other, blaming the other party's fault, and then this shirk behavior extends to the child, making the whole thing a focus of debate. Few parents are able to take this matter calmly and properly.

But let's take a look at the problem. This is actually a deeply rooted social problem.

Why do teenagers steal the forbidden fruit? It is precisely because it is "prohibited" that the truth is very simple. Those books, movies and works that are titled "prohibited" tend to arouse people's curiosity. In this open age of the 21st century. In fact, there are countless ways for children to learn about the so-called "mating" process, but in the campus classroom, **** education is still a topic on paper. Teachers are willing to spend an entire biology class on how pollen spreads and combines with stamens to complete plant mating, mating and reproduction. But when the page about the human body appeared in physiological hygiene, the phrase "self-study" became the best excuse for teachers to escape reality and shirk their responsibilities.

Self-taught? How to teach yourself? Looking for a classmate of the opposite **** for practical exploration? So how should the so-called contraception and the so-called accident be avoided? This is simply a vicious circle with no solution.

But when the problem arises, the parents and the society can't wait to blame the youth for their mistakes, and they can't see the place their dereliction of duty in education occupies in this incident. Teenagers are at an age where they lack self-control and self-judgment. If the guardian does not play the role of guardianship, what is the point? This social shirking of responsibility. Extending to parents, and then to teenagers, is a manifestation of the whole society's unwillingness to take responsibility. This is a loophole in the entire social culture.

The same problem exists in Western culture. Although the issue of teenage pregnancy is not taken so seriously in Western culture, it actually exists. In the so-called advanced countries such as the United States and the United Kingdom, people may not take teenage pregnancy so seriously. . But when a thirty-year-old woman with a fifteen-year-old child struggles at the bottom of society, the eyes of society are not so kind. This is actually an implicit shirk of responsibility.

Western culture's shirk of responsibility is indifference. When teenagers become pregnant unexpectedly, they will shout human rights, long live life, and then call on teenagers to give birth to children. But what about the problems after birth? But it is the cancer of the whole society. After years of accumulation, it still cannot be solved.

Teenagers refuse to give birth to children, then in Western culture, the sensitive topic of abortion will offend too many people, from religion to politics, and even in extreme situations, there has been shooting and abortion in the United States. The situation of fetal doctors and setting fire to hospitals that allow abortions; after teenagers give birth to children, but society cannot give these children a proper living environment, people watch these teenagers struggling on the line of survival struggle……

So, the situation comes to the second part, after a teen is pregnant, should the child be born? What if it was born? And this problem has a more intense collision in Western culture.

Under the influence of the definition of responsibility, family, happiness and other issues in Eastern culture, the culture of abortion and abortion has always existed, so even after the accident of the first part occurs, the solution is often based on this line "to prevent future troubles". However, in Western culture, the discussion on this issue has continued for many years, and no result has been reached.

In the West, there are people who support abortion. They believe that if an abortion is performed within 12 weeks of pregnancy, the baby has not yet become a complete life, so it does not involve the issue of strangling life. At the same time, many pregnancies in reality are not due to a member of the man and the woman, such as pregnancy by **** and unintentional pregnancy without taking preventive measures. Even if such a child is not aborted, the possibility of being abused or abandoned after birth is very high, which is not conducive to the development of society. Moreover, the illegalization of abortion itself cannot prevent abortion. It will only lead to people performing abortions through various hidden ways, which may easily lead to accidents in the health of mothers. That's the sensitive issue that Mike Lee's "Vera Drake" was about.

Opposition to abortion occupies the vast majority of Western cultures. Most of them are based on moral or religious beliefs, but they are also the most steadfast and powerful refutation, that is, unborn babies are also human beings. Life begins with conception, then the baby has human rights, abortion. Abortion is actually a kind of murder. As for the so-called rape-induced pregnancy, it is the **** and **** that should be condemned and punished, not the consequences.

Take the United States as an example. During the Bush administration, this situation was against abortion. The whole society condemned this kind of behavior, which also led to the emergence of radical behaviors against abortion in society. But in the Obama administration, in the This position tends to favor abortion. In fact, this is also a problem of political parties, and the conservative, radical stance of the entire party of Democrats and Republicans has led to this change in support.

In general, in the entire Western culture, the controversy over abortion has never stopped.

So what if the teen was unintentionally pregnant and the child was born smoothly? Is the matter resolved? Obviously not, and this is a follow-up question from the second part.

Adolescents, without any source of income, without any guarantee of life, and even the character has not been determined, the future after adulthood is unknown, and the character and personality are still in the process of forming. After having one more child, it is life for teenagers. Huge turning point.

After many teenagers give birth to their children, because their lives are reduced to the level of poverty, government funding cannot solve their living problems at all, so the probability of children being abandoned or even abused has skyrocketed. Satire.

Even if this extreme negative situation does not occur, and the teenagers successfully bring up their children, then there will be a middle-aged woman or man of 30 years old with a child of 15 years old, most of whom are in The middle and lower classes of society are struggling and can only seek a better life. The pressure that teenagers bear in the process of raising their children, as well as the huge changes in their emotional life and economic situation, will bring terrible negative effects to their children. influences. The most direct result is that the rich get richer and the poor get poorer, and this social gap will only get bigger and bigger.

Of course, in order to avoid the above situation, there are still other options, such as parents helping teenagers to raise their children, which is one. Another example is sending children to welfare institutions, or seeking adoptive families, relying on the deployment of the government to solve the problem. However, in the Western world, after years of operation, the situation has not been well resolved. First, the burden on government agencies has gradually increased; second, the adoption system is under enormous pressure, but it has never been able to ease the situation.

This situation first involves accusations that the teenagers are unwilling to take responsibility head-on and are just evading the problem; in addition, it will also involve the teenagers repenting and hoping to bring the child back; or the adoptive family is dissatisfied with the child; Or there is a problem in the inspection of the adoption system, or there are bad situations such as abuse in the adoptive family... These problems are also emerging one after another, and another problem will be formed.

All in all The situation of teenage pregnancy can easily involve a lot of problems. To be born, or not to be born; to raise, or not to raise. This may become a social problem. The moral, legal and religious issues involved have countless possibilities, and it can even be said to be more serious. This is a test of the entire social responsibility, and may also increase the burden of the entire society, etc. .

Evan Bell II is a human being, has received cultural education in the East, and understands the essence of Western culture, but he still cannot find a suitable solution to this situation. After all, this is a complex issue in which responsibility, morality and life, personality and personality are intertwined. Everyone will have their own choices, and each choice may lead to different results, and such results are often very disappointing. People are depressed.

It's hard to imagine that an accident in adolescence, or rather an attempt, could lead to social problems and possibly change one's life. This is really alarmist.

However, Evan Bell saw a completely different temperament in Jupiter just now: perhaps, the issue of teenage pregnancy can still be viewed from another angle.

March has begun, ask for a monthly pass! RQ

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