Chapter 35

3:30 p.m.

It's still half an hour before school, but it's crowded with people.

You don't have to guess. These are all parents who come to pick up their children.

Chen Xi, a young man in his twenties, stood among a group of uncles and aunts, which seemed to stand out from the crowd.

The children are playing games on the playground of the kindergarten.

Chen Xi looked at the little guy across the fence and found that she was having fun on the slide. She didn't notice herself standing outside the fence at all.

It seems that she has forgotten to find Baba happily, which also makes Chen Xi feel much at ease.

He is really afraid that he will not adapt to the kindergarten environment.

Can never let children suffer from autism, depression and other strange diseases, because these involve mental health and other heart diseases, he really has no rule of law

Chen Xi stood outside the wall and looked at him. At this time, an aunt suddenly reached out and patted him.

"Hey, young man, are you a child of Sister Zhang's family?"

Chen Xi looked back and saw a smiling eldest sister standing behind him.

It's the fat aunt he met when he first came back from the community.

"Ah? Yes, I live in unit 302, unit 1, building 5. Aunt, are you

"Hey, I just said, I always think you look familiar. It seems that you have seen it several times in the community. Just now, I suddenly saw Niannian inside, so I thought, is Niannian your child... My last name is Qian, you call aunt Qian, and my grandson is also inside. Look, it's the troublemaker. "

Fat aunt said, laughing and pointing to the boy running like the wind on the playground.

Looking at her posture, I'm afraid she has completely forgotten that she once regarded Chen Xi as a crazy beggar.

"Hello, aunt Qian. I'm working outside. I just came home for a while, so I can't even recognize my next door neighbor..."

"It's okay, it's okay. You'll know each other in a while."

Aunt Qian waved her hand, laughed and said, "I tell you, your family Niannian is the best child in our community. The little girl is not cute. Our family pengpeng likes to play with her best."

"Really? Ha ha... "

Chen Xi smiled politely.

Maybe it's because he's not used to dealing with uncle and aunt, so he doesn't know what to say now. He can only laugh and listen to Aunt Qian's nagging.

"That's necessary. Last time I teased my silly boy and said that he would marry Niannian to him when he grew up. Hey, you didn't see that the silly boy blushed like a monkey's ass and was ashamed to death. "

"Really?"

"Of course, don't mention it. Now four or five-year-old children are much smarter than us at that time. It can tell who looks good and who doesn't. Many children in the community like to play with Niannian, but in the past, only Sister Zhang took the children alone, so she didn't have much time to play with Niannian. Now that you're back, you should often bring them out to play... "

Hearing the speech, Chen Xi nodded and said yes with a smile on her face, but she suddenly had some vigilance in her heart.

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Martinson (S.M.) believes that children begin to have the consciousness and behavior of love for the opposite sex from the age of about 3.

Children have a strong thirst for knowledge and are very concerned about all things, including human organs.

Sometimes it's a person, sometimes it's a partner of the opposite sex, or let each other have a look at the X organs, or touch them with their hands.

Its manifestations are mostly games such as [imitating a doctor], [lifting a skirt], [fake marriage], [playing house] and so on.

According to the survey of 290 children conducted by RB Nagoya youth agreement in 1970, 201 of them did the act of lifting skirts, while 70% of them stopped lifting skirts under the eyes of adults; 167 peeping at toilets; 164 peepers from under the skirt; 108 people fiddle with X organs.

It can be seen that this is a common behavior among children, which can not be effectively avoided.

At the thought of this, Chen Xi felt a little uncomfortable.

Dare you think of my daughter?

No, I have to find a chance to popularize the knowledge of sex education

The development of human sexual psychology and the formation of gender roles have certain laws. Generally, if it is allowed to develop naturally, the result is often normal; However, if some incorrect educational methods are imposed on children, it is likely to form abnormal results.

Especially for children aged 3 to 5, through sex education, children's sex should be recognized by society and individuals in the sense of sexual sociology and sexual psychology.  

If you find that the child has incorrect sexual performance, you should calmly and patiently correct it, guide it naturally, and can't scold or intimidate.

For example, when children play with X organs, some mothers angrily scold and stop them: "don't move!"“ Dirty! Don't touch this place! "“ Shame! Don't touch it in the future! "

Or forcibly pull it apart with your hands, or even beat it up. In fact, this is very easy to affect children. They have formed a wrong concept since childhood: X organs are dirty, invisible and untouchable. Therefore, all activities related to x should be restrained, otherwise they will be punished. Children have been in this closed or conservative environment for a long time, and their sexual needs are suppressed tangible or intangible. If it is serious, it will even cause physical and mental obstacles or diseases. Therefore, letting nature take its course and guiding correctly is the only effective and correct way. Perhaps it was because of the traditional ideas. After chatting with aunt Qian, Chen Xi's mood was very complicated. Niannian is a girl after all, so he always feels that his daughter will suffer... Although Chen Xi also knows that it's all children's mischief and more about their nature and instinct as human beings, he still feels a little unhappy... Very unhappy... Very unhappy... The kindergarten is over at 4 p.m. Chen Xi crowded to the school gate. The little guy saw Chen Xi in the crowd at a glance. She shouted "Baba" while trying to get out of the iron gate, but Miss Wang stopped her in time. The children in the kindergarten can't be picked up by anyone. When Miss Wang saw Chen Xi, she took Niannian's hand and took the little guy outside the school“ Baba! " The little guy just walked through the iron gate and suddenly fell on Chen Xi's leg. Then he held Chen Xi's thigh, leaned back his little head and said sweetly, "Baba, I miss you so much!"“ Good, MUA! " Chen Xi laughed and picked up the little guy, then held her and said to Mr. Wang, "say goodbye to the teacher."“ Goodbye, teacher! " The little guy waved his little hand hard and seemed to have a good impression of Mr. Wang. Mr. Wang and Chen Xi were polite and praised the little guy. After he was very sensible, she was busy sending another child. Chen Xi walked on the road holding Niannian, while the little guy excitedly told him what he had experienced today“ Niannian, do you like kindergarten? "“ Like it! " Hearing the speech, the little guy immediately nodded heavily. She has always been playing alone. Suddenly, she will be very happy with so many little partners of the same age“ Will dad bring you tomorrow? "“ Good! "“ Good. " Chen Xi touched her little face and guessed in her heart, This novel has been translated by www.novelhall.com and if you are reading this somewhere, they have stopped our translation