It was also after a bickering that the restaurant returned to normal again.
It was almost 2 o'clock at the moment.
Originally, everyone just wanted to have lunch in a place near the Municipal Public Security Bureau in Haidong City, but an unexpected incident here made everyone a little uneasy.
More specifically, sympathy for what happened to this young woman.
Officer Wang took a sip of water, and said involuntarily, "Sister, why don't we break up? If your boyfriend can't bear the pressure from his parents, no matter how you try to save him, it will be useless."
"In my opinion, instead of this, it's better to be divided."
"But, I have been with Ah Hao for several years." The young woman was also a little reluctant.
Lu Weiwei frowned slightly, and said slowly: "Although saying such things will hurt you a lot, but according to my sister's persuasion, the chances of the two of you being together are very small."
"I know, I know that you are good to me, I will think about it myself, thank you."
The young woman seemed to have great grievances. Before, it was the middle-aged woman who scolded her, but now it is everyone's persuasion.
"Haha." Shaking her head, the proprietress also smiled and said:
"There is something to do, don't think about yourself." Du Yanai said.
"They said, what if that's the case?"
"The first-class marriage, in the final analysis, is not to continue the incense, but the middle-class marriage is to seek synergy."
"Especially for a man, if he takes care of the baby at home, this man will sacrifice himself to fulfill his husband."
"When one side sees value in the other, that's the end of the nitpicking."
Xiaojia was also in the restaurant, chatted with each other peacefully, and then the young man left the restaurant and disappeared around the corner.
Although everyone is telling the truth, how can there be any reason to break up the four-year relationship?
"And many people who come into contact with the opposite sex are more difficult to wishful thinking."
"But even that girlfriend who can bring a sense of danger chooses to betray you and abandon you at this time. Maybe you are really desperate?"
The fat proprietress smiled: "As for the low-level marriage, this one is about choosing comrades."
"There will be no deadline."
"The premise of equal cooperation must be evenly matched. It is a delusion to pay a high price to obtain low returns."
"Eighth, while paying attention to the long board, pay more attention to the short board. He will quickly get used to the long board and quickly make it a standard model. The trivial things that he didn't have before marriage, and the lack of parental and foreign problems all come from his ability to endure each other for a long time. short board."
The young man also thanked again and said: "Now you leave first, it's really a bad idea to delay their meal there."
"There must be no savings, and your parents are still in harmony, so you can't do what you want, and you can eat what you want. Is there anything that can make your growing self feel threatened?"
The young woman took a sip of water, stood up, and bowed to everyone: "Thank you everyone for standing up for me, thank you, I need to deal with the future by myself, I will make an appointment with Ah Hao and tell him clear."
"As for the two parties before they regained their rationality, as long as there is a problem with their heads, they will definitely weigh the pros and cons."
With a faint sigh, the proprietress also continued: "So, if you ask me, it's more reliable to marry later."
"Then get married. The choice is not a person, but a relationship. That is the first reality that he must fully understand."
"The so-called mature mind is the necessary prerequisite for retreating into marriage. Without this prerequisite, it is difficult to control the situation of marriage."
"But that's also your fault. You may have a weaker mental capacity because of your family since you were young."
"As for the undergarment of love, if you wear it for a long time, it will definitely wear out and become desensitized. It's all a genetic decision. It's a problem with the marriage. Genes use love to trick him into getting out of marriage for the sake of reproduction."
After snapping her fingers, the fat proprietress also shook her left index finger at Ahao: "That handsome guy is right, you didn't mean that."
"But that kind of person often lacks a sense of danger. He must have met a relationship that can bring him a sense of security. You will definitely want to catch it."
"And to find the other half, you need to find someone with the same frequency. That's the meaning. Xiaojia can't be reconciled but the same, and they can't be independent."
"You know that your brain is brain-dead, but you are very sweet, this woman named Gu Chen, what a shame."
"This is not the premise of bad any relationship, it must be a win-win situation."
"Gradually you will find out that fate is also there, and it is time to say goodbye."
"A marriage agency." The proprietress said with a smile. "It's more deadly than screwing up anything."
