George said calmly, "Fear of church people tolerate, angry church people to resist, disgusting church people to stay away from danger. All negative emotions are ultimately to protect themselves."
He emphasized, "Negative emotions are not bad. Negative emotions are using the most intense reaction to remind you. The other party is your enemy, and the other party threatens your safety. This can keep you away from danger."
"It turns out that negative emotions still have so many functions."
Some students later realized that they began to react, "I used to think that it was wrong to be angry and angry. I would hate myself because of my bad temper. It turned out not to be the case."
"Hahahaha!"
George laughed and said, "I tell you that negative emotions are useful, but not to make excuses for your bad temper. If you have a bad temper, then you really have a bad temper. Negative emotions are useful, and it doesn't mean you can do whatever you want. Vent it out."
The students immediately laughed embarrassedly.
George gave an example, "If you are angry with the teacher, go to quarrel with the teacher. If you are locked up by them, there will be no sympathy. The teacher's anger is not right, but in the end you lose. Or yourself."
The students immediately laughed, "We won't be so stupid. When the teacher is angry, when the parents are angry, we will also pretend. Wizards know by nature that strong magic is the last word."
Listening to the students' answers, George also laughed. Children are not stupid at all, they are powerless to fight the world, but they know how to hide emotions, they know how to imitate and pretend.
He said slowly, “Always protect yourself first. This is a very important rule of survival. Don’t irritate the other party when they can’t control their emotions. People who can’t control their emotions will turn their state into alertness. They will use war thinking to think about what other people say and do."
"When you are facing an angry person, don't emphasize right and wrong to them, don't emphasize right and wrong to them." George said solemnly, "right and wrong, right and wrong, at this time, you can't protect your ass. ."
The students all showed their contemptuous cunning. This is how minors survive.
Seeing the students go on the way, George said with satisfaction, "It seems that you are all very cunning. I don't have to worry about these aspects. You should be reasonable when you should be reasonable, and when you should use a spell, use a spell. If If you can't beat it, then be honest and obedient."
In George's view, in conflict, protecting yourself is always the most important thing.
A person who can communicate normally will naturally find his own mistakes after being angry. After the anger subsides, they can naturally remind each other calmly and reason with each other.
Just like the contradiction between Ron's family during summer vacation. The Weasleys insisted on joining the Order of the Phoenix, so they had trouble with Percy.
When the two parties are in anger, the more they emphasize their own right and the other's mistakes, it will only lead to more conflicts.
When they are separated for a period of time and can calm down with each other, they will naturally understand their mistakes. At this time, both sides know how to apologize to each other, can understand each other's thoughts, and soon get back together.
If they don't protect themselves first, but they must separate life and death, you are right and me wrong. In the end, it may become the Batty Crouch family. Although the old Batty is always right, the young Batty is always wrong. But in the end, who would benefit from such an outcome?
George emphasized, "So, negative emotions are a state of alert and war. They are not wrong, let alone wrong, but you need to use them during alert and war."
"But," the students began to wonder again, "how to stay awake in negative emotions?"
"It's not easy," George said lightly. "When you are no longer rejecting negative emotions, when you can face and understand your own negative emotions, you can begin to understand your own emotions gradually."
He said slowly, "You need to develop a habit. Always think about your emotions in the way of solving problems. When you are angry and angry, you are not thinking about simply venting, but about solving the problem thoroughly. , This is a way of thinking that requires training."
George gave an example, "When you are angry because of a friend's behavior, you need to consider how to solve the problem. When you focus on the problem, the anger still exists, but it will not be messy. Explode, you will not hurt yourself and others at will."
"When you think of a way, you can warn the other person about the things you can't accept, and let the other person understand your anger at this time Seeing the classmates seemingly understanding, George continued to explain "When you face the enemy, when you focus on the problem. "
"At this time, anger still exists, but your brain is more about how to knock down the opponent, rather than blindly vent your emotions. Only at this time, you can better master the black magic."
Seeing his classmates were silent, thoughtful, or confused, George couldn't help but sigh. The confrontation of human beings with their own negative emotions is a life-long battle.
All the advantages are accompanied by disadvantages. All the advantages also carry the burden that comes with it.
Human beings, as intelligent creatures, have long memories, can summarize lessons and think about the future. This helped humans become the most powerful species on earth. But thinking about the future requires mankind to make a reasonable explanation for the actual environment.
Human beings need to explain and rationalize the environment in which they live. Otherwise, human beings simply cannot accept a completely disordered world.
Animals have very short memories. They don't need to think about when they will die or their future. Animals rest when they are full, because they have no future, no past.
But human memory is very long. Humans need to know whether they are safe now, and whether what they are doing can bring gains.
It is precisely because mankind has a summary of the past and a concern for the future. Only humans can carry out activities other than biological instincts, humans can invent and create, and humans can produce civilization.
George is very concerned about the unreasonable environment and education, and that's why.
The unreasonable environment and education will distort people's body and mind and educate more spoilers.
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