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She is so herself that Li Yan is not easy to answer. She can only smile awkwardly.

Mu Chi Yao and Yan Anxi It's true that it's not right to be a door-to-door person.

Yan Anxi then said: "he is the master of the Mu family, one out of ten thousand, incomparably excellent. And me? Compared with the Mu family, the Yan family is not worth mentioning at all. "

“…… Well, these four words will not go out of fashion if they are put everywhere, in any era, in any family or in any love. "

Li Yan's thoughts are very traditional.

"Yes." Yan Anxi, "if my mother is still alive, then, with her ideas and ideas, she will definitely be very opposed to my marriage with muchiyao. Because she felt that I would not be happy to marry into such a big family. "

"But You're lucky, Angie. You and Mu Chi Yao are happy now, and your parents will be happy for you. "

"Yes, I am very happy now. However, on second thought, if my mother stopped me at that time and I was successfully stopped by her, then I would not be so happy with Mu Chi Yao. I will miss a lifetime of happiness, I will regret a lifetime

Li Yan is stunned.

Yan Anxi smiled and said, "but I didn't have a mother at that time, and she won't stop me. So I married Mu Chi Yao, and we are very happy now. "

After a while, Li Yan said: "ah, girl Anxi I, I understand now, what you came to me for. "

Around such a big circle, and their own life experience, and take their own marriage as an example.

Yan Anxi, from beginning to end, is actually expressing a view that happiness is determined by oneself. Parents and families should not interfere too much. Even if happiness is wrong and inappropriate in the eyes of family members, the results should be borne by themselves and regretted by themselves.

Family members can't make any decisions for themselves.

In those days, if Yanxi's parents were still alive, they would certainly not agree with Yanxi's marriage to muchiyao.

It's not known how many sufferings people like Mu family will suffer when they marry in.

As far as the family background is concerned, it's not bad to find a family like ink maple. I don't know how happy I will be.

However, it turns out that Yan Anxi married mu chiyao, and now she is so happy that all women in Mu City envy her.

Yan Anxi smiled and said, "Auntie, if you can understand what I mean, I won't waste so much money. I've made such a big circle."

"Yes, you think. I get it. You think I should let go and not interfere in my early life. "

"Yes, yes, aunt is so clever!"

"What you also want to express is that sun made the wrong choice at the beginning of Xia Dynasty, and she will bear the consequences of the mistake herself. Even if she is wrong, there are some things, sometimes, she is willing to be wrong. At least, better than regret. "

"Yes, yes." Yan Anxi continued to nod, "Auntie, you have summed it up so well."

"You, girl Anxi, I understand your pains."

"In fact, I envy the beginning." Yan Anxi put down her chopsticks and took Li Yan's hand. "She has a father, a mother and now a lovely daughter, Xia. Li Yanjin has always loved her unconditionally. She's really happy. "

"You used to be a little bit pitiful, but it's all in the past. Now you're better."

"Mm-hmm, auntie, so, what I envy most about the beginning is that she has parents. However, I don't want her to have parents because of your over control and self righteous feeling that it's good for her, which makes me no longer envy.

"Do you think that my love for my first mother has bound her and become her worry?"

Yan Anxi was very clever and didn't answer directly, but said: "Auntie, I don't want you to interfere in her life, so dead. It makes you and her mother daughter relationship crack. "

"Ah, Anxi, you are also a mother now. You should understand that, being a mother, you should take care of your daughter's heart."

"I understand. I understand." Yan Anxi replied, "when you have a child, you will plan for him wholeheartedly. However, the times are different, and ideas have changed. So auntie, I have different ideas with you. "

"Is it?"

"Later, if our family grows up, I will not interfere in his life."

Yan Anxi has always felt very confident that she would be a very good mother.

A romantic who is very liberal, gives freedom, and never gets too involved.

Li Yan shook her head: "no, Anxi, when Mu Yiyan and mu nianan grow up, you will understand that it's not easy to be a mother."

"I always feel that a person's life will have his own life path. We can manage, we can help, but we should not interfere. "

"You think I'm wrong, too." Li Yan, "you're here to persuade me to make a good mistake with Chu Chu Chu and solve the problems of that year, right?"

"Auntie, I'm not right. If now, it's a mistake at the beginning, and it's still a big mistake. Then, I will definitely criticize her severely and let her apologize for your mistake. "

"Ah..." Li Yan sighed, "you are so one. I wonder if my mother has failed so much."

This suddenly raised the problem to such a high level that anhi could hardly resist.

But as soon as she turned her eyes, she came up with a solution.

"Aunt." She replied, "people are not perfect. Everyone makes mistakes. It's important to know how to correct them. You are really wrong about Li Yanjin and Chu Chu. But in other things, you're doing it right. "

"Other things?"

Li Yan is said to be in a mess. In fact, she needs a sense of self-identity.

Now, Yanxi is giving her that feeling.

"Yes, I think you are right about your divorce from your early father. What's more, you've done a lot of things that women never dare to do in their lives. " Yan Anxi, "you bravely divorced, fought for the right to raise at the beginning, and kept her away from the unhappiness of the family."

Li Yan said, "really?"

"Yes, many women don't have the courage to divorce. But aunt, you did. You are a good mother and very considerate. "