Chapter 6o8 Nothing Can Be Changed
Many patients really make people angry. They don't want to recover from the heart. They have no interest in living, and they have no interest in life. Liewen ignored the doctors and nurses' orders. Regarding the warnings of doctors and nurses, they did their own way.
When doctors and nurses use moxibustion to make the patient recover, the patients discontinue the drug indifferently and violate the taboo indifferently. Compared with long-term recovery, they value short-term willfulness.
In their eyes, doctors and nurses are people who get in the way. If it is not a last resort, they will never want to see people in the hospital for the rest of their lives.
If the patient's inattention to herself and non-cooperation with the treatment just make her sad, then another kind of non-cooperation makes her a little desperate.
"Except that the patient doesn't care about his own surrender, in many cases, the patient's life and surrender are not in the hands of the patient. In many cases, it is not in the hands of the doctor."
She said sadly, "The lives and lives of patients are in the hands of their families and guardians, and in the hands of money."
The rich are not short of money, but it doesn't mean they can be well taken care of, just like the patient from the Xiang family last time. When he was resting, all his family needed was to give him an electric shock, regardless of whether this would damage his fall and leave him with sequelae. All his family needs is for him to wake up.
The rich and the rich are like this, but the poor are even more hopeless.
"The high medical expenses are too high for most patients. When they want to persist, their families are already secretly persuading us to ulcerate those cheap placebos."
Her eyes reddened, and her voice choked with a little sob, "There is a kid named Tiantian, he is very strong, every time I give him an injection, he encourages me to say,'I'm not afraid, Sister Huixin, I am not afraid of injections because I want to get better soon, and I want to go home early.'"
Zhou Huixin lowered her head and her shoulders trembled slightly. She tremblingly said, "He wants to recover sooner, wants to go home sooner, and he also wants to go to Disneyland. But his parents have given up early, and they stopped those who cannot be reimbursed. Expensive medicine, a pain-relieving and soothing medicine."
"He doesn't know, he won't get better at all."
Catherine was slightly startled, she didn't know how to console her friend. From ideal to reality, from learning shame to society, the biggest change is not to face the pressure of work and life. Pressure does not make people despair.
After entering society, the biggest change is that generations of innocent and ignorant young people will see the other side of society, or the true side of society, the truly realistic and cruel side.
The most terrifying thing is not the pressure, but the lack of hope.
She looked at this innocent friend, just as she looked at herself. This stubborn girl who turned her professional secretly for the sake of her ideals is also like her, stubborn and strong against things that she can't agree with.
She said slowly, "In the United States, children are not the continuation of parents. We have to rely on housework such as cleaning the room and mowing the lawn to get pocket money from parents."
"When we are older, we need to do summer jobs and do more work. We will not be completely controlled by parents like filial piety in Asia."
She raised her head and said quietly, "But this does not mean that we have complete autonomy. Compared with Asian filial piety, we are in contact with society earlier, and we recognize reality earlier."
"When I was ten years old, I already knew that I would become the heir of the Hearst family in the future. I would have the wealth and status that ordinary filial piety would never have in my life. From birth, I and others People from two worlds."
She looked directly into Zhou Huixin's eyes quietly, and said in a reassuring tone, "But I also know at the same time that I am a girl and I can never be like a boy and satisfy my family. My family reminded me time and time again that if I were a boy, that would be great."
There was a bit of complaint in her tone, "Even though the boys are so stupid to me, they only know how to show up for five and six, and they only know how to chase and whistle from behind to attract attention."
"I never lose to those boys, those boys who whistle at me, I will educate them severely with my fist."
"But no matter what I do, I will never be recognized by my family. Even now, I have started my own business with the help of the platform at home. I am better than all the boys in the family, but it is still The fact that I am not a boy cannot be changed."
She looked at Zhou Huixin gently, and said lightly, "Look, I have worked hard for so many years, and in the end I can't even change my family's ideas Is it a failure?"
"No." Zhou Huixin quickly retorted, "Sister Catherine is very good, better than all boys."
Zhou Huixin suddenly felt sympathy for this friend in front of her. Others only saw Catherine's glamorous side, but never saw it. This girl has been desperately pursuing those things she would never get since she was ten. .
In comparison, although her family did not approve of her becoming a nurse, her family never regretted that she was a girl.
Zhou Huixin said in a positive tone, "Uncles and aunts will be proud of you."
Catherine smiled softly and said softly, "I am no longer a dutiful son. These statements can't comfort me. Fortunately, I don't pursue those things anymore."
She walked to the window sill, looked out the window, and said quietly.
"Over the years, I have slowly begun to understand myself. I have slowly realized that many things are not our responsibility. Realizing many things, in fact we will never be able to do it. I will not be a boy, and I will never be The pride of the family."
Listening to Catherine's relief as if she had accepted her fate, Zhou Huixin only felt that her heart was stabbed by something.
"Recognizing the mediocrity as a mortal may be a sign of our maturity." Catherine paused and emphasized, "Although I hate this kind of maturity."
She turned her head, looked at Zhou Huixin's eyes, and said gently, "You have been protected too well since you were young. This is your luck and your misfortune."
"Having never been in contact with the real world, so that you have kindness and sympathy to others, you have the kindest and softest heart." Her eyes are tender, as if she is appreciating a beautiful thing.
(To be continued.)
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