"But those are the problems of the original family, the importance of what you have been satisfied, and the sense of submission that accompanies you all your life."
"For you, the cost of trial and error is extremely low, and it is reversible. Whether there is an age for marriage, you have to follow the trend."
Seeing that everyone was listening with gusto, the fat proprietress immediately got excited and continued to explain:
"There is a small probability that it will change before marriage, and it will go the other way."
Seeing that Du Yan'ai seemed to put herself under this young man, she felt various emotions there.
Since the meal time has passed, there are only a few people left outside the restaurant, so you wipe your hands with the towel under the dining table, take a cup of tea, and take the initiative to walk among the crowd:
"This eldest sister, a single-parent family, and from your conversation with your girlfriend's mother, you can't know that your father is still a gambler."
"If the boy gets that kind of result, what if he thinks it's okay? After all, because of relationship problems, you have encountered two incidents of jumping off the building in the first place this year alone. They either jumped off the building or jumped into the river."
"It's a girl who is going to jump off the building, and a boy is going to jump into the river. Both are emotionally hurt and out of control."
"That's right, the old Wang's hand is right." Seeing that Police Officer Wang would not be so emotional, Lu Weiwei vomited and said slowly:
"You heard what the middle-aged man said just now. It's really too much."
Listening to the fat proprietress's talk, Lu Weiwei was also taken aback for a while, but couldn't help but interrupted:
"That's right, my Du Yan's mother will also invite you outside the restaurant to discuss."
"To touch the marriage?" Police Officer Wang was also quite interested when he heard it: "Is it so slight?"
"The so-called finding a mature person is not to improve stability."
"But is it?" Police Officer Wang picked up the fast food, put a few pieces of fried beef on the plate and put it in his mouth, before chewing and swallowing, he said hastily:
"Who is he talking about? There was no discrimination against single-parent families in those days. If there is no choice, can they become children of single-parent families?"
"This middle-aged man is simply too much." Lu Weiwei picked up a glass of drink under the table and immediately drank it down. She also said in a bad temper:
"It's sure that the girl chose to stand on your side. You think, the boy may be disheartened, and it is very unlikely that he will do something stupid like jumping off a building and committing suicide."
"Bad picture, before this big sister experienced that turmoil, you are now the end of your life, no one restrains you."
The proprietress who was cleaning up the table at the side couldn't help laughing when she heard this.
"So." As soon as Lu Weiwei finished speaking, the fat proprietress also slapped the table and said out of reason:
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"Yes." The young man nodded silently, and then said: "You go first, the meeting is not scheduled."
"But is it?" Seeing that the proprietress didn't agree, Police Officer Wang also echoed, "It doesn't look like this kind of brain damage."
"If this Gu Chen listens to my mother and misses that boy, you think I will regret it for the rest of my life."
The fat proprietress grinned: "Everyone who came here was solved by the fire rescue, and it took a long time to persuade them."
"However, when it comes to value considerations, there are not too many differences. That is the premise of mutual understanding and tolerance."
"Why do you choose comrades-in-arms? You can retreat only when you are utterly honest. No matter what kind of relationship he chooses? It's an afterthought."
"Maybe he just graduated, and he takes his feelings too seriously." Lu Weiwei lay back under the seat, and said for a reason:
"However, whether it is bad for him is a matter of behavior and will, which will change due to motivation, and is not stable."
"Yeah." Hearing the fat proprietress' explanation, Ahao could also understand.
After thinking about it, Yuan Shasha immediately changed her tune: "Yes, it was a discussion, it was a warning."
"The focus will be on practicality, and a marriage that rots starts with a relationship of equals."
Yuan Shasha vomited and said slowly: "Look, it's not that Gu Chen is too wimpy to make this young boy feel wronged."
Shaking her head, Du Yan'ai also sighed helplessly: "It's really pitiful to meet that kind of family."
"You can't do anything, and you can't do anything, because comfort makes time slow."
"Pfft! Choose comrades? Then why did you choose comrades?" Du Yan'ai felt hesitant when he heard the explanation.
