On Monday, Yang Yi sent Xi Xi and Lan Xin to school. Shortly after they came back, Lanzhou Kai took Wu Jingjing with them. Even Murphy could see the sadness between their eyes. She quickly took Yang Yi's place to make tea.
"Brother LAN, what happened?" Yang Yi slightly frowned and asked with concern.
Lanzhou Kaiping's work style is the same as his body shape. He is as stable as Mount Tai. Even if there are any small problems in business and amusement park construction site, he can handle them calmly, and almost never complain to Yang Yi.
Today's state of affairs is indeed a little abnormal.
"It's a big deal..." Lanzhou Kai sighed.
However, without waiting for him to finish, Wu Jingjing, discontented, snatched the beginning of the speech: "not big? Shouldn't such things be taken seriously? "
"I still want to say that small is not small..." Lanzhou Kai explained.
"What happened?" Yang Yi felt more and more strange.
"Isn't it Xin'er? Yesterday, I came back to see her homework, and I almost looked silly! " Lanzhou Kai said, taking out his large screen mobile phone, looking for a photo to Yang Yi, "you see the diary she wrote, and the teacher's comments."
It's not easy for Lanzhou Kai. He didn't think about how to deal with it, so he didn't talk about it. When Lanxin came back from Chengdu last night, he didn't mention a word. Now, he told Yang Yi about it after Lanxin went to school.
At first, Yang Yi thought it was just Lanxin who was lazy and didn't keep a diary or something. But he came to see it, and he couldn't help being stunned.
"Fortunately, I didn't eat any biscuits in the back of the classroom! Xiaoya doesn't eat biscuits, but I think it's delicious
The above is the whole content of the diary. Of course, there are a lot of Pinyin in the middle. This is only a complete translation.
Seeing this, Yang Yi knows why Lanzhou Kai is worried
Petty theft is not a good habit!
Compare your heart to heart, and change Xi Xi's words like this Yang Yi thinks Lanzhou Kai should be in a state of collapse when she saw this diary yesterday.
My God, there are billions of property in the family. What do you want? Because you are hungry, you run to steal other people's biscuits? Can Lanzhou Kai's head not explode? Can Wu Jing not lose his temper just now?
It's also Lanzhou Kai. She's calm. Last night, Lanxin came back and didn't hang her up and beat her up!
But then again, Lanzhou Kai is right. It's not a big deal. Because children always make mistakes like this and that, and they don't have a correct world outlook. They can't be determined by one thing.
Yang Yi looks at the bottom, this diary is for the teacher to check, sure enough, Li Ruolan also made a response, she left a line of scarlet letter below.
"Next time can not take other people's snacks to eat, if you feel hungry, can come to the teacher here, the teacher brought an apple, can give you half!"
A line of understatement immediately appeased Yang Yigang's impetuous mind.
Li Ruolan clearly understood, and knew that if such a thing was handled too rigidly, it would bring a sense of shame that might never be forgotten in the whole life of the child!
Maybe Lanxin doesn't feel anything now. If she grows up and is sensible, she remembers that she was once called to the office by the teacher and reprimanded in front of many people, so that she can understand that she shouldn't take other people's or Xiaoya's snacks secretly, and that she will have to bear a heavy psychological burden in her life.
"Fortunately, Miss Li didn't do this. I think her comments are very good and can solve the problem." Yang Yi explains to Lanzhou Kai and Wu Jingjing, "you see, on the one hand, she tells Lanxin that it's not right to do so. On the other hand, she also encourages Lanxin to find her help to solve the problem. It's not that Lanxin is hungry and can't do this. She also gives solutions to the problem, so that Lanxin doesn't have to worry about her hunger. ”
"she's hungry. We can ask her to bring something to school! No matter how bad, she also has pocket money in her schoolbag. She can buy food at the school's canteen. How can she want to get other students' biscuits? Oh, I really don't know what she thinks! " Wu Jingjing said, patting her thigh impatiently.
"Sister Jing, don't worry about getting angry. Let's find a solution together." Murphy saw this, then added some hot tea to her, advised, "you first drink some tea, calm down."
"Let's just let the past go. Haven't all the teachers handled us well? We don't need to investigate too much. In fact, you can see that Xin'er usually comes back well, which means that she has accepted the teacher's instruction and will not do so in the future. " Yang Yi said with a smile, "you are anxious and angry now, on the contrary, it makes the child feel very afraid, which has a certain impact on her mental health development."
"In this case, I'm just worried that she doesn't think the teacher should do the same thing, and our parents should not do the same thing. Her heart is still careless, and she thinks it's smart to do so. What if something different happens next time? Does she also want to solve this problem? " Lanzhou Kai is not as anxious as Wu Jingjing, but he is also very worried, and slowly explains his worries to Yang Yi.Yang Yi can't help but fall into meditation, Lanzhou Kai's words also have a point. Moreover, this remark reminds him of a case in the children's education book he read before.
Although many years have passed, Yang Yi still has a fresh memory.
It's about a senior teacher in a primary school who finds out that student a stole student B's pocket money and spent it on buying hamsters. This process of investigation and interrogation with student a is a battle of wits and courage, comparable to a criminal case. But the teacher was very friendly. She didn't want to embarrass student a too much, so she secretly gave student a the corresponding amount of money, and asked him to secretly return it to student B. then student a would use his own pocket money to return it to the teacher, and student a agreed.
If this is the end of the story, everyone is happy, chicken soup is full of flavor!
However, later, when the teacher talked about this matter with the head teacher of student a (this teacher is only the teacher in this class), he was shocked to find that student a stole other people's things, not once or twice! And his head teacher, also said many times, even helped him to advance money, but he never changed after repeated teaching
This kind of thing made the primary school teacher who told the story into confusion. She felt that she was really good for the child, but by doing so, it could be said that she helped him cover up his mistakes. Maybe, he would feel at ease and be more generous!
Lanzhou Kai's worry is just right on the point!
While Yang Yi was meditating, Murphy also felt that this was a big problem, and he also began to persuade him: "Yang Yi, help brother LAN and sister Jing think about how to tell xiner. I think it's a small problem, but isn't it an old saying? Do the little ones steal the needles and the big ones steal the cattle? We have to take it seriously. "
"Yes, yes, Xiao Yang, you have the best way to teach children. Help us think about what to do!" Wu Jingjing said.
Lanzhou Kai also nodded, he and Wu quietly sat there, is a gloomy atmosphere in the air.
Yang Yi nodded gently. He continued to think for a long time, then slowly said: "I still think that this matter needs to be solved from two angles. First, we should follow the teacher's method to deal with this matter in Xin'er's diary, let it pass. Second, on the basis of not mentioning this matter, let me come. I'll find xiner and Xixi together and tell them a story. In the story, teach them these principles of life, OK? Don't put too much pressure on children
Lanzhou Kai and Wu Jingjing still trust Yang Yi, and listen to him say so, the heart is also a lot of down-to-earth, quickly and happily nodded.
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