"Sure, you mean sure, sure that the boy just now loves this girl."
"What about this low-level marriage?" Hearing what the chubby proprietress said, Yuan Shasha also focused on Gerry, and immediately asked again.
"Where are you coming here?" Hearing this, Ah Hao hurriedly asked.
When Yuan Shasha found you, she smiled and said, "Miss Boss, are you right?"
Looking around, the proprietress continued: "In addition, in order to prevent me from misjudging him, he also needs to be big enough."
"Living to the fullest, maybe even life becomes more and more like a wilderness. This is the ideal 18-year-old."
"This is the best." Yuan Shasha nodded slightly, and said with relief.
So she nodded slightly, and echoed, "The proprietress means that this girl's current state is too suitable for getting married right away, and she needs to be urgent."
After taking a deep sip of tea, the fat proprietress also shook her head, "I'm afraid that something like that will happen."
"The seventh is to pay attention to what he needs, not what the other party doesn't have. The other party's career and ambition, no matter how it attracts him."
"And when love enters and the marriage is only a cooperative relationship, it's not that there is no hormonal attack, and the basic rationality will be restored."
"Look at the background of marriage, and how to find yourself after marriage, and then talk about how to find your partner and reduce the error rate."
"Lu Weiwei, don't be angry, it's because of that kind of person." Police officer Wang took a sip of water while speaking.
"Now, very few mothers and precious girls are really terrible. They obey their parents in everything. You are afraid that this girl named Gu Chen will listen to my mother's words and choose to break up with that elder sister."
"It may not be until a long time later that you have to deny it. It turns out that you can be very happy marrying another girl."
"So when a person is at that age, the worst thing is to touch marriage. That is one of the few decisions in that life and a life-changing decision."
"No time, I may feel that what I miss is a person, but in fact, what I can't possibly miss is another life."
After a pause, the fat proprietress said again:
The fat proprietress didn't mind, she just smiled and continued to explain:
It was also before watching the young man leave that Xiaojia breathed a sigh of relief and repeated the relaxed atmosphere just now, which still seems to have dissipated.
"But once the mission is accomplished, the feeling of love will go away."
"If he wants to live a Buddhist life, he just wants to get there. The needs are matched, and there is absolutely no way to go together in the long run."
"How is it slight? Like the young boy just now, you are the most suitable for marriage now."
"It's just that the marriage relationship has been covered with the coat of love, so few people see the inside and outside of the coat."
"So it's too low, and proper reference is not enough."
"Marriage is a long-term relationship with a signed contract, and long-term relationships have to look at problems from a developmental perspective."
"Actually, you are marrying him, but he is happy. You can't live happily ever after marrying anyone."
Putting on Kuaizi, with a faint sigh, Police Officer Wang said again: "You never have time to always doubt that the boy you love must marry you. In that life, you will be happy."
"The so-called fate is ice, he hugged it tightly outside his arms, and the ice melted."
"In your opinion, if that Gu Chen misses that boy, you think I will regret it."
"Anyway, I just don't have the mind to get married, and the feelings to get married."
"The minimum meaning of the late marriage is reflected in that, so that he doesn't have enough time to accumulate value and confidence."
"Yes, what they said is correct." The proprietress is a fat middle-aged man, and she has been paying attention to the conversation between Ahao and the others just now.
Looking at the people coming and going at the entrance of the restaurant, Du Yan'ai said again:
"The opportunity cost and the willingness cost are all included here, so that his significant other can only measure him by the value of having a baby."
"To put it bluntly, the bit and the one who is being picked on will either be wronged or fight back. It's okay to be equal, but problems will arise in the long run."
Putting the teacup on, the fat boss also raised his fingers and said with gestures:
"The meaning is to pay attention to each other. It is convenience rather than changeable attributes. Personality and native family, life attitude and education background, all of these things have very stable attributes."
"Tsk!" Seeing Police Officer Wang retorting to herself, the chubby proprietress shrank forward and retorted with a "tsk" from her mouth:
"Ma'am, what did he do after he opened the restaurant? Why does he know so much about those things?"